hackney:

This is for situations where the girl is always out either by herself or with friends

Its simply a natural instinct to avoid settling down with an 'outgoing' girl because they are less likely to be 'children-oriented' than the homely ones (if you think about it).

They tend not to know how to 'cosy up' a home and it seems that is what makes them 'out-going' in the first place.
They seek attention and are usually self-indulgent and also more likely to engage in infidelity.

There is nothing nurturing about a girl that is always out ;Yes they make the party scene or the club bang but marry her? why?
infact they make poor mums as going out all the time is a big sign of selfishness and superficiality.

If you think about it ,if she is that out-going then why would you want to build a home with her knowing that she will never be there. It just doesnt fit.

Call me old fashioned but unless you are 1st world through and through (in which case you would have lost most of your perspective on normal) then you wont see the issue till she wants to leave (she got bored!!)

Generalizations.  .  .
As for the reference to them making poor mums.  .  .it is called 'growing up', people do that.
Eventually they tire of it.  .  .sensible people anyway.

Luxoire, word

Frankies:

To start with, I hate club girls, I am really surprised that some people are saying that there could be  an angel in the club . Rubbish!!!!!!!!!!

Till eternity, homely girls will always make the best wives . No two way about that.

hilli666:

Like I said, "If you are a man (real man) It does not matter where you meet a girl e.g Nite club or church, She will comport to your ideals eventually. No matter how hard headed or tough she thinks. Was it not princes Diana that ended up with play boy "fayad" Or the  Woman chair man of a well know American bank the participated in a fraud for her Russian boyfriend totalling 300 million dollars, and the list goes on. Women are genetically predisposed to go out with people who are more manly. It survival instinct.

hilli666:

Like I said, "If you are a man (real man) It does not matter where you meet a girl e.g Nite club or church, She will comport to your ideals eventually. No matter how hard headed or tough she thinks. Was it not princes Diana that ended up with play boy "fayad" Or the  Woman chair man of a well know American bank the participated in a fraud for her Russian boyfriend totalling 300 million dollars, and the list goes on. Women are genetically predisposed to be submissive or attracted towards people who are more manly. It survival instinct.

Sam Milla:

Sometimes arguments show up here unnecessary.
Boys defending themselves whiles girls are doing the same.

No one wants to be neutral anymore. So sad.

Nothing is bad about a girl being outgoing.
Except that she would be vulnerable to men.
A man can decide not to toast a girl for one year.
A girl can never do the same because she cant stop men from toasting her.
(Whether she beautiful or not)

Now see it this way, A girl can decide not to pay attention to whatever men tell her but trust me,
By the time about 50 guys finish talking to her, she must notice the one with Big Muscles, handsome face and fat wallet. Not to say girls are greedy but Girls Like guys with Money and big cars and famous

Now that makes some men feel insecure about the girls they love, especially when they are the out going type.

By the way OUTGOING can be defined in different ways.
Here in Europe, men allow their girls to go to clubs alone.
Approach the lady and she will cheerfully tell you she has a boyfriend even if you are Brad Pitt.
The case is different in Nigeria, Allow your girl to go to club alone and she will give birth to Tuface's Child in Nine Months. That kind of things also ,make our men feel insecure. So they prefer the ones who would refuse to go to club if their boyfriends refuse to go with them.

Who wouldn't prefer that?

bluespice:

i dont think so richy

i think he just clarified the issue of being "outgoing"

bluespice:

get ur holier-than-thou self outta here!
come here talking 'kept' ladies not found in clubs
**rolls eyes**

that a lady hangs out in a club is no definition of who she is
i know folks who dress 'holy' complete with full body covering (no direct reflection on anything that comes to mind)
and are as loose as they come
shiet hoes mess for money
she fu.cks for the damn reason. . fucking
how about that?

bluespice:

uncle sam i think u hoodwinked me 

i take my applause back jare

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MAURI:

Hell no!
I find outgoing and independent babes interesting and attractive.
Bring it on,