From a female LIB reader
My husband sleeps with my maids. I have always suspected him till I brought one that exposed him after much troubles in the home. In fact this marriage almost broke up few months ago as a result of this, I have brought another girl who am even trying to brush up, my husband is still sleeping with her, the girl confessed to me on Tuesday after much suspicion and persuasion from me, it appears he carries the girl whole sale immediately I leave to work. I work and have to go to work everyday, I also have 2 kids of 6 and 3yrs, also he has been out of job for sometimes now. I am the one paying the bills, so I need this job and also a maid to take care of the kids.
My home has always been threatened because of his cheating attitudes, but I decided to over look it thinking it was just his numerous girl friends out there, but with my maids? He came back from a journey 2months ago and promised he has changed and that he has decided to put pride away and make his marriage work, i accepted and there has been peace in the house since then, but I thought he will respect him self and keep away from my maids. I feel he is suspecting that I am aware of his recent moves and has started causing trouble in the house again, but I don't want to ask him. I want to take the maid to our pastor and also a close family friend so that she can say all that has happened before them.

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ok

This kind news no be today.

May be u no d do your part well

You get mind ooo.You know that he has numerous girlfriends and you didn't do a "fucck" about it?
Why don't you follow the bible verse that says whatever makes you to sin,cut it off.
Cut that his prick as soon as possible before you'll have little girls as your junior wives.

den stop employing maids and do the chores yourself

Once a HE-GOAT always a HE-GOAT

Btw why will you be keeping GOAT and YAM together

No matter how holy the goat is

Him go chop am naa,

So stop employing maids to save yourself

HAD I KNOWN

SOSA_SPOKE_THIS

He'll change. Just pray he nor infest u with krokro.

Lol @ he has been out of work for quite some time. Obviously not! He's been a busy boy in the bedroom, rather than the boardroom.

Anyway, I do not understand how she's allowing herself to put up with this, from this good for nothing bum that's not even adding any value to her life. Kick him to the curb, sista!

k

wicked soul

IamDino:
You get mind ooo.You know that he has numerous girlfriends and you didn't do a "fucck" about it?
Why don't you follow the bible verse that says whatever makes you to sin,cut it off.
Cut that his prick as soon as possible before you'll have little girls as your junior wives.

Its nt easy to work and stil maintain d home esp with kids that are barely babies.U need a helping hand. Get an houseboy as for his frolicking u cannot force to not eat out.Pray sis!

Before we start crucifying the man.....
I still believe there's something the woman is not doing right or is doing wrong that keeps getting the man hooked up with the maids
















There are always 3 sides to every story...
The Complainant's side, The Defendant's side and, The Witness side
The wife don complain..... where the man version and the maids version

naijaboiy:
Yawn!

Since when did Nairaland become LIB?

Lmao...initially, I thought it was library. Did she mean Linda Ikeji's blog?

Pls madam, house help knows different between good and bad, focus on your daughters, your hubby is clearly a perv.!

prettytasha:
den stop employing maids and do the chores yourself

dat is what common sense will tell a rational person to do

Get a male maid houseboy. Preferably, someone older than your husband

Havana haha haha haha.... wickedness

Abee79:
Get a male maid houseboy. Preferably, someone older than your husband

McCarlito:
Before we start crucifying the man.....
I still believe there's something the woman is not doing right or is doing wrong that keeps getting the man hooked up with the maids
















There are always 3 sides to every story...
The Complainant's side, The Defendant's side and, The Witness side
The wife don complain..... where the man version and the maids version

Nonsense actually! What excuse will the man have for sleeping with the maids( some are perhaps underage)? His wife is working, it's either he looks after his kids without the help of any maid or he should take up his time by looking for jobs! He's a pig with no tangible excuse!
What's his excuse?; "oh my wife is working to feed I and our kids, she doesn't have my time anymore so I'm going to screw any maid she brings home"

McCarlito:
Before we start crucifying the man.....
I still believe there's something the woman is not doing right or is doing wrong that keeps getting the man hooked up with the maids

There are always 3 sides to every story...
The Complainant's side, The Defendant's side and, The Witness side
The wife don complain..... where the man version and the maids version

Somehow, it's always the woman's fault.
Is it so hard to say that a man was wrong on this site?