hob:
We dey 4 ur back like Olumo rock
Privacy intrusion is illegal

Cutehector:
Bros, chei I support u

Cutehector:
Bros, chei I support u

modelmike7:
In as much as you have a right to your privacy, still if you dont have anything to hide, you guys can exchange phones anytime...... Lady involved, i hope you will be on this thread to comment o? Lets hear from you too! All the best in your relationship.

libertyfather:



By their comment you shall know them, awon oniranu

libertyfather:



By their comment you shall know them, awon oniranu

misspicy:
well am somewhat guilty of this habit too,but with time i get bored and stop it until a guy gives me reason to doubt him...

inshort i have been saved a lot of relationship headaches by going thru his chats..eg that is when you will know if you are a side chick or main chick , if he has other girls on his radar....

note i can do this vice versa as i have nothing to hide...so oga Ade davedoz what do you have to hide by clearing your chat history

Davedoz:



My dear, that's exactly what she says.... "It makes me know if I'm a side chic or if I'm a play thing or if I'm the main chic"
that's not a smart thing... Now my buttercup apart. Cuz my advise won't make sense to her right now.....
Misspicy, lemi advise you! Do you know status can change? Plans can change! Reasoning can change! Outlook to life and relationship can change! A rich man today might be a poor man tomorrow! And a poor man today can be a rich man tomorrow! A side chic today can be your wife tomorrow! I might be in another relationship or I might be jokingly/seriously saying something to a friend or I might be trying to have casual sex with another gal or she might even be the so called side chic , and she sees it, you know what happens from there, it kills the relationship! Neither you nor her can tell if this present relationship can end up in marriage or something better! But there, she has already use her prying eyes to kill a relationship that might have potential in it. Then she leaves me and goes into the next relationship and the same thing happens. She ends it again. And the cycle continues! Don't you know That, the guy might change tomorrow, he might decide to grow up and make you his one and only. He can decide to stick with you! You are a far better quality than the gal that's a so called main chic. Or he ends the stupid relationships he's having and sticks with you! But you've ended it. See I no sabi explain abeg, just ask Annie Idibia!

IamLEGEND1:
all of una don craze finish
and why you typing like an imbecilé just bcoz ur babe could potentially see the thread.
stop being a wuss.

+ ur babe is cray-cray.... my advice: dump her and run while you still can.

coz na her type fit kidnap (adultnap) you and tie you up in her basement if you break up with her.

They are paranoid and extremely insecure, I guess she already told you that when she said that's just who she is.

*Drops mic*

gamaliel121:
Generally, bit-cheese like to read dia niggas text...its fuccking normaal....

Derz a way you can still do that chat thing sha....


Delete in between messages...(asin the things u texted or received that she may not like to see and leave the normal talk.)

Do it in a way that the convo rymes sha...lol

I don't know if u understand...


U have to be coded to make this work...if u perfect this shiit..my nigga...she will read and read and read and see nothing..



Btw....why do bit-cheese read dia niggas text??


I don't read my mamis text because I'll surly see something I don't like..even if it doesn't mean that something is up...

misspicy:


yea i gat it buh i still stand on my point it lets us know where we stand in a relationship....eg i might be thinking am his all meanwhile am just a side kick,i use my brain sharperly n take a walk instead of cooking,cleaning and laundering his cloths when my guy has original plans for another babe...seriously if you all call it insecurity,imaturity or what have you...i call it smarting up...besides this theory has helped me alot of times eg when i caught my guy cheating,den he gives me a bull and dog story of how the girl came for him,den i discovered thru their chats that my so called boyfriend is spoiling me by calling me names with this babe,please who am i to believe......

guys are mean i tell you,we ladies just have to employ every trick to hold dem down...but tell your gf she is not a smart snoop and she still needs to learn how to kip detaila of previous relationships from her guy coz he is going to use it against her,eg you just did

Davedoz:




My dear, she once admitted using such method you mentioned above! And I'm way too smart to know about the method before now! But you know what? I don't have time for such editing! I don't! clear the whole thing!


Also I really don't know why ladies (not 'bit-cheese' you disrespectful call it. It's unfair na, you have a mum, a sister a cousin, name it! Respect them small) read chats and messages! Dey even go as far as checking call logs, some chronic insecure ones check contact list! I don't have that time! I always go with the vibes I get from the lady, the signals, how dey treat me. That's what matters! If you lie and call me a side guy or a mugu/maga (which I can't even be!) I will surely find out one day! No stress! For now let's enjoy the relationship and see how it goes!

Davedoz:




Ok. Noted. And I do understand you! I will tell you exactly what I told her. . . . The day reading chats and messages prevents heart breaks and prolongs relationships I will start practicing it!



Concerning your last line, that implies. . . . . "I am using it against her!" I actually think I'm using it FOR her. I'm using it to help her here! Far from it, that I rub that on her face, using it mockingly or making jest with it, or using it to get a dig at her! Nah! I'm in a relationship to make you a better person, to improve you, help get to your goals and make you sexually raz (I no wan lie, so I had to add that!). I'm not like that, I'm actually helping her see that her method kills relationship and it will never build a relationship! Never! Instead, you create a smooth liar and player out of the man when he knows you're bent on reading messages. Except guys aint smart enough I can always make you see the perfect thing 'you wanna see' whenever you read my chats! Its easy! See that's why I said you'll only end up breeding a smooth liar and a deadly player out of the guy! I rest my case!

hob:
We dey 4 ur back like Olumo rock


Privacy intrusion is illegal

misspicy:

and that is why i said she wasnt smart enuff by hinting you on what she does....its supposed to be a catch him red handed thing......so u wunt even know n u will let your guide down.... i rest my case

libertyfather:



By their comment you shall know them, awon oniranu

Davedoz:



My dear, I get you ojare.
But, when you check and you see nothing! What happens? You check another day! And you still see nothing! You continue to check until you see the one that is worth ending the relationship for!
But, Ladies make una think am small, does that make any sense........ Looking for negatives! Like literally searching for troubles that can end your relationship with a guy that has shown you beyond every reasonable doubt that he loves you!

Make you and my Soft candy continue! When una marry, una come see for una husband phone, una go tell me whether una go divorce the man that time!

misspicy:

.....as long as a guy is pure he has nothing to fear...all i know is thatbeen teamsnoop has helped me greatly and a host of oda women,eg a woman gets to know her hubby willed all his estate to another wife she is not aware of,she confronted him n got lawyers involved and she eventually got her share...

Davedoz:



My Nigga.... Your comments got me cracked up!
You seem like a guy that knows about jacking and all.....
So allow me to praise myself:
I'm not a wuss, the moment you see me, there is nothing wuss about it! I'm a full blooded JACK! Infact fellow jacks have awarded me Professorship! I've broken lots of guys from the shackles of chronic Wuss baggy! In fact, I was born a JACK! And now all I get is you're too arrogant and dey love me anyways! But in all my years of jacking, I've discovered that you can't be a Jack and a true wonderful sweet lover at the same time! Its impossible! Love is all about being a wuss! Its selfless, its sacrificial, it understands, its caring, its compassionate, it goes on and on! If you know all about Jacking then you'll know that you can't combine both! Now, I've been trying (even praying) so hard so I can be a soft mild considerate and sweet lover! I've been trying to let go of most part of my "Jacking-being"! That's why I sounded like one above! But I've not dropped jacking oooo! Atleast get the chic with the jacking, when she falls in love, then you lower your guard and reciprocate like a WUSS! I had to digress so much because I felt Insulted to be called a wuss when I'm a JACK LORD!

Every other person just ignore that long epistle! Its for íamlegend1 alone and the other "jacks" that read it!

íamlegend1, Back to the topic and other parts of your comment. . . . . Oga ma buttercup is not insecure at all! Neither is she paranoid! She is too dry to do something as exciting as locking me in the basement (cuz I will love that adventure!). . . . She is just a lady, that this method has "worked" for in 2 previous relationships, so she is just doing it again, t
o save herself from "whatever" misspícy called it! I understand her worry and tension but I don't permit it! And I've told her that I will stop explaining. But she is a sweet shy gal! That's why she has sworn never to comment! Shy shy gal!

And yea you're right.... I'm a diligent, smart, God fearing, gentle looking, CRAZY DUDE! She knows and she fell for me that way!

itz all good mah nígga....

but still doesn't change the fact that intrusion into your personal space is unhealthy and with time,trust me.... it will graduate from just a minor peeve to a source of genuine irritation.so just enjoy her while you can,and when the time comes to dump her àss...... do it fast and ball.

Beht mah guy,why you be calling the shawty dry
she no sabi the reverse cowgirl ni?

IamLEGEND1:


itz all good mah nígga....

but still doesn't change the fact that intrusion into your personal space is unhealthy and with time,trust me.... it will graduate from just a minor peeve to a source of genuine irritation.so just enjoy her while you can,and when the time comes to dump her àss...... do it fast and ball.

Beht mah guy,why you be calling the shawty dry
she no sabi the reverse cowgirl ni?