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"man Mistake Eraser." by abasifo(m): 4:59pm On May 13, 2009 |
Here is an excerpt from my class "Man Mistake Eraser." "Don't Say 'I Love You' First, and How To Recover If You Did" Yes, Even Your Love Life Requires Discipline! There is one way to get rid of a guy fast - even a great guy - when you least want to get rid of him. So let's make sure this does not happen to us. Don't be the first one to say "I love you." This is a controversial topic, and I certainly understand both sides of the coin. Often people like to argue about things in theory which are completely different in real life, and this topic can be one of them. No one likes the idea of telling a woman that she should, in principle, not be the one to say "I love you" first in a relationship with a man. However, for many very good reasons, this guideline has stood the test of time - for most situations. Of course I don't want you to feel that you have to hold your feelings in or be afraid of expressing them. However - we are trying to put the odds in our favor, and protect ourselves from the kind of good impulses that unfortunately can cause a man to withdraw from us. Yes, sometimes we do have to exercise discipline and restraint in life to get what we want. This is true when it comes to everything from getting good grades in school to having a fit body to driving a car. We have to follow guidelines and we can't always do what we feel like doing, can we? You can recover from this mistake, and I will tell you exactly how to do that - but let's try not to make that mistake in the first place. Why He Needs to Say "I Love You" First Here is what NOT to do if you want to keep the interest of a man who has not yet made a commitment to you: in general, the woman should not be the first one to say "I love you"! You may be feeling this love for him; your love may be true; and it may also be true that he loves you, too. But until HE says these words to you, he is not ready for this huge step forward in your relationship. As we all know, saying "I love you" is a major milestone in any romantic relationship. To a woman, it is a time for rejoicing. However, if a man is not ready for this, all he will be feeling is pressure when he hears you say those words, EVEN IF HE IS FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOU. Unfortunately, even if he IS in that delicious "falling in love" process, your saying "I love you" first can be like a huge "wake up call" for him. It may cause him to suddenly realize that things are getting VERY serious. Guys make una no kill me ooooooooooooh |
Re: "man Mistake Eraser." by dae(f): 6:20pm On May 13, 2009 |
who's killing you? |
Re: "man Mistake Eraser." by IFELEKE(m): 6:28pm On May 13, 2009 |
@Poster, Where u copy this one frm |
Re: "man Mistake Eraser." by Czarskit(m): 7:03pm On May 13, 2009 |
~ Killing u would be a waste of time. ~ Save us the stress by banging a tortoise ~ |
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