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Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Software202(m): 6:25pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
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Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Nobody: 6:25pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
PresVA:where did you read mistake in the post? How can he learn? The boss ought to explain to him why it is that way, that's why he is the Boss. When you work in a challenging firm, there is opportunity to learn and grow. |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by MissIndependent(f): 6:25pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
bxcode:Don't mind the silly mofos and if @ssPeter didn't say anything during the meeting, the same boss will say he lack idea or don't have anything to say, he is not intelligent etc peeps writing rubbish on Nairaland! 2 Likes |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by hahn(m): 6:26pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
SSpeter: Laws of power Rule number one: Never outshine the master. You are paid to carry out instructions and NOT give it. You are lucky he didn't sack you |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Nobody: 6:26pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
gsalvatore:where is the arrogance mediocre? |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Christmasdon(m): 6:26pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
Op i know your type back then in the secondary school class room! |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Nobody: 6:26pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
SSpeter:i keep on saying this, keep your ideal to yourself if you are working on another's man company! No body want and like you to surpass them, we are in a greedy society. Why not channel your prayer to work on your own company instead of multinational firm, That's how we are been belittle by ourself |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Nimblemind(m): 6:26pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
Op , imagine if your boss has a nairaland account! I swear you go need check other employment status. 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by macminista(m): 6:27pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
SSpeter:48 laws of power,NEVER OUTSHINE YOUR BOSS..uI should have given credit to him..u lucky he didn't fire u |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by adewumiopeyemi(m): 6:27pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
lol hunnnm |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by MilesLamar(m): 6:28pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
lol chill brova.. Oga's are always right. |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Nobody: 6:29pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
chymystique:it is not normal for any boss to talk that way.... he waited for him to finish with the architect. You need to work in more challenging and competitive firms to understand, you respect people no matter who they are. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by chris4gold(m): 6:30pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
I recommend for you 38laws of power. You keep mute when your Oga make mistakes. |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by babadee1(m): 6:30pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
Here's a lesson for you, free of charge. Never correct your boss in public. If you feel he has made a mistake or done something wrong, wait until there's no one else around and approach him in private to draw his attention to it. It doesn't matter where you're working, small company or multinational, or how good your ideas are, if you make a habit of correcting your boss in public you will not last long there. 4 Likes |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by ozallamike(m): 6:30pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
[color=#000099][/color] Young shall grow. Take it easy with him |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Nobody: 6:31pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
SSpeter: .read the 48 Laws of Power.. .donothate your boss.. he is only human with some expected insecurities. learn as much as you can.. use every waking opportunity to improve on the job and get-the-hell-outta-there when a good job pans out for you.. pay-day is still 3 weeks away 3 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Thavik(m): 6:31pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
olumide81:yyyyg |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:31pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
SSpeter: This is/was an opportunity for you to learn a VERY CRITICAL lesson about dealing with your SUPERIORS - and even people in general. So you would rather embarrass your boss, than be embarrassed yourself? Don't think Shell or any other multinational will be different. Human nature is exceptionally consistent. In the 48 Laws of Power, the first law, which didn't make first by accident is: NEVER OUTSHINE YOUR MASTER. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by GreenBobo: 6:32pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
SSpeter:Abi... NO WAHALA.. Just understand that some people are not just open to criticism, especially from someone they consider to be their 'junior'. Possible that he could have appreciated your 'effort' if you hadn't open his 'nyash' in public... If you had done it codedly and privately.. if you know what I mean 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by SSpeter(m): 6:33pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
MissIndependent:babe you are intelligent....thumbs up 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by chccho(m): 6:33pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
very funny thread,OP no doubt u sound like a smart kid, but try and remember never to outshine the master. even though its a critic session if u were wiser, it would help u apply discretion in "criticizing ur boss" Learn Humility too, cos pride comes before a fall...sometimes in life u just have to wait patiently,endure,so as to gather enough experience for the journey/destination ahead.... so OP no Vex ehn its all part of a learning process (Its the same thing the likes of donald trump would have told u so its not just a Nigerian thing) All the best 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Nobody: 6:34pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
sonofananimal:crap... some people's best come out working for others. Not everyone can have a brand. Have you ever wondered why some brands die after a short time and some remain? That's what he wants, perhaps to garner more knowledge and skills. 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by MissIndependent(f): 6:34pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
SSpeter: |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Alxmyr(m): 6:34pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
He needs to fire you immediately. You are incompetent and should not be trusted with responsibility. Imagine, your arrogance does not even let you know that you are to assist someone he gave the responsibility to. Thereby, you should have discuss your design with the man and if at all there is need for your input, the input should come through the man that has the responsibility for the job and not you. This is insubordination. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by SSpeter(m): 6:34pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
Christmasdon:looooooooooolllll......you funny die |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Niyeal(m): 6:36pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
Sorri op. Some pple are loaded but not needed vice versa. |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by yomi007k(m): 6:37pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
Ur boss didn't say anything nw, why d fuss? Come to my line of work, u for don commit suicide tey tey. Dat ur collegue will mess u or d company up someday. 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by gsalvatore: 6:40pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
majekdom2: Interrupting someone superior or elderly or your boss is arrogance. THEY TEACH THIS AT HOME/PRIMARY SCHOOL... Why did the Boss responded the way that made the OP felt like ''breaking my boss head after he made some derogatory comments that got me angry and belittled..... '' Do you getting the picture i'm painting? Now how is that for Arrogance mediocre? |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Nobody: 6:41pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
voltron:how can he learn when his boss can't put him through in situations as this This is what is called experience. If perhaps he sees something like that tomos, he will be able to handle had it been the boss explained to him why it is like that. |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Nobody: 6:44pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
gsalvatore:read and read well, he said after the boss was done with the architect during a " critic session ". You don't know how annoying it is when you working with a non team player. No man is an island. Respect is needed.... that was what the OP was trying to point out.I understand u still on that " level " |
Re: How I Got Belittled By My Boss... by Nobody: 6:46pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
majekdom2:ok! For how many years you will be gathering more knowledge and skills? We decieve ourselves to much!
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