I met a certain lady in d month of july, one thing lead to another we started dating. She has bin a gud n caring lady, But all along she hid her real age frm me.. Jst got to knw dis nite dat she's 5yrs older dan me.... What shud I do guyz

She's good & caring towards you, but somehow her age is now the elephant in the room because Are you dating her birth certificate or her? Please grow up! 5 years is not even that much of an age gap. Some guys out there have women 10+ years older than them & you're here playing the smallest violin in the world over a 5 year age difference.

Stop the talking & just leave her if you can't deal.

PunkyVeer:
She's good & caring towards you, but somehow her age is now the elephant in the room because Are you dating her birth certificate or her? Please grow up! 5 years is not even that much of an age gap. Some guys out there have women 10+ years older than them & you're here playing the smallest violin in the world over a 5 year age difference.

Stop the talking & just leave her if you can't deal.

Babe. This is Nigeria and we know how Nigerian babes with Nigerian mentality behave when they're older than the dude.

Its not his fault. Its a default Nigerian thing.

jomoh:


Babe. This is Nigeria and we know how Nigerian babes with Nigerian mentality behave when they're older than the dude.

Its not his fault. Its a default Nigerian thing.

In that case then, let the door not hit him where the dog should have bitten him.

jomoh:


Babe. This is Nigeria and we know how Nigerian babes with Nigerian mentality behave when they're older than the dude.

Its not his fault. Its a default Nigerian thing.

Na so oo...

PunkyVeer:


In that case then, let the door not hit him where the dog should have bitten him.

The meaning is lost on me please.

so? How does that change anything. We need to grow out of this mentality o.. Not speaking literally, but age is just a number. Look, personally, I think you should continue with the relationship. Don't ask why! Just do it! Unless you don't love her. I heard of someone in my family who married a woman 16 years older than he was, they lived happily, their home was mature. The only thing was that the woman died before the man, but that's not an issue.

Op, one thing you need to know is that ''Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.

In my own experience, I think maturity and age are two things that rarely co-mingle. Age does matter in relationships, and anyone that tells you otherwise is a Miley Cyrus fan . But seriously, Age is the vehicle by which we experience common milestones in life. These milestones give us the ability to relate to one another.

This experience taught me two things. The first is that age is not just a number. It is a fairly accurate measurement that describes where you've been and what is left in front of you. It tells you what you may have in common with someone. The second is to know what you are attracted to, understand what you want in a partner and a relationship, and confirm that these things are in agreement before you choose to spend time with someone. Now, I stay away from age extremes, and in those rare moments I meet someone extremely younger or older that I'm into, I look for common interests before committing to a date. This works for me because I recognise that age matters. It is simply naïve to think otherwise.

But, who am I to tell you what to do bro, just do what you feel is right and acceptable to you or you can ask my padi dem ccPrettythicksme, Wristbangle and Tosyne2much for better advice,

jomoh:


The meaning is lost on me please.

Lol, it means let the door not hit him on the butt on his way out.

PunkyVeer:

Lol, it means let the door not hit him on the butt on his way out.

Hmmm
Learnt something new. Let me go back and cram it.

Estharfabian:
Uh...just 5yrs age difference? Was expecting 20Yrs difference or even 50... SmH!!!!
Anyhoo...What matters is She's caring towards yah! Marry her sef!

Age is Nothing but A Number!

marijuana is nothing but a plant

Charles4075:
Op, one thing you need to know is that ''Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.

In my own experience, I think maturity and age are two things that rarely co-mingle. Age does matter in relationships, and anyone that tells you otherwise is a Miley Cyrus fan . But seriously, Age is the vehicle by which we experience common milestones in life. These milestones give us the ability to relate to one another.

This experience taught me two things. The first is that age is not just a number. It is a fairly accurate measurement that describes where you've been and what is left in front of you. It tells you what you may have in common with someone. The second is to know what you are attracted to, understand what you want in a partner and a relationship, and confirm that these things are in agreement before you choose to spend time with someone. Now, I stay away from age extremes, and in those rare moments I meet someone extremely younger or older that I'm into, I look for common interests before committing to a date. This works for me because I recognise that age matters. It is simply naïve to think otherwise.

But, who am I to tell you what to do bro, just do what you feel is right and acceptable to you or you can ask my padi dem ccPrettythicksme, Wristbangle and Tosyne2much for better advice,

Lol you still put me in copy for advice . I respect your view and comprehend your point brother.

Age is just a number!

Lucky you

wristbangle:


Lol you still put me in copy for advice . I respect your view and comprehend your point brother.

Egbon mii, I salute.

Charles4075:
Egbon mii, I salute.

Boss mi!

wristbangle:


Boss mi!

How your side ni? I've been very busy @ work sir. Nor vex for my offline moods since Boss and trying to fix one or two for prettythicksme birthday coming up in 14days

Tankz guys, I rill do appreciate

Hmmm. Guy I no advice u to carry on to marriage level o no matter how caring she may be. Cus with 5yrs difference, d day weh she open eyeball 4 u, u go know say shiit get different colour.

Charles4075:
How your side ni? I've been very busy @ work sir. Nor vex for my offline moods since Boss and trying to fix one or two for prettythicksme birthday coming up in 14days

like seriously? **blushing** thanks but i am thinking of wat u fixing for me tho

Charles4075:
Op, one thing you need to know is that ''Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.

In my own experience, I think maturity and age are two things that rarely co-mingle. Age does matter in relationships, and anyone that tells you otherwise is a Miley Cyrus fan . But seriously, Age is the vehicle by which we experience common milestones in life. These milestones give us the ability to relate to one another.

This experience taught me two things. The first is that age is not just a number. It is a fairly accurate measurement that describes where you've been and what is left in front of you. It tells you what you may have in common with someone. The second is to know what you are attracted to, understand what you want in a partner and a relationship, and confirm that these things are in agreement before you choose to spend time with someone. Now, I stay away from age extremes, and in those rare moments I meet someone extremely younger or older that I'm into, I look for common interests before committing to a date. This works for me because I recognise that age matters. It is simply naïve to think otherwise.

But, who am I to tell you what to do bro, just do what you feel is right and acceptable to you or you can ask my padi dem ccPrettythicksme, Wrist,bangle and Tosyne.2much for better advice,

Woooooow!!! Bros you finish work at the bolded ooooooo


Bros abeg wetin u dey drink sef ?

Charles4075:
Op, one thing you need to know is that ''Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.

In my own experience, I think maturity and age are two things that rarely co-mingle. Age does matter in relationships, and anyone that tells you otherwise is a Miley Cyrus fan . But seriously, Age is the vehicle by which we experience common milestones in life. These milestones give us the ability to relate to one another.

This experience taught me two things. The first is that age is not just a number. It is a fairly accurate measurement that describes where you've been and what is left in front of you. It tells you what you may have in common with someone.The second is to know what you are attracted to, understand what you want in a partner and a relationship, and confirm that these things are in agreement before you choose to spend time with someone. Now, I stay away from age extremes, and in those rare moments I meet someone extremely younger or older that I'm into, I look for common interests before committing to a date. This works for me because I recognise that age matters. It is simply naïve to think otherwise.

But, who am I to tell you what to do bro, just do what you feel is right and acceptable to you or you can ask my padi dem ccPrettythicksme, Wristbangle and Tosyne2much for better advice,

Bros you ,ve made my day.
The bolded thought something i never knew.

PunkyVeer:
She's good & caring towards you, but somehow her age is now the elephant in the room because Are you dating her birth certificate or her? Please grow up! 5 years is not even that much of an age gap. Some guys out there have women 10+ years older than them & you're here playing the smallest violin in the world over a 5 year age difference.

Stop the talking & just leave her if you can't deal.

Hey! Stop that, how can you encourage him to date a lady 5 years older than him. Its not fair that's like dating his older sister. How will you feel if your younger brought a girl that two year older than you as his lover?

If you are there just for the s*x, yes there is no problem but try to make it permanent relationship.

Age is not just a number

when it comes to man/woman relationships, esp in a society n background like ours..

Am a woman and I can say that for a woman to be older than a man by 5 years is too much

...anyway,it depends on what type of relationship they are having...for a sugar mummy,sugar son thingy,its cool

just imagining myself @ 30 with a 25 year old boy and taking instructions frm him(younger than my 2 kid bros who would be 28 and 26 that time) when I should be with a 35 year old man! Holy Ghost fire!

theimmortals:



Hey! Stop that, how can you encourage him to date a lady 5 years older than him. Its not fair that's like dating his older sister. How will you feel if your younger brought a girl that two year older than you as his lover?

Don't mind her

Yea....5years is just a number blah blah blah and blah!!!I wouldn't advice yu to marry her,because dah 5yrs u call a number might end up destroying the marriage, it will get to point in the marriage where certain decision has to be made by the head of the family which is yu,bt ur wife might think yu are too young to make them......which will lead to yu reminding her dah yu are the head of the family and she reminding she is older than yu,the fact she is caring nw doesn't she would keep up with dah attitude........ Dah seniority feeling mighy climb on her shoulder once in a while.......remember we are humans and we gat flaws

Estharfabian:
Uh...just 5yrs age difference? Was expecting 20Yrs difference or even 50... SmH!!!!
Anyhoo...What matters is She's caring towards yah! Marry her sef!

Age is Nothing but A Number!

You will be the first person to shout "Dump the old cargo" if your brother brings home a lady who is older than him BY A DAY for a wife!

jomoh:


Babe. This is Nigeria and we know how Nigerian babes with Nigerian mentality behave when they're older than the dude.

Its not his fault. Its a default Nigerian thing.

Not just the babes,even the guys,their friends,the guys family esp mother and sisters,if they are celebs,the media..em em it's hard oh

It's complicated!!!

For those saying age is just a number, pls be reminded Coca is just a crop















Which, when dried and ground, can be sniffed