I'm a guy in his early twenties, and my Girlfriend lives with me.I had my birthday on the third of this month, which I only prayed to God about thanking him for spearing my life and for all the good things he sent my way (nothing flamboyant,no party).
Fast-forward to Wednesday which was my girlfriend's birthday.She couldn't celebrate it because of her Job.Lucky enough her Boss bought her a cake and her friends are planning a little something for her this evening, but all this I got to know at the last hour by seeing much of her friends around my crib.
She claimed she never Intended to Invite or tell me because I DO NOT DRINK OR PARTY LATE!!!. Now I'm so upset & confused because of this reasons I am not invited to my girlfriend's party. IS THIS NORMAL!!!
Please front page, because I need the house advice on this

No its not normal, even if you do not drink or party late,
She should still have told you out of courtesy then if you aint interested, you can politely decline.


I know if my gf should do something like that we will have a lot to talk about.

That shows lack of respect

Under your roof!!

Its perfectly normal. But I still don't understand why you are harbouring a girl you aren't married to, things can go wrong, you know?

I smell fish... Op hope say you never enter one chance

well it depends

ibawon:
I'm a guy in his early twenties, and my Girlfriend lives with me.I had my birthday on the third of this month, which I only prayed to God about thanking him for spearing my life and for all the good things he sent my way (nothing flamboyant,no party).
Fast-forward to Wednesday which was my girlfriend's birthday.She couldn't celebrate it because of her Job.Lucky enough her Boss bought her a cake and her friends are planning a little something for her this evening, but all this I got to know at the last hour by seeing much of her friends around my crib.
She claimed she never Intended to Invite or tell me because I DO NOT DRINK OR PARTY LATE!!!. Now I'm so upset & confused because of this reasons I am not invited to my girlfriend's party. IS THIS NORMAL!!!
Please front page, because I need the house advice on this

Sorry Bro,

You just got SACKED!!!

ibawon:
I'm a guy in his early twenties, and my Girlfriend lives with me.I had my birthday on the third of this month, which I only prayed to God about thanking him for spearing my life and for all the good things he sent my way (nothing flamboyant,no party).
Fast-forward to Wednesday which was my girlfriend's birthday.She couldn't celebrate it because of her Job.Lucky enough her Boss bought her a cake and her friends are planning a little something for her this evening, but all this I got to know at the last hour by seeing much of her friends around my crib.
She claimed she never Intended to Invite or tell me because I DO NOT DRINK OR PARTY LATE!!!. Now I'm so upset & confused because of this reasons I am not invited to my girlfriend's party. IS THIS NORMAL!!!
Please front page, because I need the house advice on this

I think her Boss [if male] is helping you out here......

Dis kin story get Q leg
But d party na for ur crib la Why she no go tell u

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My brother but the party na 4 your place nah?

NO,IT'S NOT NORMAL!!!and it's disrespectful of her to invite her friends over to celebrate with her without informing u.no matter how little it is..u deserve your OWN respect..she might not see it anything now,but na small small e dey start.talk to her and express your displeasure..#no one is perfect#

...This Is The Large Extent To Which Western Nations Have Destroyed Our Youths,, Why would You house a chick you aint married to, don't you Think power struggle wud set in and she would start demanding equal rights like a wife....She just felt she didn't need to tell you cos u have become more of a roomate than a Lover....Am really Pity for u oooh, cos one day she would bring her man friend to her room as well.....Ma advice, stylishly eject her from your house, so she go value hustle

Khd95:
Dis kin story get Q leg
But d party na for ur crib la Why she no go tell u

That's why the whole thing is suspicious........
ATLEAST she should have put a call across to him........

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tosyne2much:
OP, first and foremost, the suitable title for this thread is, My Girlfriend Didn't Invite Me To Her Birthday Party, Is It Normal ?


Back to the topic

OP, at this point, I don't think you need a prophet to tell you that your girlfriend not to invite you just to signal to you that what you can't do, others will Thanks for the correction


Her acclaimed reason as to why she didn't invite you holds no water. Even at club house, you would see people there sipping their Maltina, Coca Cola and other soft drinks

OP, my advice is that, henceforth, I'm not saying you should dump your girlfriend but be very careful and tactical with the person you call your friend

Thanks for the correction.

Wait o.......... she lives with you, and decided to have a party in your own house without telling you, because you don't party late

Ok, so what are you supposed to do during the party; block your ears


How come someone won't be invited to a party in his own house? Bros is your house a mansion?

Op be wise,dats lack of respect frm ur bae.watch ur frnds,her manager,nd those close to her.do not be substicious just watch carefully.

adeaks:
Wait o.......... she lives with you, and decided to have a party in your own house without telling you, because you don't party late

Ok, so what are you supposed to do during the party; block your ears


How come someone won't be invited to a party in his own house? Bros is your house a mansion?

Not in my house, but at a Club in the area

She is not really your girlfriend at this point. Likely just using you for accommodation.

Or not proud of you.

BuddhaPalm:
She is not really your girlfriend at this point. Likely just using you for accommodation.

Or not proud of you.

Gbaaaam !!!


Abeg wetin u dey drink ?

You aren't a boyfriend, you are a landlord only that she's not paying rent.

You are single sir....


QED

When my mother was praying against parasitic association on my brother, she wasn't kidding sha.......




Nairalanders, we need to pray for this mumu

CEO of friend zone association

adeaks:
Wait o.......... she lives with you, and decided to have a party in your own house without telling you, because you don't party late

Ok, so what are you supposed to do during the party; block your ears


How come someone won't be invited to a party in his own house? Bros is your house a mansion?

or a hotel and suits

adeaks:
Wait o.......... she lives with you, and decided to have a party in your own house without telling you, because you don't party late

Ok, so what are you supposed to do during the party; block your ears


How come someone won't be invited to a party in his own house? Bros is your house a mansion?

or an hotel and suits

BuddhaPalm:
She is not really your girlfriend at this point. Likely just using you for accommodation.

Or not proud of you.

word! Gbosa 4u

tosyne2much:
Gbaaaam !!!


Abeg wetin u dey drink ?

hahahaha badt guy

vani86:
No its not normal, even if you do not drink or party late,
She should still have told you out of courtesy then if you aint interested, you can politely decline.


I know if my gf should do something like that we will have a lot to talk about.

That shows lack of respect

Gbam!!!

BuddhaPalm:
She is not really your girlfriend at this point. Likely just using you for accommodation.

Or not proud of you.

Gbaaaaaam part 2!!!