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| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(m): 10:48pm On Nov 21, 2015 |
Estharfabian:That was pure wickedness! I wouldn't want to go through all I did for her, the risk I took because she was my potential wife! It dawned on me that relationships are never to be ttrusted! People can change over night so go through the headache. That singular event changed me completely. I now want a contract relationship, strictly business with terms and conditions so one doesn't wake up and move out just like that or even cheat and go scot free! |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by HCpaul(m): 10:55pm On Nov 21, 2015 |
misspicy: I saw you falling for her in the other thread. That is just the power of a man's word. Don't break so easily. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by HCpaul(m): 10:59pm On Nov 21, 2015 |
firstking01: I don't see any reason why dating and marriage is compulsory. We should just try and manage to keep our natural affection for people irrespective of their gender. I just have a natural antipathy towards women, and sees wooing theorem as the most functioning way of submiting to captivity and slavery. I will never have a girlfriend. Dating is not for everybody. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 11:02pm On Nov 21, 2015 |
sirhot:Really, I'm Kinda speechless...: ( It must've hurt A Lot...Buh You shouldn't take drastic decisions coz Of The sins Of One "Hoe"....I'm positive your heart would heal...You'd find "Love" Again..it's Everywhere, It's Inevitable.... |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by HCpaul(m): 11:04pm On Nov 21, 2015 |
Harbosede02: Is it not typically a waste of time? Am still unable to find all the attributes needed to find in the hearth of a woman. The greatest successful people that ever lived never marry. I can't just invest my time in girls and in the game called dating. Mind you, i still keep my natural affections. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(m): 11:11pm On Nov 21, 2015 |
Estharfabian:I know but that's in her own case. What about others that cheated and lied till I found out. My dear life is too sweet to hang it on imaginary things, since I decided to forgt love, I'm more at peace. I don't want to hear the word 'I love you' because it is meaning less when it matters. Everything is strictly business now, even my marriage will be a contract. She fulfils certain obligation and I fulfil mine. I don't want to be deceived by love any more. And besides, I'm not just marrying any body, I have certain criteria of a woman I want, is either you meet it or forget about me, I don't go into business with just any body! 2 Likes |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 11:15pm On Nov 21, 2015 |
misspicy: no jor, that was before i met you  ......on nairaland |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Monalisa185(f): 12:33am On Nov 22, 2015 |
must everyone fall in love? it's not even advisable... op,puhlease, do yourself a favour.... stand in love and be happy.... |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by fexyrich(m): 1:04am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Bro am passing through your exact experience..D truth is that it has helped me forget about women and give less attention to them rather helping me focus on more meaningful things like building my business and all..I hardly have feelings for ladies after some funny experiences in the past..No emotional attachment at all..Sometimes i would walk up to a lady after exchanging digits with her once i leave her sight i forget everytin about her cos i see all of them as same..She would be d one to call back to complain i never bothered calling sirhot: |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(m): 1:05am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Monalisa185:I don't need to love to be happy. Thanks |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by fexyrich(m): 1:05am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Bro am passing through your exact experience..D truth is that it has helped me forget about women and give less attention to them rather helping me focus on more meaningful things like building my business and all..I hardly have feelings for ladies after some funny experiences in the past..No emotional attachment at all..Sometimes i would walk up to a lady after exchanging digits with her once i leave her sight i forget everytin about her cos i see all of them as same..She would be d one to call back to complain i never bothered calling..All those emotional shite are not just for me mehn!! sirhot: |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 2:02am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Seems you've accumulated baggage from having been hurt time and time again, and as a result you're emotionally closed off. It's not uncommon. You'll either stay "on track", or change tack, and it could work either way, really. All you can do is try to let go of the past. But love, life is bland without it... |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by misspicy(f): 6:08am On Nov 22, 2015 |
catlova:  |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by misspicy(f): 6:11am On Nov 22, 2015 |
HCpaul:  ....click d link on my siggy....go to hobbies,you will gt ur ansa |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 7:39am On Nov 22, 2015 |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Monalisa185(f): 8:00am On Nov 22, 2015 |
sirhot: and yeah,he didn't even understand dah piece.....so wah part of dah piece says you need to fall in love to be happy? |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 8:05am On Nov 22, 2015 |
sirhot:You should know this...You don't choose Who You Love....  It doesn't work that way...I Really have A feeling You'd find Love and You'd be helpless bout it coZ the feeling would Overwhelm You...  Uh...Without LoVE marriage Won't be Successful. if you'd later have kids, trust me, You don't want them knowing your marriage to their mom was arranged...It's sure gonna hurt them. Anyways....Goodluck! |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by misspicy(f): 8:37am On Nov 22, 2015 |
catlova:am fresh.but busy this morning...and you? |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 8:52am On Nov 22, 2015 |
misspicy: Good to hear. Im glued to the tv. Kogi election collation |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(m): 8:58am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Monalisa185:I did, you didn't get my point. I didn't say fall in love, I said I don't need to love whether falling in or standing in love. I just need a sensible and practical person with a focus. |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(m): 9:08am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Estharfabian:In my own case, I'll choose who I love. I won't just love anybody. There are some factors I'll look at first before 'falling' in love. Family background, social status (I have my reasons for this, I didn't use to care but now I do sorry.), academic qualifications and result etd, I won't just fall for any girl seriously! I've learnt my lesson. Remember thus is marriage not bf and gf. I'll so surprised at myself if I fall in love just like that!  the love has to be so strong that it makes me fall which I don't see happening anyway. I've seen ladies I'm attracted but when I get to know all the above mentioned information I just forget it.At times I get a girls number and I don't ever call her No interest really! |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(m): 9:10am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Catlova and misspicy what do you think you are doing?  |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Monalisa185(f): 9:18am On Nov 22, 2015 |
sirhot: ohhhhh...Okies.... |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(m): 10:04am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Monalisa185: |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 10:08am On Nov 22, 2015 |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 11:21am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Estharfabian:after going through ur profile, for some mins i almost thought u had no bit of emotion but u just proved me wrong girl.. **thumbs up**  |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 11:24am On Nov 22, 2015 |
femcruz:LoL! I'm curious...why would you think I had No Emotions? Anyways...thanks femcruz! |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 11:44am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Estharfabian:You welcome  . you like dogs?? |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 11:55am On Nov 22, 2015 |
femcruz:Yeap! I do... |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by fleeky(f): 11:55am On Nov 22, 2015 |
sirhot:I didn't want to say anything on this thread, but this ur comment sounded too hard..so i'll say u should calm down... it's never soooo serious...i understand u're hurt by ur last experience..Please take it easy..Don't allow another girl suffer for what she knows nothing about..You can still find love again and again..All girls are not the same, the good ones are still very much in existence, Ok! |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 12:03pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Estharfabian: guessed as much after reading the puppy story in ur Bad girl diary. So have u gotten another puppy ever since? |
| Re: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by Nobody: 12:06pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
fleeky:@bolded hehehe nice one , me nko won't u be my friend  |
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