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Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by GboyegaD(m): 5:04pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
raayah: Madam, the average Nigerian equates abuse of whatever kind to discipline. If those beatings could change people then over 95% of youths should be awesome in all ways |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 5:17pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: If you justify yourself and your crimes I guess your father has his own reasons. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 5:19pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: Guy park well, the way you sound makes me wonder if your dad was right after all. I pray I never meet someone like you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by ManTiger(m): 5:25pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
if i re4ad am, make my prick bend. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 5:55pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: You are still very much young. Too bad, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't start preparing yourself for independence. Start seeing yourself as a man , hence, you should get prepared to leave the house. Sorry. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by mikolo80: 5:58pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555:I'm not a writer. I prefer to talk but the long and short is call his bluff if he strikes you defend yourself do not strike back Just deflect show him he can't bully you anymore but make up your mind to leave Just in case it will be tough but you will overcome others have done it you will too but mostly he is just bluffing he is a bully that likes to make ppl cower in fear if you leave,then nobody to shout on so he won't throw you out also stay out of the house find somewhere to hang finally do the medicin shebi he will come and pass the exam for you let me know what you want to do so you come up with plan for that. don't worry you're still young I lost 10 yrs due to the same thing so don't worry it's not only you don't worry diaris God let me know what you really want to do my email mikolowiska@gmail.com CC viickerz |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by dtyla(m): 6:02pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555:my guy,ur story isnt any different from mine save the insults.first,u need to be truthful to urself that u've made some mistakes,so from now on need to start doing the right things tho no one can ever be perfect.Talking bout being perfect,i used to think my dad was all perfect and i always feel really bad when i did something wrong but when i got to know bout the wrongs he had commited and some he is still commiting,i would be like so u even don do bad pass me(just knw ur dad's not perfect),but i still respect him so should u................my guy just imagine if u had children and they do the things u've done or u are doing,would u be happy with them?probably no.......would u take it out on them like ur father does to u?of course not..............All i need u to do is to show him how great u are(it aint goin to be easy) and one day he would regret all the wrongs he did to u but he wont ever regret ever been ur father cause u would be better than he would ever be.......______.........be strong and pppplllllleeeeeeaaaaasssssseeeeeeee update the preacher's som part 3 na beg i dey beg u o. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by romzyxy(m): 6:15pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
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Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by mikolo80: 6:17pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555:I'm sorry I'm too lazy to write you can email me at mikolowiska@gmail.com so I I call you on bbm or whatsapp but long and short many ppl havecovered it he is a bully he thinks that is the only way to communicate he wants best for you but only knows forceful way but basically be prepared to be kicked out of House next time he wants to beat you defend yourself do not retaliate just deflect strikes (or hold cane and collect it, you're not a child anymore) if he he says you're stupid say you're not it won't stop him but Will reduce it and help you not to break down psychologically also what do you want to do,law,mass comm let me know agree to do the medicine (shebi na him go pass the exam for you) however if you can cope do it if not do his own and let his eyes come down (we have to talk for me to explain this properly) I'm not very articulate on paper it's better to lose 1 or 2 years teaching him a lesson than using 15 to learn one like i did but main thing is you have to call his bluff Therock5555:I'm not a writer. I prefer to talk but the long and short is call his bluff if he strikes you defend yourself do not strike back Just deflect show him he can't bully you anymore but make up your mind to leave Just in case it will be tough but you will overcome others have done it you will too but mostly he is just bluffing he is a bully that likes to make ppl cower in fear if you leave,then nobody to shout on so he won't let me know what you want to do so you come up with plan for that. don't worry you're still young don't worry diaris God let me know what you really want to do my email mikolowiska@gmail.com CC viickerz |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 6:33pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Some parents be acting like dey wer saints growing up.create a decent life for urself,road is never easy for anyone bt ders always an end to all d bs |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by daveP(m): 6:40pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Oh Lord God!! Hmmm some parents are the reason the movie 3idiots is still very relevant and effective than the barrels of words from relatives, concerned peeps etc. TheRock5555, youve got mail. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by InvertedHammer: 7:00pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555:/ No need fighting me. God is using your father to punish you already. / 2 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 7:43pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
naijadeyhia:bro if I answer every comments here then I might keep replying for ever, as someone rightly said, some people commenting ain't have a clue about what I've gone through, I don't need anybody to fan my ego, for God's sake I didn't claim to be the perfect specie so I appreciate whatever is thrown at me Some comments were passed cus I already replied similar post as theirs, I'm stressed pls. Thanks for the advice 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 7:48pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
freshcvvs:if I needed pity I would have used an alternate moniker, I'm popular enough in the literature section to search for self pity, this could even kill my NL image I'm just broken and can't keep living in self delusion again, I hope you understand 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 7:53pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
naijadeyhia:trust me when I say 95% of what you just wrong is the complete opposite of me. I prefer to keep out of their hair and be alone but it's like disturbing a hungry lion, I hardly talk except I'm confronted extremely. I have never raised my voice at me except he starts beating, you yourself should figure that out, anger could make you say things, I'm not a bag of beans without emotions |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by freshcvvs: 7:58pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: I asked about your mom's position in all these in my previous comments which you didn't attend to. I also asked about your sibling's positions, does he also disgrace them as your opined about yourself? Do you all sit together in his absence to discuss his attitude towards "ALL OF YOU"? i don't mean to you alone, but to all of you? 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 7:58pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
naijadeyhia: Do you know that an online life and physical life are two huge spams I showed my dad Nl because he wanted a site to read news and not because he knew I was a member here, he is not even a registered member, he only frequents fp If you can't decipher all what I've wrote them no P I'm sure you think all this fierce monikers are lions offline |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Apitch(m): 8:05pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
naijadeyhia:A wonderful piece worth my pausing again to comment on. I'm yet to advice but in a case I don't, this dude has done justice to ur case. Op is even smarter than his advisors asking him to leave the house when his education is at stake. Guys no be nollywood o! If he tries it, chances that he will make it is slimmer than u guys watch in the movies Make I continue dey read 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 8:06pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
naijadeyhia:would an sms contain all your comments It seems you are hell bent on painting me bad, yes I agree I'm stubborn atimes but does it justifies his actions I dropped this so that he could see and also see the replies from Nl BTW how would I manage to embarrass him? Maybe adding his pix and number might cut my case across right? |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 8:08pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
IMO22:I'm actually in Nasarawa state |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 8:08pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
ideyhere:sis I don't drink, smoke nor party I chase girls but it's codedly, my mum even asked if I was gay one time because no girl has ever come to look for me at home I do everything to stay outta their hair and protect his public image but my slightest offence turns a full blown affair BTW I am always at home before 8pm |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 8:13pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
naijadeyhia:should I tell you how he flogged and stood on my head with both legs because I was 30 mins late from an errand he sent me upon the fact that I trekked or how I was nearly thrown off a storey building because I did not put on the gen quickly enough when nepa took light and he missed a few scenes in a soap opera You can seat on your chair of criticism and type all you want, because you were the best son ever liveth does not make you any better than I am |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 8:17pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
kazuna:I would pm sire |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 9:05pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555:[b] You have a lot to learn. You would actually be a model child if you can channel all this negative energy u have In the right direction but somehow you have preprogramed your mind to reject truth and rather embrace what appeals to you. In scripture it's called "itching ears". An ear that wants to only hear what he likes even when they are lies and wrong for him just because that is the life he wants. If your dad flogged u so have other dad's as well...heck I sometimes smack my kid on his bum to set him straight and he is just 3 yrs old. I have seen parents apply different correction methods on their kids and often times the method varies from child to child but for your dad to be this physical and tough on u is either one of 2 things; 1) He wants you to man up fast 2) You have repeatedly exhibited stubborn and rebellious tendencies and he feels he has to fight force with force and you are helping him do this by keeping on being the way u are. They say "when a man washes his hands well he will sit with elders". If you want a better and more productive and profitable relationship with your dad then will yourself to take counsel from persons who are older than you are and not this wall you keep raising whenever good counsel is directed at you[/b]. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by LeJeun3: 9:15pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
The Rock, I would not be able to say much here..... You could PM me or chat me up on whatsapp 08099725628 |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 9:21pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555:[b] Our comments are immaterial to your dad because he has his own version of your story and you are his son and he has a right to determine the best method he would use to raise you especially with your own admissions of being demonic, rebellious and stubborn. What you are doing is a pity party and that isn't what you need. You need a wholistic approach and it begins with you. I believe that by the time you clock 30 or so you would look back and thank your dad for making you a principled, disciplined young man but right now discipline is yet far from you as you have testified yourself how you are a sunday school teacher yet you "codedly" chase girls, steal (but to you its petty stealing), post the trashy stuff u do here on nairaland and your DP? That's a whole new level of low. These are the ones we can see but I am sure your dad has seen way more coupled with the fact that he is a Pastor. Young man grow up and stop whining. Introduce change and change will come back to you. What you sow is what u will reap. Sow good and good will somehow someday come back to u. God loves u more than your dad does but even with all the love God has for you...hell is real and true for u if u continue with ur hypocritical life and your dad would not be blamed for that[/b]. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by front247: 9:29pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
What u should know, most African fathers ar d same, if one of thier children is nt doing well they treat him differently, dt let anybody make u feel bad, if u can rent a room and pair wit a friend d better. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by front247: 9:30pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
What u should know, most African fathers ar d same, if one of thier children is nt doing well they treat him differently, dt let anybody make u feel bad, if u can rent a room or pair wit a friend d better. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Apitch(m): 9:34pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
raayah:Ok since u need me to school U, I will oblige but once since I know many argue to win and not to learn. The floggings made me a better person, and yes, I'm better than my peers, came out best in common entrace in my state, the fear of the cane made me desist from petty evil that as at then was no big deal but some couldn't stop, (stealing and lieing mostly among others) I can beat my chest and tell U that I don't lie. My peers will disrespect teachers but I dare not, I can go on but lemme just tell u that all rich kids behavior was present then and remember it was a rich man's school, and I was quite outstanding and disciplined, th teachers loved me and passed knowledge my peers didn't have the opportunity to gain, not academic wise. I should stop here But above all I am a christian and my bible says spare the rod and spoil the child which would have been my case if the rod was spared I rest my case 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by frakdon(m): 9:38pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555:what, for real? In your own father's house... No words* 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Olusharp(m): 6:58am On Nov 25, 2015 |
TheRock5555 you might think your dad doesn't not know bout your your sexual life my Bro he might know ..you can't always hide..like someone said have your dad paid the police to lock you and even the police come begging for you after too days in the cell ? No... even i after reading some Of your stories i think your dad loves , it only take a lovable father to pay for his son waec exam again after failing,to sow him a trouser which to him was the best...Like someone said he doesn't hate you and you are the problem,change your ways and you will see a new him... 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Laid2001: 9:09am On Nov 25, 2015 |
My friend, Your online and offline personality are linked permanently. The online keeps your life record for ever if you don't know. Why do you think, the FBI and other organization start digging into people's online character once any crime is committed?. If anyone remotely connected to you carryout any crime or terror attack all his/her online relations are under scrutiny. Now, let me ask you, if one of your ardent follower online commits rape, do you think your online personality will not be under scrutiny?. Once, there is any relationship, you will be looked into and if there is any "circumstantial" evidence that your online character help in molding the criminal's offline habit, you may be called in for questioning?. Many of you youths of today, don't understand that you are a totality of your life, both online and offline character matters!. Criminal psychologists use your online character to predict your offline behaviors!!. And to common man, first impression (which could be from your online profile) lasts long.!! Therock5555: |
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