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Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Afrok(m): 12:49am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Show him Love.... to every bad things he does, reciprocate with the opposite. U need to change for him to see any reasons to change towards u, therefore ; the need for u to show him Love. I know it may be difficult, but u can do it... it may take time, just watch as the love u show him over powers his hatred for u. May God help u.... don't forget the ultimate power, PRAYER. 9 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by porrigeyam(m): 12:50am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Gather money... rent one room apartment far from ur home..and start living alone... simple. 4 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by victorazy(m): 12:51am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: Kai! I wonder what u've past through! 2 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Spybradd: 12:52am On Nov 24, 2015 |
so u dont have legs,ba? 4 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 12:52am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Dad over to you since you are also on nl.. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by francizy(m): 12:52am On Nov 24, 2015 |
EggovinMma: So you've caught the syndrome too? Lasisi has really spread his ministry! 4 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 12:52am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: When are you going to get the flip out of that place and wave goodbye to your Dad? When he finally maims you? 6 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by mrking3(m): 12:54am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Ok |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by DerKaiser: 12:57am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Where is your mom in all these for God's sake? Even if the tyrant is determined to ruin your life and make you miserable, where is the motherly love that conquers all? If your mother too is not ready to fight for you, being quite sure that she sees and observes his incessant abuses on you, my brother I am sorry to tell you, your family is non-existent anymore. Better find a way to leave that house before your psyche and self worth get completely destroyed. You have a hard task ahead of you as a person who has been trampled upon immensely and the earlier you begin rebuilding yourself, the better for you. You can only achieve that by leaving that house. Unfortunately I do not know how old you are and how dependent you are on them but at least try. I could feel your cry, pain and helplessness with every line I read. In the end know this, no man born of a woman holds the key to your destiny. That right is reserved for the Most High and always go up to him in prayers for guidance. Seriously I am fuming here. How could parents treat their flesh and blood this way? Even while you were a toddler? Some people are pathetic honestly. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 12:57am On Nov 24, 2015 |
my dad U are challenging my àuthority....nw i am extremely introverted.....when am home i cant go out...u ar still a child ...am jst monitoring u its d duty of a parent.... If i mistake stroll ,i have to ans jamb qxtn..and correct too Going home is a matter of d nigga is broke, if not i got a home in skul already Its jst dat d effect of 18+ bondage cant b undone in a single day...so i still gat some probs to fix Am a final yr stud n 1 uni lyk dat Therock5555 U knw hw many tyms dem don tell me make i go find my fada nd moda cos dem no sure say na dem born me Dat feeling dat everything u do or even about to do is bad U see ur mates doing tinz u wouls lyk to do....bt u cant do ...c If i mention hw many tyms deh have told me lyk Gov oshiomole to d trader "go and die" nl server go go down Nigga b urself ...we go survive......deh have lived their lives ...nigga live urs too nd to d fullest.... Am nt there yet bt God knws am tryna Undo their Effect on me Tried testing d effect of sniper on myself before....buh i no gree die N.b....pardon my typo......phone shit 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by vicque(f): 12:58am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Atmmachine: Please do you mean combat or you mean fight on some other context? Ie stand his ground and do what he wants.? I feel the op is a teenager or semi teenager 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 12:59am On Nov 24, 2015 |
DerKaiser: Unfortunately, women are usually helpless in this case.Some even support their husbands in other to be on the good side. 6 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Totfulguy: 1:00am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: I hope your Dad reads this. You sound like a fellow between 25 and 30 judging from your diction. A part of me tells me you can do your own thing. What you are doing right now is a bit of self-pity but you can do better. I have a feeling your have let what you see as "your condition" deem all the capabilities you have in you. This may be your dad telling you to challenge yourself. We could talk if you send me a private massage and your phone number. 4 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 1:01am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Afrok: Sir! What is the meaning of show him love again? The papa no no how to show him pikin love? Hian!! 3 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by scribble: 1:01am On Nov 24, 2015 |
I'd just say hang in there. Some Nigerian parents are absolutely clueless and even borderline retarded I'm dealing with relationships. Did you read about the man that used plier to remove his wife's ear Or the woman that carry house girl to salon to fan her for two hours Or the woman that stabbed house help boob's Or the audu abubakar son that raped a young girl severally with his friends Some Nigerians are not human beings but animals that don't know how to relate with their fellow man Sorry but keep your head up always!!!! Stop relying on them, pursue your vision, get a little cheddar and branch out on your own. 3 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Neverquit(f): 1:01am On Nov 24, 2015 |
@Therock5555 You need to do things on a coded level. Go for any and all events. Open an account and save every penny, because you will need to move out. When he begins the negative ish, focus on the light at the end the tunnel. If you stay in that house, it can lead to you committing suicide, having low self esteem, or turning into him. Talking to him might not help, so just try to save as much as you can. Get paying gigs (on coded level) and save, save, save. Moving out is the only option for your sanity. I'm willing to commit financially to help you move out. Parents like this pisses me off 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:02am On Nov 24, 2015 |
I'll take it your dad is pastor or a deacon, or one form of religious position? |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by abbasbo003(m): 1:02am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Cos u are useless, even to urself |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Totfulguy: 1:03am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Totfulguy: Oh I just looked at your profile picture...Now I think your Dad has his reasons! 9 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Slimshady11: 1:04am On Nov 24, 2015 |
kind of reminds of d way lucios treated jamal in d movie empire,well op all i can say is pray if u're a xtian and maybe try showing him a little extra love,dat might work,anyways God be with u.i really pity for those whose parents despise them for no substantial reason 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by missyadorable(f): 1:05am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: just this? and you are broken?Your dad is very "nice".The best thing you can do is to make your own cash and live on your own.Afterall u are a male! become successful and ur dad will come looking for you.My dad said n did worse to me.i proved him wrong by becoming successful.frm final year till after NYSC,we didn't talk.I totally avoided him.Even at occasions attended by extended family.He called for a family meeting n begged for forgiveness and I pretended all was well.But I know after next month,no condition in heaven and earth will make me relate with him in anyway! And I trust my siblings and thank God for my mother(who now lives away frm him)..He must live and die a wretched lonely abandoned man 2 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by repogirl(f): 1:08am On Nov 24, 2015 |
When you make something of yourself, their mouth will change and they will forget they almost frustrated you to committing suicide. Many horrible father's out there. My advice to you, strengthen your mind and be determined to succeed. Don't let his negative words get to you, keep doing what you do best and no how, success will be yours. Also pray because some times some kind bad spirits can make people never see the good in you. If you don't believe in the power of prayer, too bad. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by anathemiamia(f): 1:09am On Nov 24, 2015 |
your dad is a really sad man. it's too bad this has to be your lot in life but you need to build a happy place in your head. God loves you, God will forgive you. you are special. the shortcomings of the flesh does not make u a bad soul. You already know who you don't want to be and it's time to find out the man you want to grow up into. if you read nothing else read this; chances are that you're going to one day realize you're an adult and you'll find yourself treating your child the way you were treated. don't be that person. you can have the life you only dream of. Joy comes from the heart. love yourself. Love yourself. Let the abuse end with you. it may be hard but don't let it pass on. this cross is heavier than u think it is. You will overcome 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by greenlegs(m): 1:09am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Same tin I go tru 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Dakens(m): 1:12am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Bruv I get the shit u going thru every adversity we face is permitted by God cos he knows we can overcome them but this wat am going to tell u have 2 take a firm decision and get d hell out of that house cos d taunting will not stop I perceive u are an adult and things no easy but if u don't take d bold step get ready for more BS take care |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Adiwana: 1:13am On Nov 24, 2015 |
i hate self pity and you trying to blame someone else for ya woes.i do believe strongly in INDEPENDENCE.The sooner you man up and become a man,the better *modified* Mehn,as i typed above,stop bitchying around and man up.stop crying and become a man.carter for ya self.find something doing.Hes trying to drill you and you are complaining..from what i deduced,you are probably the only son or what..youve to prove him wrong by becoming better.thats what he wants not coming online and crying..Work for your thing and if you are under his roof,as a grown up,giving him that room and space and know you are under his roof and hustle.on the point of being flogged and 'MALTREATED',many went through it as you went and didnt die.as i said, MAN UP Drake *0 to 100* Oh Lord, know yourself, know you're worth nigga My actions been louder than my words nigga Since my dad used to tell me he was comin' to the house to get me He ain't show Valuable lesson, man I had to grow up That's why I never ask for help I'll do it for you niggas and do it for myself 2 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 1:16am On Nov 24, 2015 |
NEVER EVER GIVE YOUR PARENTS AN INCH TO MAKE YOU FEEL TERRIBLE AND WORTHLESS! ! 1 Like |
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