Cutehector:
Be prayerful, lest he commits suicide... People hav done worse things....

yebo36:

Thank you. That's why am still awake now want to have some time for prayers by 12.

Young03:
madam...istly...the bed own I swear I can help u do it


secondly...open a kiosk for him, even if na bons and chewing gum he de sell there., its better

#whatyasay#

yebo36:

Am not here for joke. I called out to married men and women not boys. And I can't remember asking for help on bed, please don't insult me or make me regret this post

sunnydayasaba:
4years of ur husband joblessness and ur just coming out for advice, Is it until he commit suicide before u act.


Anyway, Ur husband needs deliverance prayer fast.

He needs to visit a real man of God and he needs to start praying and be frevelent in it. God will see u both through.


Keep d faith alive. God will answer ur prayers.

Young03:
madam...istly...the bed own I swear I can help u do it


secondly...open a kiosk for him, even if na bons and chewing gum he de sell there., its better

#whatyasay#

MurphyG1:


You are so immature! And I don't see why you have to open that mouth of yours to spew rubbish!!

@ OP.. What's his highest academic qualification? Have you both discussed on a business he might want to venture into?

Young03:
madam...istly...the bed own I swear I can help u do it


secondly...open a kiosk for him, even if na bons and chewing gum he de sell there., its better

#whatyasay#

MurphyG1:


You are so immature! And I don't see why you have to open that mouth of yours to spew rubbish!!

@ OP.. What's his highest academic qualification? Have you both discussed on a business he might want to venture into?

jaymejate:


Yeah, true... Like what certificate does he have?

yebo36:

He finished from you OAU. yes we talk a lot about that and even borrowed money from my parents to help him. But till now the biz has not picked up. Just wondering what else to do.

yebo36:


Thank you. But am not just calling out now. As a woman, i have given him money to start business, go for deliverance, even recently he just got back from babalola mountain in ekiti.

I just tot maybe we need to do more than prayers

yebo36:

Thank you. That's why am still awake now want to have some time for prayers by 12.

Tundeiab:

Madam, your husband is just lazy. He doesn't need deliverance. What he needs is a job no matter how little the pay is. He shouldn't just leave all the burden to you to bear.

libertyfather:

olumide81:
I dont have any doubt about the potentialities of prayer however, issues like this are more psychological than we tend to see it. I av got some question for u madam
1. What does your husband does when he is free (leisure)
2. Does he take alcohol? If yes how often?
3.who are those he mingles with outside the family.
If these question are answered then we may have a pratical solution, i graduated 6 years ago and i have not for a minute earned wage or salary, but the first 3 years was something similar and almost got me depressed 'had to get money from my wife to barb'. But to the glory of God reverse seems to be the case today.

olumide81:
I dont have any doubt about the potentialities of prayer however, issues like this are more psychological than we tend to see it. I av got some question for u madam
1. What does your husband does when he is free (leisure)
2. Does he take alcohol? If yes how often?
3.who are those he mingles with outside the family.
If these question are answered then we may have a pratical solution, i graduated 6 years ago and i have not for a minute earned wage or salary, but the first 3 years was something similar and almost got me depressed 'had to get money from my wife to barb'. But to the glory of God reverse seems to be the case today.

Guitarlife:
@op God will grant you your heart desires.

Very few women will have the mind to stand by thier spouses in such hard times.

Even if your husband hasnt found a job atleast he has found a good thing which is you a good wife.

Now lets address the issue.

The factors affecting employment especially in Nigerias tight economy varies.

Factors like connection, location, discipline, skill set, employees personality, employees possesion of interpersonal skills, age and so on.

Of all these factors especially for a married man Location is one of the most important factors that will influence his employability.

Please where are you located ?

You must realise your husband may need to learn a new skillset as a degree in philosophy might limit his scope especially if he doesnt possess thick connections.

He may need to set aside 2 years to thoroughly learn either of these skills that will brighten his chances at getting employed.

Programming, learning a new language as embassies are always looking to employ language interpreters but this may be more suitable if he were based in lagos.

Let me rest here. Everything will be fine.

yebo36:


Yes i agree with this part, i really think he should learn a skill i think that's were we need to concentrate.

We stay in Suleja Niger state about 30mins drive to Abuja. Do you think he needs to relocate to maybe Lagos? I suggested it once though and i told him i don't mind staying behind so he can find his part. What do you think sir?

Guitarlife:

Good morn ma, I'd say it would be a wrong decision for him to travel to Lagos.

Never ever agree to such advice as you could loose your home if you are not careful.

The only thing keeping his sanity is probably the sight of you and the children and the love you have showered him.

Abuja is the place for him. Almost all foreign missions have a seat in abuja. Let him do a thorough investigation of which embassy is in dire need of an interpreter and let him learn their language.

I would say Abuja is it. Relax testimonies will abound.