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The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by Olasco93: 9:38pm On Nov 29, 2015
Wooing a girl is not as easy as you think especially when it comes to dealings with Nigerian
girls, although most guys are nurturing the ideas that Nigeria girls are CHEAP and easy to be
SCREWED once you have the money.
Well it’s not all girls, a friend of mine will say "There are some 9ja girls that are naturally hard to get."

No matter how hard a girl seems to be, the right guy can still get into her heart because girls naturally are fragile in heart as so, they need to be followed up slowly, especially when you are nursing the idea of starting a relationship with them.

Not all guys have the gut to walk up to a lady and express their feelings for her, so here are Twelve (12) Tips on how to get
that 9ja girl that has been giving you sleepless night.

1. Start on a Friendship Note:
Most guys of now adays are always in a hurry to go into a relationship, that is why they end up running out of it when they later discover the true identity of the girl.
If you see a girl that you
like, before anything, you have to try as much as possible to strike a cool friendship with her before
anything.


2. Don’t Stalk her:
The fact that you are now friend with her doesn’t mean you should be stalking her. Just play it cool and safe.
Don’t call her during odd
hours except she permits you. Some Nigerian girls are quick to jump into conclusion that you can’t
afford Airtime, that’s why you are always calling during odd hours of the night. Extra cool thingz that year.

3. Don’t Fake it:
Don't just act natural, be natural. If your girl has a brain, she'll be able to detect that you're trying too hard, or striving to be something you're not. Try as much as possible to be natural in all your dealings with her. Don’t fake what you're not and don’t brag because girls hate guys that brag.
4. Be Confident:
Nothing is sexier like being Confident, it makes girls go gaga and trip for you the more.
Try as much as possible
not to let your gourd down when dealing with her. Work on your self-esteem even before striking a friendship with her. Girls are naturally fragile, they need protection; that doesn’t
mean you should go and flaunt your muscle with any guy that approaches her.

5. Don’t be Authoritative:
All girls hate guys that always questions their moves. Don’t check her
mails, sms, phone contacts & other personal stuff. Give her freedom & I bet you, she will be the one always wanting your
company. Smile at her even when you see her with a guy in such an un-compromising manner.

6. Be Neat:
Girls hate dirty guys.
Even a well known dirty girl will tell you she hate dirty guys, how much more the clean ones. Make sure you are always neat whether she is around you or not. Brush your teeth/tongue, comb your ponk, clean your nails & always wear a nice Fragrance when visiting her or she is visiting you. Don’t go to her sweaty, if you are
just returning from an exercise, make sure you shower and look calm, cool & reserved before you go visiting.


7. Be Fashionable:
Fashion is not just for girls. It's for guys to be
recognized by girls too. Get a nice shoe, T'Shirt & some pair of cool jean. Don't just buy one outfit. Clothes should never be worn more than twice a
week. Don’t overdress & don’t under dress. A wrist watch should be okay. Wearing sun glasses, three to four neck chains
& dressing like Chally-Boy
claiming its SWAGS might turn her off. To me in person, SWAG has got nothing to do with dressing. Shave your bears if you keep one, don’t go to her looking
tattered like 'werey'. She will shun you.


8. Like what she Likes:
Girls are unpredictable, so you have to be tactical when dealing with them.
The closer you get to her, the more you get to know her better. Like her siblings, her family & especially her friends.


9. Be Romantic:
Girls like romantic guys, so be romantic with your words. Don’t forget to tell her how beautiful she is & how happy you are each time you're around her. Hold her hands when necessary & look into her eyes sexily but don’t get
lust in her eyes because some girls have sexy eyes. This might embarrass her. An early morning Good Morning Beautiful sms will go a long way in her developing interest in you.


10. Be Current:
In as much as girls don’t like guys that talk too
much like Derenle, they like guys that are current.
Getting current informations online about happening around you will make her know that you are learned and that you follow trend. No girl will like to be with a bush guy.

11. Be Funny:
Being funny does not mean you should turn to a jester. Always crack sensible joke once in a while when speaking with her. Always try as much as possible to make her smile & laugh but don’t overdo it like Sikiru.
Girls hate boring guys.


12. Ask her Out:
With all these qualities, I doubt if a sensible girl will turn you down.
Goodluck to the wise guys who implore these tips.
Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by Monalisa185(f): 9:41pm On Nov 29, 2015
lol
Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by dgalon(m): 9:47pm On Nov 29, 2015
i tried all this mention above and many more..the only time it favored is when i found myself in friend-zone cry
Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by iceberylin(m): 9:48pm On Nov 29, 2015
Not wen u look like this....
Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by flokii: 9:53pm On Nov 29, 2015
undecided
mr. Special adviser... how many you don woo successfully this year?
Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by rawpadgin(m): 9:56pm On Nov 29, 2015
there are no lay down rules to get a girl for pete's sake!
Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 10:00pm On Nov 29, 2015
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Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by josephobaro(m): 10:06pm On Nov 29, 2015
Sincerely, the only period these strategies can work on a naija girl is when she's in her late 20's and upwards.
Na that time dem dey humble.

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Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by Olasco93: 10:30pm On Nov 29, 2015
dgalon:
i tried all this mention above and many more..the only time it favored is when i found myself in friend-zone cry
You don't just do these things, you got to apply wisdom too and don't let it seem you're desperate...
Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by wordbank(m): 10:43pm On Nov 29, 2015
When e happen na op go still come hia to seek advice
Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by Lovetinz(m): 10:47pm On Nov 29, 2015
1. Get yourself a range rover sport
2. Decent clothes.
Forget the rest.
Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by cutieviva69(f): 11:36pm On Nov 29, 2015
Sweetheart u jst gve suggestions on being a pretender......if she lyks u she lyks u....if u lyk form Jesus or Jagaban.....frndzone awaits u.
Re: The Perfect Strategies To Win Nowadays Nigerian Girls by vislabraye(m): 12:04am On Nov 30, 2015
Olasco93:
Wooing a girl is not as easy as you think especially when it comes to dealings with Nigerian
girls, although most guys are nurturing the ideas that Nigeria girls are CHEAP and easy to be
SCREWED once you have the money.
Well it’s not all girls, a friend of mine will say "There are some 9ja girls that are naturally hard to get."

No matter how hard a girl seems to be, the right guy can still get into her heart because girls naturally are fragile in heart as so, they need to be followed up slowly, especially when you are nursing the idea of starting a relationship with them.

Not all guys have the gut to walk up to a lady and express their feelings for her, so here are Twelve (12) Tips on how to get
that 9ja girl that has been giving you sleepless night.

1. Start on a Friendship Note:
Most guys of now adays are always in a hurry to go into a relationship, that is why they end up running out of it when they later discover the true identity of the girl.
If you see a girl that you
like, before anything, you have to try as much as possible to strike a cool friendship with her before
anything.


2. Don’t Stalk her:
The fact that you are now friend with her doesn’t mean you should be stalking her. Just play it cool and safe.
Don’t call her during odd
hours except she permits you. Some Nigerian girls are quick to jump into conclusion that you can’t
afford Airtime, that’s why you are always calling during odd hours of the night. Extra cool thingz that year.

3. Don’t Fake it:
Don't just act natural, be natural. If your girl has a brain, she'll be able to detect that you're trying too hard, or striving to be something you're not. Try as much as possible to be natural in all your dealings with her. Don’t fake what you're not and don’t brag because girls hate guys that brag.
4. Be Confident:
Nothing is sexier like being Confident, it makes girls go gaga and trip for you the more.
Try as much as possible
not to let your gourd down when dealing with her. Work on your self-esteem even before striking a friendship with her. Girls are naturally fragile, they need protection; that doesn’t
mean you should go and flaunt your muscle with any guy that approaches her.

5. Don’t be Authoritative:
All girls hate guys that always questions their moves. Don’t check her
mails, sms, phone contacts & other personal stuff. Give her freedom & I bet you, she will be the one always wanting your
company. Smile at her even when you see her with a guy in such an un-compromising manner.

6. Be Neat:
Girls hate dirty guys.
Even a well known dirty girl will tell you she hate dirty guys, how much more the clean ones. Make sure you are always neat whether she is around you or not. Brush your teeth/tongue, comb your ponk, clean your nails & always wear a nice Fragrance when visiting her or she is visiting you. Don’t go to her sweaty, if you are
just returning from an exercise, make sure you shower and look calm, cool & reserved before you go visiting.


7. Be Fashionable:
Fashion is not just for girls. It's for guys to be
recognized by girls too. Get a nice shoe, T'Shirt & some pair of cool jean. Don't just buy one outfit. Clothes should never be worn more than twice a
week. Don’t overdress & don’t under dress. A wrist watch should be okay. Wearing sun glasses, three to four neck chains
& dressing like Chally-Boy
claiming its SWAGS might turn her off. To me in person, SWAG has got nothing to do with dressing. Shave your bears if you keep one, don’t go to her looking
tattered like 'werey'. She will shun you.


8. Like what she Likes:
Girls are unpredictable, so you have to be tactical when dealing with them.
The closer you get to her, the more you get to know her better. Like her siblings, her family & especially her friends.


9. Be Romantic:
Girls like romantic guys, so be romantic with your words. Don’t forget to tell her how beautiful she is & how happy you are each time you're around her. Hold her hands when necessary & look into her eyes sexily but don’t get
lust in her eyes because some girls have sexy eyes. This might embarrass her. An early morning Good Morning Beautiful sms will go a long way in her developing interest in you.


10. Be Current:
In as much as girls don’t like guys that talk too
much like Derenle, they like guys that are current.
Getting current informations online about happening around you will make her know that you are learned and that you follow trend. No girl will like to be with a bush guy.

11. Be Funny:
Being funny does not mean you should turn to a jester. Always crack sensible joke once in a while when speaking with her. Always try as much as possible to make her smile & laugh but don’t overdo it like Sikiru.
Girls hate boring guys.


12. Ask her Out:
With all these qualities, I doubt if a sensible girl will turn you down.
Goodluck to the wise guys who implore these tips.


Also include 12 steps to follow not to be friend zoned.

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