there is this gal am dating for 2 years now thou she hurt me in several ways she asked for forgiveness due to how crazy in love I am with her I never taught twice I forgive her and I have spent so much on and even as at now i want to pay her school fee next month and she said I won't have sex with her until we are married I said no problem we continued so so this morning when we were discussing on phone I decided to ask her this question "at what age do you wish to get married" her answer was that the maximum age is 25 then I asked her that what if at that your 25 I am not financially ok because I don't want to get married and start starving my wife at this point she repeated it that its at the age of 25 then I asked her that if things are not ok for me you won't wait?
then she said she would go for prayer that if am the right one for her she would wait that if am not she would go please what should I do to her should I quit the relationship or just fold my hands and watch her while I reduce all what I have been doing for her advise please

Pls quit that relationship with immediate effect....


U r quitting dat relationship not because of the no sex thing bit because of her selfish attitude ok..



And hey, neva u pay a girl's school fees who u aint married to...!

na u sabi

I don't pray for a son like op , haba!! wen you wan get sense?

Cutehector:
Pls quit that relationship with immediate effect....


U r quitting dat relationship not because of the no sex thing bit because of her selfish attitude ok..



And hey, neva u pay a girl's school fees who u aint married to...!

bro if I want to quit she would be crying and begging me not to go

Zombie get brain pass u! U are so full of sh*t....... Just look at ur life?

ebijimi7:
bro if I want to quit she would be crying and begging me not to go

let her cry... U aint her father.. And please u hv to be wise, of all the parts of the body, the eyes are d most deceptive... She uses u and she is very selfish... Please man up and quit that relationship... And neva go bak

bros, people like u dey provoke me well well.
wetin u dey gain from this gal? nothing.
you know say if you do half of wetin u dey do for dis gal to anoda more beautiful gal she go value u die?

i just hope say u dey pay ur younger siblings school fees sha...

bro, gals too plenty for this life for you to dey foool ursef cos of one ugly fowl.

Cutehector:
let her cry... U aint her father.. And please u hv to be wise, of all the parts of the body, the eyes are d most deceptive... She uses u and she is very selfish... Please man up and quit that relationship... And neva go bak

how can I quit it without hurting her

How old is your girlfriend?

So you already concluded that you will not be financially stable when she turns 25?

Try get sense abeg...

ebijimi7:
how can I quit it without hurting her

i will send u a breakup text... Pm me...

My best friend once paid school fees for a girl. She paid him back by cheating on him multiple times, disrespecting him and causing so much emotional stress on him. He finally managed to break up with her.

It's usually not advisable to bear the financial burden of a woman unless you have the means and would not feel betrayed when things go bad. If you want to continue, do so but it may or may not turn out well for you.

On the issue of No sex, try that also at your risk. Women usually want sex as much as men so chances are, if the girl isn't doing it with you, then she's doing it with someone else.

Lastly, the girl you mentioned doesn't seem right to you. From her words, it shows that whether you're ready or not, if she sees sometime better she'll consider him before you. Continue dating her at your own risk but be warned.

Cutehector:
i will send u a breakup text... Pm me...

you re mean.
no insult intended.

the girl was being truthful.

don't break up with her.

Love the best you can....if shes not for you , she will still go. Never be afraid to love cos love the greatest thing.

Love her the best way you can....if shes not for you , she will still go. Never be afraid to love cos love the greatest thing.

mizquote:


you re mean.
no insult intended.

i know right ..

Som pple cant even handle their own person life any more.

Op gwan make money first,when ure finiancialy stable,dem gyels we come after u like brazilian hair

You don't help or sponsor a girl through school with hopes of getting her to marry you. If u want to do it, do it out of goodwill.

And onotp all these she nor allow you Gonk her. Lubbish

This is a formula many have used and the success rate of guys getting married to a lady they sponsored in school is poor I mean only 25%

When she go meet sharp guys way get razor blade mouth... whatever you do is your choice bro

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Uniqueness01:
How old is your girlfriend?

So you already concluded that you will not be financially stable when she turns 25?

Try get sense abeg...

she is just 19 I only asked to know if things happens to be bad may be she would wait u know 9ja gals only want to enjoy and not suffer along with their bf

The kenyan's say the love for something makes a man blind and deaf. Flee!

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This is the deal. If you wanna help someone, help them from your heart and not because you expect something in return.

As for your gf, quit the relationship as soon as possible. She is with you just because of the benefits she derives from you. So that later you wont come back crying that you pay school fees and babe no gree marry you.

Just concentrate on your future and making it. That should always be your priority

ebijimi7:
how can I quit it without hurting her

My brother you are not hurting her. Quit the relationship. Tell her you need space. Since she seems to be the prayer type. Tell her you have prayed and she is not theone.

Mark my word-she will NOT marry YOU.

hmmmmm ...guy run & don't look back

finish what u started.when u become broke then u leave am

pls quit d relationship

cruzita:
finish what u started.when u become broke then u leave am

lolz like seriously

You want us to tell you lies so you can continue the relationship right? Must one even be in a serious relationship self. Smiles. The best thing is dating a girl you know before she gets mature you will be okay for marriage.