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Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by obiorathesubtle: 12:24pm On Dec 03, 2015
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1. Its very ok to share the bills when you are on a date with the opposite sex

Bros. If you don't have money to pay for a Date, leave her alone! She didn't force you to take her out! All I see is a Nigga who can't pay his bills(no offence)


2. Its not a crime to ask the opposite sex for assistance especially financial assistance.

As a Man! Do NOT ask a girl for money. She go insult you later, and be like "after all the money I've given to you" even if it was just 50naira.. So! Mr Hector! What are you saying?

3. Its not shameful to assist the opposite sex in doing chores.
Now this is meant for those who r very very close to each other... You have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and lets say you two live together, boyfrnd is sick or girlfriend is sick and you as the partner is very much hale and hearty, its so not shameful to assist him or her in washing their clothes, especially his/her undies.. Yeeeah grin i know right..

you were making sense until you said "assist wash HER undies" SMH. [size=15pt]Woman wrapper![/size]

4: its very very ok to for a guy and a girl to hold hands when walking in public...

This is a bad habit! Ethically wrong!

[s]5. Its so not shameful for a guy to assist his female friend or boss to carry their handbags should they feel incapacitated to do so at that moment[/s]

[size=15pt]Woman wrapper![/size] angry

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Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by danton(m): 12:31pm On Dec 03, 2015
Cutehector:
as in eh.. We nigerians are so so uptight in lil things
Don't play the blame game pls.....well done OP

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Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 1:03pm On Dec 03, 2015
Cutehector:
So many times we try too hard to impress people, and the outcome is really that bad.. Though i stand to be corrected, buh in my opinion, i find some things very okay when one is in company with the opposite sex... Wana knw them? wink




1. Its very ok to share the bills when you are on a date with the opposite sex


Now guys and ladies have this mentality that its the guy dat is very much supposed to foot all the bills on a date... And then after all the nice time you two spend together, the guy feels its his right to sleep with the babe.. That mentality shouldnt be so.. I believe that two matured people who are on a date should share in footing the bills if need arises. its so not shameful.. It doesnt reduce ur ego..



2. Its not a crime to ask the opposite sex for assistance especially financial assistance.

Yeah, sometimes we get so broke in life, even to buy 100 naira airtym is a problem, and u have this bestie who is of the opposite sex, i really dont think its a crime to ask him/her for assistance.. Most guys be like, mehn i cant ask any girl for money, and as d big olodo you are, that same babe will suck u dry and even ur last card, u will give to her.. Buh to quit the ego when you are in need is a problem... Its not shameful tho.. Buh do not make the mistake of asking all and sundry for assistance, just ur very close friends..


3. Its not shameful to assist the opposite sex in doing chores.

Now this is meant for those who r very very close to each other... You have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and lets say you two live together, boyfrnd is sick or girlfriend is sick and you as the partner is very much hale and hearty, its so not shameful to assist him or her in washing their clothes, especially his/her undies.. Yeeeah grin i know right..


4: its very very ok to for a guy and a girl to hold hands when walking in public...


Some people are so so timid or uptight in their character, even when with the opposite sex, they still feel that awkwardness.. There are quite a good number of PDAs that aren't shameful to practice in public like holding hands while walking, holding each other by the waist, etc.. To me these aint dat shameful.. Unless you are embarrassed about him or her in public.. Sometimes, people judge a lot, their mindset are so so myopic that they see these acts like immoral.. Please if you are of that category, quit the habit and mind your business.



5. Its so not shameful for a guy to assist his female friend or boss to carry their handbags should they feel incapacitated to do so at that moment


Now many guys find it difficult to help their female friend with her handbag. She may want to get something or maybe holding too many things with her hands, its so not shameful to tell her, hey leme help u with one of them, maybe your handbag.. It just wouldnt reduce our ego, would it? wink



cool




I bliv u cos u proved it when we met shy nigga except the holding hand part u are too tall for my liking
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by firstking01(m): 1:30pm On Dec 03, 2015
laurenziz6:
For this country?/
i tell u brother, in dis part of d world....women are like sm sort of burden
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Cutehector(m): 3:22pm On Dec 03, 2015
halfrica:



I bliv u cos u proved it when we met shy nigga except the holding hand part u are too tall for my liking
go date a dwarf instead.. cool
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 3:26pm On Dec 03, 2015
Cutehector:
go date a dwarf instead.. cool



Na wa o ;( ;(
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 3:27pm On Dec 03, 2015
Cutehector:
go date a dwarf instead.. cool



Na wa o ;( ;( ;(;(
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 3:27pm On Dec 03, 2015
ssweetorgasm:
Cutehector ure so so on point, as in i often see ladies as a pest to some of my guys, all they do is just ask ask and ask, i personally will never woo a broke lady, i go for the rich ladies, u can call me a player, i dont care, becaus i know when im broke, my lady will always be there to support me. "and on the issue of holding the hands of my lady in a public environ, im addicted to holding the hand of any lady when in a public place, be it my sisters,friends or girlfriend.
hmmmmm ssoftaple shebi u will go field today?
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Cutehector(m): 3:28pm On Dec 03, 2015
halfrica:




Na wa o ;( ;( ;(;(
wah? U dnt like tall guys na
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 3:30pm On Dec 03, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
*modified*


1. Its very ok to share the bills when you are on a date with the opposite sex

Bros. If you don't have money to pay for a Date, leave her alone! She didn't force you to take her out! All I see is a Nigga who can't pay his bills(no offence)


2. Its not a crime to ask the opposite sex for assistance especially financial assistance.

As a Man! Do NOT ask a girl for money. She go insult you later, and be like "after all the money I've given to you" even if it was just 50naira.. So! Mr Hector! What are you saying?

3. Its not shameful to assist the opposite sex in doing chores.
Now this is meant for those who r very very close to each other... You have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and lets say you two live together, boyfrnd is sick or girlfriend is sick and you as the partner is very much hale and hearty, its so not shameful to assist him or her in washing their clothes, especially his/her undies.. Yeeeah grin i know right..

you were making sense until you said "assist wash HER undies" SMH. [size=15pt]Woman wrapper![/size]

4: its very very ok to for a guy and a girl to hold hands when walking in public...

This is a bad habit! Ethically wrong!

[s]5. Its so not shameful for a guy to assist his female friend or boss to carry their handbags should they feel incapacitated to do so at that moment[/s]

[size=15pt]Woman wrapper![/size] angry
guy pls buy some brain,there is no woman wrapping in sharing the bills or asking a lady for money.,it depend on your relationship with the party.

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Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Sam432(m): 3:30pm On Dec 03, 2015
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Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 3:31pm On Dec 03, 2015
Cutehector:
wah? U dnt like tall guys na
ur tallness is in a different level.even iroko self dey learn for were u deycheesy
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 3:32pm On Dec 03, 2015
Sam432:
you need a sugarmummy. Call agent Sam ,I can assist you in getting a sugarmummy of your choice there are so many Nigeria and out side Nigeria women who are desperate in getting a guy that we satisfy them. If you are interested contact me today on my mobile number via or call Mr Sam +2347067073362
life don pass dis stage bros.
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Cutehector(m): 3:39pm On Dec 03, 2015
Jolllyjoy:
ur tallness is in a different level.even iroko self dey learn for were u deycheesy
trust me, i am not as tall as u think i am.. Just 6ft
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by obiorathesubtle: 3:53pm On Dec 03, 2015
Jolllyjoy:
guy pls buy some brain,there is no woman wrapping in sharing the bills or asking a lady for money.,it depend on your relationship with the party.
I would like to patronise your brain business please.


I cut my coat according to my pocket and not to my size! I'll only be a damn pvssy if I let the woman pay the bills or ask her for money. I have the right ego and it has done me well!

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Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 4:22pm On Dec 03, 2015
Cutehector:
wah? U dnt like tall guys na

Its nt my fault na
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Cutehector(m): 4:38pm On Dec 03, 2015
halfrica:


Its nt my fault na
so why u come dey vex wit ma reply.. Aint ma fault too
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 5:40pm On Dec 03, 2015
Adaure4ever:
But some guys hate carrying the handbag for a girl when walking on the road.
what is ur take on that? For me if the lady has it heavy i would help her. But many ladies will see this as "mumuish"
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Teryfik(m): 6:03pm On Dec 03, 2015
i tink dis Op lacks 2 tins:"PRIDE & PRESTIGE"

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Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by 2dice(m): 6:12pm On Dec 03, 2015
Adaure4ever:
But some guys hate carrying the handbag for a girl when walking on the road.
hehehehehe Carry Hand Bag?
Is she HANDicap?

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Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by merizy(f): 6:34pm On Dec 03, 2015
Cutehector:
lol.. Such girls r very rare to find.. Neva let go of her
ur cute
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by merizy(f): 6:37pm On Dec 03, 2015
Cutehector:
so why u come dey vex wit ma reply.. Aint ma fault too
ur d cutest guy i have seen in dis nl

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Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Cutehector(m): 6:46pm On Dec 03, 2015
merizy:
ur cute
thnks merizy... smiley
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by lurlah2014(f): 6:54pm On Dec 03, 2015
U should not be ashamed to FAT in present of opposite sex.
I don't know GIRLS be forming since 1900AD and my sharp guys don't care to rusticate ur stomach with their uncensored FATS in countless time

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Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by merizy(f): 6:56pm On Dec 03, 2015
Cutehector:
thnks merizy... smiley
ur wlc
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by ilo04(m): 7:02pm On Dec 03, 2015
I like dat no 3
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Davidovinci(m): 8:18pm On Dec 03, 2015
Long story just............................

Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 8:40pm On Dec 03, 2015
Jolllyjoy:
hmmmmm ssoftaple shebi u will go field today?
YES i don come back 4rm field, bath hot steamy bath, eat better egusi soup with chicken, then sit 4 sitting room dey watch one yeye film 4 africa magic but as e be say mom nor go allow me change am from africa magic to supersport make i watch football, i just come room, pick my phone, enta nairaland to kill puxaco.
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Cutehector(m): 11:04pm On Dec 03, 2015
lurlah2014:
U should not be ashamed to FAT in present of opposite sex.
I don't know GIRLS be forming since 1900AD and my sharp guys don't care to rusticate ur stomach with their uncensored FATS in countless time
its a fvcking bad habit! Jeeez! Dnt tell me u do that!
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by bettercreature(m): 4:36pm On Dec 16, 2015
Mhizkel:
You shouldn't be ashamed to kiss in public toocheesy
Its called public nuisance in Nigeria beside i dont think their is dignity in creating a terrible scene in public
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 4:38pm On Dec 16, 2015
Boss? Nope
Female friends? Yes
Re: Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex by Cutehector(m): 4:42pm On Dec 16, 2015
daretodiffer:
Boss? Nope
Female friends? Yes

lol i had a boss who i told i was hungry and she bought me lunch

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