girlhaley:

Lmao.....Na that day u go smell ur ynash

Nothing go HAPPEN my dear Warri for life

Shuo!!! See cutehector o!

All is OK but no1

gevans:
Nothing go HAPPEN my dear Warri for life

Lol.....okay o

cee001:
I SMH profusely for dose kinda men... #noappologies

Those men are nothing but fools

Lolz, guys are happy to share bills bt av a problem wt carrying bags.
I'm nt against a couple in a relationship helping themselves out financially. But why ask a girl out on a date if u know u can't fund it? That's just smh.

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Cutehector:
u ladies r just confused. Sorry to say

You are the confused one here

Nigerians have sense of self-entitlement

She would soon start sending you here and there

I can help her with other stuffs

certainly not her hand-bag

Adaure4ever:
But some guys hate carrying the handbag for a girl when walking on the road.

Yep! Sometimes your you fear she might begin to think she has you under wraps and sometimes that does happen.

Other times you have siblings older than her and if you grew up in a normal conservative family, they don't dare ask you such a favour so you wonder who the .... She thinks she is to ask it of you.

Looking back though, it's much a big deal.

Adaure4ever:
But some guys hate carrying the handbag for a girl when walking on the road.

Yep! Sometimes you fear she might begin to think she has you under wraps and she light actually then start acting so.

Other times you have siblings older than her and if you grew up in a normal conservative family, they don't dare ask you such a favour so you wonder who the .... She thinks she is to ask it of you.

Looking back though, it's much a big deal.

Interesting

Can I kiss you...??

nigga..washing undies are you for real damn!

e go take time b4 nigerians go adapt fully 2 this relationship tips becus even married couples wer surpose 2 da do the romance da shaming shy na da singles u want make dem practice am #UNWANTED PREGNANCY go show face be that!

is it right for a lady to sit on a guys laps in public?

Cutehector, U know all these yet u are still single

figo05:
Cutehector, U know all these yet u are still single

my brother

romelady:
is it right for a lady to sit on a guys laps in public?

naaah... Not right

HaneefahRN:
Lolz, guys are happy to share bills bt av a problem wt carrying bags.
I'm nt against a couple in a relationship helping themselves out financially. But why ask a girl out on a date if u know u can't fund it? That's just smh.

ur comment shows u ddnt read my post in between lines! Go bak and read point number one carefully again

Good one but number 5 gat me pensive.

What about ' you do a,nal?'

ssweetorgasm:
. "and on the issue of holding the hands of my lady in a public environ, im addicted to holding the hand of any lady when in a public place, be it my sisters,friends or girlfriend

So why are you now telling us?

Cutehector:
its not w bad thing, is it? I personally dnt see any wrong in a girl washin a guy's undies and a guy washn a girl's undies.. I duno abt yhu..

OP, you're so not okay for planting the seed of deceit





Make I carry handbag wen her hand no cut


Make we share bill, make she use am talk say I no gada



Make I hold hand, make anoda opeke cast me




Sooooorrrrrrryyyyyy oh!

I agree with u on points 1-3 but disagree on point 4 ,5 u need to determine the relationship u av with the opposite sex to hold hands in public, u certainly can't hold hands with ur neigbors wife in public or with ur female boss that could get u in trouble.


Its okay to carry bags for ur wife, or mums or boss but not every woman o, lest they look at u in disdain.
Ladies don't respect men who defer to them, they like men who respect themselves and say no to such requests by ladies.

I do practise numbers;3,4 and 5 confidently....but if I ask a lady(whether gf or not) for say #200 card and she asks me questions first or gives excuse, then my perspective and relation to her changes immediately...although I'm not always amazed cos from the days of my grandma, those species have never had money.

Cutehector:
ur comment shows u ddnt read my post in between lines! Go bak and read point number one carefully again

Yh, I read ur post. I'm actually referring to most of the replies by guys, even at tht I think it's weird for a guy to ask a girl out on a date and be waiting on her to share in footing the bills, unless she offered to herself, did she beg for the date?
It's a different thing if the guy and lady are just very good friends or besties just going out to av fun and catch up, they are used to each other and the girl can even pay up. But a guy asking a girl he is trying to know and build a relatnship wt on a date and he is expecting her to share in footing the bill is weird, if he isn't so buoyant he can always take her to somewhere he knws he can manage, unless the guy is very poor, to solve tht, taking a girl out is not by force. If the lady is rich, she can even be the one to take him out on a date and settle everything . That's just it. I kinda agree wt ur other points
About the issue of bags my mom's junior colleagues even males are always quick to take her bag bt she never leaves it, and she appreciates them a lot for the gesture.

Cutehector:
ur comment shows u ddnt read my post in between lines! Go bak and read point number one carefully again

Yh, I read ur post. I'm actually referring to most of the replies by guys, even at tht I think it's weird for a guy to ask a girl out on a date and be waiting on her to share in footing the bills, unless she offered to herself, did she beg for the date?
It's a different thing if the guy and lady are just very good friends or besties just going out to av fun and catch up, they are used to each other and the girl can even pay up. But a guy asking a girl he is trying to know and build a relatnship wt on a date and he is expecting her to share in footing the bill is weird, if he isn't so buoyant he can always take her to somewhere he knws he can manage, unless the guy is very poor, to solve tht, taking a girl out is not by force. If the lady is rich, she can even be the one to take him out on a date and settle everything .That's just it. I kinda agree wt ur other points
About the issue of bags my mom's junior colleagues even males are always quick to take her bag bt she never leaves it, and she appreciates them a lot for the gesture.

HaneefahRN:

Yh, I read ur post. I'm actually referring to most of the replies by guys, even at tht I think it's weird for a guy to ask a girl out on a date and be waiting on her to share in footing the bills, unless she offered to herself, did she beg for the date?
It's a different thing if the guy and lady are just very good friends or besties just going out to av fun and catch up, they are used to each other and the girl can even pay up. But a guy asking a girl he is trying to know and build a relatnship wt on a date and he is expecting her to share in footing the bill is weird, if he isn't so buoyant he can always take her to somewhere he knws he can manage, unless the guy is very poor, to solve tht, taking a girl out is not by force. If the lady is rich, she can even be the one to take him out on a date and settle everything .That's just it. I kinda agree wt ur other points
About the issue of bags my mom's junior colleagues even males are always quick to take her bag bt she never leaves it, and she appreciates them a lot for the gesture.

1. Its very ok to share the bills when you are on a date with the opposite sex


Now guys and ladies have this mentality that its the guy dat is very much supposed to foot all the bills on a date... And then after all the nice time you two spend together, the guy feels its his right to sleep with the babe.. That mentality shouldnt be so.. I believe that two matured people who are on a date should share in footing the bills if need arises. its so not shameful.. It doesnt reduce ur ego..

i wrote if the need arises.. Maybe he may be payin with credit card, and smth happens, network ish.. Or he just found out that he forgot his wallet in the car.. Smth like that.. Do u understand?

Cutehector:
i wrote if the need arises.. Maybe he may be payin with credit card, and smth happens, network ish.. Or he just found out that he forgot his wallet in the car.. Smth like that.. Do u understand?

Ok, nw I grab. The lady can even pay up in tht situation. But I can tell most pple commenting didn't see tht 'when the need arises'

HaneefahRN:

Ok, nw I grab. The lady can even pay up in tht situation. But I can tell most pple commenting didn't see tht 'when the need arises'

dats why i just ddnt even answer anybody quoting me regarding number one especially the females... I just ddnt want to get angry. People cant just bendown and read inbetween lines. Evryword counts!

Op number 5, I disagree with you