Teempakguy:
This I don't agree with.

I've researched the act and it doesn't have any effects whatsoever. either medical or physical or emotional. it's a normal act in people.

he only has guilt because of religious indoctrination. that sexual activity is bad and is a sin. masturbation is not the only act frowned upon, in deeply religious communites, any act of scientific inquiry is frowned upon as bad and evil and students often feel guilt for questioning religious dogmas. something which is absolutely normal! there are some african tribes that actually participate in open masturbation and all these activities, and they are quite healthy. even animals do masturbate.(and these ones can get partners very easily!)

If he is going to stop masturbating, it should be a personal act of principle. not because he's trying to "avert" some none existent consequence.

You are going by research dear, and i by personal experiences.

I have seen it destroy homes and individuals.

Give your life to God.

iceberylin:
Cut off your Hand...

U are just so childish, man. Grow up!

Classicman47:


U are just so childish, man. Grow up!

Thanks for the advice

first of only God can help u n ur wil to stop. I was in ur shoes som years ago n i hav d scar. Email me tro:thewordisworking.gmail.com lets talk n pray 2geda n God tro ur cooperatn wil help u. Shalom bro.

Go to sexuality section......there is a thread about places to meet pleasure girls.....just ask around a cheap one would be found for your vicinity

Just take it to God in prayer and bind all the demons allocated to you, there after you need to stand your ground against the urge whenever it comes . I can tell you is not easy but doable .once you can get over it in a week you have the victory. Most importantly stop watching mojo .

iceberylin:
Cut off your Hand...

this answer is even biblical. that way u will stop having sex with ur hand since the hand is not there

The only I can say to u my man is dis: it will ONLY TAKE DIVINE INTERVENTION or MIRACLE or whatever you choose to call it, for you to stop this act.

It has been deeply ingrained in ur subconscious that you don't even need to think about it before ur mind just says to you..."look, you haven't masturbated today...why don't you just do it now". And I bet u can't ever resist it.

To all these guys saying, think of what jesus wld say, blah blah blah... I have this to say to all of you: YOU have absolutely NO IDEA what you are talking about cuz you have never been there before so keep ur opinion to ursef cuz it don't apply here!

To my brother who is going thru this struggle... You are not alone bro. We in this same shit together.

I have to warn you though: you are causing serious(possibly irreparable) damage to your vital organs. For instance, am sure you notice very prominent veins/blood vessels on ur manhood. Those are not good signs at all. Talk about erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation & inability to maintain erection. Not to mention low sperm count like some1 already told you.

Pls ignore those who tell you that masturbation is harmless. That is a lie from the pit of hell. Excessive masturbation(which is obviously what is happening to you...and me) is more destructive than you can imagine.

Mostly what I do when it gets too much is this, I simply throw my hands in the air and say "GOD pls HELP ME". And I believe he will...some day.

iceberylin:


Thanks for the advice

U are welcome. And I suggest you take it serious.

Classicman47:


U are welcome. And I suggest you take it serious.

I appreciate...

Go and get a wife.. I guess u av pass 25years of age.. That is d only solution bro...
Go ur village.. Rite now.

Classicman47:


U are welcome. And I suggest you take it serious.

Do you read the bible
Remember"if your eyes will stop you from making heaven take em out"

Still think am childish

victorvreng:
this answer is even biblical. that way u will stop having sex with ur hand since the hand is not there

And one idiot thinks am childish

1. Stop watching porn
2. Busy with some interesting activities
3. Discuss it with some who is very nature spiritually, that will not discuss it anyone, Buh will personally monitor u.
Shalom

Teempakguy:
hahaha.

There's no bloody way this is going to ever work. you know why?

because at that point, the limbic system is dominant. the part of the brain that controls the basest desires of humans, is in full force. and when this is happening, the cerebral cortex cannot do anything. the order of priority is clear, when the limbic system wants something, the cortex cannot override it.

so at that point, philosophizing about what Jesus is thinking would be totally pointless. he won't even be able to reach a conclusion as the limbic system continues to bombard the mind with urges that cannot be overcome by logic or reasoning.

this is probably why rapists and murders blame the devil for their actions. they are yet to realize that the real culprit is their own malfunctioning limbic system.

i love this Teempakguy! He's a H.D Definition of a scientist!
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Anyway, Op the best way to stop this is to get urself a girlfriend, its gon make u lose interest in all that porn ish.!

JESUS can help you out of this situation if only you are willing and ready to surrender your life to him!

Ayo081:
13 years? damn
The best way is to get a job
Idle hand is the devil work shop

True talk

get married, atleast wen u are married instead of jekin off yurslf yur wife is der to jek in her....tnk me latter

Yea... Use to b like yhu... A chronic masturbator., like 5 times a day.. Buh I thank God Almight, I'm finally free. Though am nt a winner member, bt I attend shiloh, and got ma breakthrough. Glory b 2 God. Although, sometimes, d urge comes, bt wen it does, I jxt shout "get behind me satan" n immediately, I will b alright... And so on until now, I don't even knw what masturbation is until I saw dis post. God will help u bro.. Just see a pastor!

limgo:
Pray to God about it and you will see changes

hmmm, #change I hope no be apc owne o

[quote author=Rememberfa4 post=41000320]Hmmm. My brother, the Lord will deliver u and makes u a living testimony just as He did for me. By the grace of GOD I am a living testimony today. I was in it for almost twelve years. I got married in 2011 and the Lord delivered me in 2013. Fasting upon fasting, prayers and deliverance of different kind, but nothing happend. My brother, JESUS knows the way out and I pray HE will see you through. In addition to all the godly advices given above.Look at the following as well.
- mastubation is a sin
- Confess your sins (1joh 1:9-10)
-Accept Jesus as your Lord and personal savior
-Ask Jesus to come into your life.
-Avoid porn of any kind because whatever you see and hear have a lot to do with your life
-Be prayerful.
-Go for deliverance with "reall" man of GOD.
-Feel bad or frown at it when it happens.



apart from spiritual set back,does it affect u negatively in terms of medical and sexaul life.

enlighting the youth sir. [color=#550000][quote author=Reme

In summary brother, you need a friend whose name is Jesus. But for him to come and deliver you from this bondage you must accept Him as your personal saviour and Lord, believe that He came to die for your sins and confess all known sins before Him alone, Matthew 11v28 come unto me, all ye that are labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. (say this short prayer) Lord I come unto you today and say that I am deeply sorry for all my sins, I acknowledge that you came and died for all my sins, I want you to come into my life and be my personal saviour and Lord. cancel my name from the book of death and write my name in the book of life. Thank you Jesus for saving me. Amen. Bro. if you said the prayer then please for your growth spiritually, I advice you look for a bible believing church around you to fellowship with. thanks

I overcame that, you too can. It is demonic my brother. When you are masturbating you are having intercourse with demon . You need Jesus power to overcome this and strong willpower . You can't free yourself. Only Jesus can help you

211Observer:
...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

Pray your Rosary daily and ask mother Mary to obtain for you the grace to quit the sinful act. You will surely stop if you do wat i ask you. PRAY YOUR ROSARY.

Op pray everyday, read your bible everyday, go to church regularly (U can try MFM) they do a lot of deliverance..look for other areas to channel your energy into and stop watching porn.

My brother, thanks for bn sincere. Yu r on yur way to freedom. Its a habit dat once formed, dies hardly. But thanks be to God dat gives us victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. I masturbated for over 15 years, I got angry with myself even after bn born again. Its a strong spirit of immortality dat is there to deny yu of blessings from God, and ultimately nullify n pollute yu before God.
You need grace and help from Christ with dis determination. Repent from your sins and confess same to God. Receive Christ as your Lord personal saviour.The blood of Christ is more than able to set yu free. Pray violently n set yourself free by the power of d cross of Jesus n d ressurrection power of d Holy Spirit. God bless yu.

Guy see just try and stay around people take away ur memory off sex 2. delete all bad porn video from ur phone try and stay with nice frds dat say something about sin and how u can bee good in future ....... Guy see if u say alone it comes and if fine gals come around it come so stay close to people all ways ...........

........try if ur spam look like tink full just take Bible open any pussion and read ....... call the lord to take control over u dat all

You need serious deliverance , with one truck of caine to flog the demon out of you.[color=]You need serious deliverance , with one truck of caine to flog the demon out of you.[/color]You need serious deliverance , with one truck of caine to flog the demon out of you.

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Ill advise you to pray fervently concerning it ask God to touch you, and grant u salvation. I had been a victim of that for sum years but when I encountered God in watchman catholic charismatic renewal movement. Got salvation I can't remembered when last I did such a thing. It just fizzled away with the thoughts of it.