luvguy:
must u comment?

adajiboyy:
U got the will in u if u wana stop it.try not to watch porn again,pray to God,bt above all na u oooo.no one puts ur hand in ur dick now,so when d urge comes,just tell it no,if u can go 3 days,u try,after 3 days aim for 1 week,if u can,u are winning d battle then u go for a month.guy am not sayin it easy ooo,bt it very achievable.I wish u all d best.

sauceEEP:
Get yourself a girlfriend @ op.

Twaci:
Whenever u are about to start masturbating, look up and ask yourself, "What is Jesus thinking right now?"

Bro, trust me on this one.

Samfigo1:

If only you can remember that!

Ay04z:
What is masturbation?

211Observer:
...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

Teempakguy:
This one is strong!


to those saying you should get rid of porn from your phone . . . well, what about the porn on the streets?

the truth is, there is probably not much you can do about it yourself. it's become an addiction. your body thinks it's normal.(apparently it is . . . or not . . . who even knows.)

so you might want to use what is called neuroassociative conditioning. where you reward yourself for not wanking off, and punish yourself for doing so. or you can have someone else do it for you.

the problem here is you have to actually find an equally satisfying venture to replace your urges for this to work. how you are going to do that . . . i have no idea. but if you are unable to replace the faux happiness it gives you with something equally satisfying but otherwise more . . . acceptable, you'll just find yourself going back to it.

my opinion.

Twaci:
Whenever u are about to start masturbating, look up and ask yourself, "What is Jesus thinking right now?"

Bro, trust me on this one.

Twaci:
Guilt comes as feelings does, U can't just tell him to switch it off like that.

Ok forget the bible factor and the fact he said he's disgusted with himself any time it occurred, what would u say about the low sperm count that'd occur in the nearest future? Would turning off his guilt remedy that?

I agree its a natural occurrence but that shouldn't be an excuse to continue to cause yourself harm.

Aside from its physical/medical effects, it also take toils on one emotional life.

Call a spade a spade.

Classicman47:


Where is ur common sense my man. Someone wishes to stop committing wrong, and you advise him to engage in a different wrong? Nawa for ppl o

Twaci:
Guilt comes as feelings does, U can't just tell him to switch it off like that.

Ok forget the bible factor and the fact he said he's disgusted with himself any time it occurred, what would u say about the low sperm count that'd occur in the nearest future? Would turning off his guilt remedy that?

I agree its a natural occurrence but that shouldn't be an excuse to continue to cause yourself harm.

Aside from its physical/medical effects, it also take toils on one emotional life.

Call a spade a spade.

Teempakguy:
hahaha.

There's no bloody way this is going to ever work. you know why?

because at that point, the limbic system is dominant. the part of the brain that controls the basest desires of humans, is in full force. and when this is happening, the cerebral cortex cannot do anything. the order of priority is clear, when the limbic system wants something, the cortex cannot override it.

so at that point, philosophizing about what Jesus is thinking would be totally pointless. he won't even be able to reach a conclusion as the limbic system continues to bombard the mind with urges that cannot be overcome by logic or reasoning.

this is probably why rapists and murders blame the devil for their actions. they are yet to realize that the real culprit is their own malfunctioning limbic system.

Nnaemiemax:


I onced lived this terrible and self destructive life, at a time, I felt I was never going to overcome, I kept praying and asking God to help me and it seemed as though I was wasting my time, but one thing about God is that He constantly wishes and wants us well.
The first thing you need to understand is that you are in a fierce war with satanic agents - invisible to the human eye but so real as you and me.

I engaged in a spiritual war against these wicked vipers - this was necessary to reclaim all the natural virtues that God had pre-deposited in your life, engaged in total sanctification through prayer and fasting and asked God "what next" ... and he showed me three major techniques to continuously overcome.

Before anything, confess your sins and submit to the Lord Jesus. Genuinely tell him to come into your life and make you anew. YES it's the first step before any other step to Victory. When you are done with this then you can now roll;

1. Guiding the heart and mind diligently: prov. 4:23 this is the first step to wining, because your mind is the initial battlefield, if you loose this initial battle, then it will be by God's divine grace for you to stand. Immediately the thought comes ino your mind, resist and rebuke it aggressively (you will have to speak it with faith and confidence, James 4:7b.) The moment this happens it will be as if you are poured cold water and you will Feel sudden calmness. I strongly recommend this books "battlefield of the mind" by Joyce Meyer, and "Pigs in the parlor" by Frank Hammond.

2. Be alert and vigilant: You have successfully scaled through step one and you are happy but you are just getting started because demons never give up, they have been on earth before us and have handled even tougher people before now and still messed them up, so what you just did seems to be like a newbie stunt to them. The Bible says 'be sober and vigilant because your adversary the devil as a ROARING LION seeketh whom he will destroy. 1pet:5v8. You need to develop that mindset of the active presence of demonic presence around you, because the most workable trick used by these wicked entities for ages is to give us an impression that they ARE NOT REAL!
Why you this mindset is to keep yourself active because they will be coming a second time, with fiercer energy, and when do resist them again. If you are in a room or in an enclosed place kindly step out of that place, remember it's a war and it's not about just spiritual but also physical. Don't worry, in a couple of months you would have garned sufficient grace to resist the thoughts and maintain position.

3. Cut off negative stimulants and pollutants: There are things you must stop to maintain soundness. pornography, toxic relationships and associations, you may not believe but if you are a fan of trace, hip tv, soundcity or other secular music channel, I tell you this truth that majority of what is being pushed to us is sexually defiling, Highly contaminable and destructive. The magnitude of what you take into your mind is what later hunts or uplifts you.
The word of God must be your constant companion because that is the only way you can get fresh first hand clue from God to rewin.
I am a living testimony of God's divine deliverance and I assure you that soon you will also be a n encouragement to someone to. Be strong, be courageous, God is faithful, His thoughts for you are of peace and not of evil, You will overcome, because Christ overcame, He knows you need help, keep asking him to fix you again, and He would.
Remain blessed!

iceberylin:

WTF are you saying