YourMain:
There's actually no need. Why would you be insecure in your relationship ? Communication is key.

AfroKnight:
Me I have not done it before. I nor wan see wetin go pain me. My phone is accessible to my babe. But she too doesn't care about my messages and chats.

She be woman. I know there are guys who would be toasting her, sending love messages and all. I don't want see that nonsense before I vex curse somebody destiny. (just kidding).

MzPecs:
I don't have a problem with my partner going through my phone.

I only have a problem with checking my partner's phone cos who never can tell, I don't wanna have heart attack biko!

misspicy:
Right! in short very Right especially if you don't trust your partner

Odunharry:

lol...fragile heart

Very fragile..

misspicy:
Right! in short very Right especially if you don't trust your partner

Odunharry:

lol..this what I'm expecting to hear...I'm not insecure dear.

so ur opinion is you don't allow ur guy go through ur Fone and you don't either that's good

MRBrownJ:
when the trust is gone, and suspicions arise, then its logical that people will start to snoop around.... sadly, thats also the beginning of the end for many.

Odunharry:

lol.. good opinions are coming in

Odunharry:
not really a matter of trust.. it could be they stop spending time, u notice change etc.

YourMain:


Lol no I wouldn't care. He should trust me enough to know there's nothing on my phone. If my phone rings he's allowed to pick it up or if I got a notification he may read it. And vice versa

There's no point in being in a relationship if you're insecure. If you've to check up on him every minute. You're just giving yourself unnecessary headache.

Just my opinion though.

misspicy:

and then they doubt themselves and check each others phones



bro we are on the same page

donbenedict:
i pirru ur husband

Odunharry:

thats why it's written once a while especially when there's suspicions and lack of time/affection.


like I said, it's never my thing/style to snoop

Odunharry:

lol.. sure..
That's why I said its not my thing and I won't discourage any who want to thread that path they should just gather courage to face anything they see

misspicy:

okay bro


illustration 101 :
so I have a bf,he locks his phone and doesn't care about my phone too,in short he doesn't touch it,I later discovered I was the side chick......
I would have saved myself the relationship stress if I had snooped earlier

Favolly:
First time I did it....

Found out he had a babymama and another ex that had done 4 abortions for him.

Did I regret doing it? Nope

Will I do it again? Of course

That Caveat is very valid; anyone that wants to do it should be prepared to face anything he/she may discover

YourMain:


Why would you be with someone you're suspicious of Anyways. I get what you're saying. It just makes me iffy. No matter what you see on that phone, as innocent as it may be, your head will make it 100 times worse.

You should just talk Your partner if you're not comfortable in your relationship and if his response isn't satisfactory then realise you're so much better than someone that makes you insecure in your relationship.