Odunharry:

she's still getting it wrong by saying she won't be dating a liar in the first place..

A liar, thief, fraudster, woman beater and what have you won't tell you they are all those..
Make she leave matter for Matthias

YourMain:


I've enough experience to last me forever and a day.

Yes. But you are aware of the guy before you started dating him. The only reason you're snooping is cause you don't trust him. If you find nothing the trust won't just suddenly develop. It's so much more effective if you just told the guy you're uncomfortable and why. And if he loved you enough he'd change .

No oo! I think it's utterly disrespectful. I know the kind of person I am and if I ever had a man snoop on me to find out something bad about me I'd 100% be done with him. Because trust will not be the biggest thing we will encounter. We're not on a battlefield. We're on the same side of the team. We will have other problems and are you going to solve them by spying on me ? What? It's such atrocious behavior. Will you ask for a DNA test to verify our child is ours ?

Timbuktou:


Nna, you must check o. Forget all that trust talk. Trust, but verify. Nigerian girls are not playing. Believe them at your own peril. Any man that doesnt fùck a Nigerian babe with a condom is either very brave or very naive. It will end on tears.

Odunharry:

lol at you have enough experience to last you..
In the datin/marriage game and what have you, nobody is an encyclopedia.

YourMain:

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YourMain:

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YourMain:


I've enough experience to last me forever and a day.

Yes. But you are aware of the guy before you started dating him. The only reason you're snooping is cause you don't trust him. If you find nothing the trust won't just suddenly develop. It's so much more effective if you just told the guy you're uncomfortable and why. And if he loved you enough he'd change .

Odunharry:

she's still getting it wrong by saying she won't be dating a liar in the first place..

A liar, thief, fraudster, woman beater and what have you won't tell you they are all those..
Make she leave matter for Matthias

Odunharry:
Do you think going through your partner's phone once a while is right and can you allow your partner go through yours??

As for me , use to hate the habit though I don't have problem with anyone going through my phone until I discovered something years back..

My opinion is simple, Check if you want to check especially if you feeling suspicious or you getting less affection and time from ur partner.

Only people who have something to hide will not allow you check and I don't see what's there to hide form my partner except I have an ulterior motive

why I think it's right if you want to is simple..
It can save from cheating partner, deceitful relationship, heartbreak, disease, forced pregnancy etc etc

CAVEAT Be prepared and be strong to take or face anything you see..

repogirl:
Trust is earned and not written on the fore head. How can I know what to communicate about if on the outside the guy seems to be a saint? You don live in his head/ heart to know what he really is about?

I am married.

In the beginning and of our courtship, I used to snoop through his phones, just to get an idea of who he was. I had no reason not to trust him. Even after he travelled out of the country for almost two years, I knew who he was, so I was very secure.

Now, a few years into marriage, I was snooping one day and came across a Skype chat with some corper girl in his office which I believed was inappropriate and I told him about it. He laughed it off that it was nothing and was just joking with the girl but I told him it wasn't right and such jokes were not funny.

Another time he was joking with some colleagues where they were discussing some inappropriate stuff and I let him know that I wasn't comfy with such jokes.

Since then I haven't seen any inappropriate chats to any female or with any of his colleagues.

I still go through his devices once a while as I have his password and vise versa, he knows I snoop, I dont hide it.

He has never given me a reason not to trust him but even then, I will still check, if only to help maintain him.

Odunharry:

YourMain:

Well if experience is the best teacher. Then I'm fine.

Odunharry:

lol .. experience is not the only teacher

misspicy:

ehen you are a spy right,

Fara.no come and see one,he is spying on us

misspicy:

lol


this assignment you want to gif me so,I will charge you o

MzPecs:
I don't have a problem with my partner going through my phone.

I only have a problem with checking my partner's phone cos who never can tell, I don't wanna have heart attack biko!

NewSheriff:
Wow
Why can't you allow someone you're romantically involved with even your husband check your phone yet you don't have a problem with other persons checking your phone? Aren't you supposed to be open to each other?

misspicy:

really? lol

Odunharry:

very true sir.. people lie n pretend alot on here.

I don't take what they say too serious..

McTobe:
Ama pay...meanwhile see endtime weight check method>> You can now check your weight on your phone; just dial
*158#, put it on ground then stand on your phone, if you
want accurate reading, just jump on it and quickly check
out the readings. No need to thank me for this just hold the thank

McTobe:
I have been spying on u since 1900 and it gladdens my heart

tolutweety:


Now I see why you kept asking for my fone all the times we were together.

Oliviaarims:
In my opinion, I'd say that if ur relationship seems perfect enough, then it's better to save urself the trouble of going through his phone... Because there's every likelihood u may see sth that wouldn't go down well with u, even if it's not sth actually bad. It may just be some silly jokes he makes with his female friends, or a particular girl he talks with quite often or usual guys - talk.


But when u see stuffs like that, u'd most certainly get irked up and strt nursing unnecessary doubts. So, my dear, unless u suspect foul play, pls don't snoop around.

CoCoLav:


Yes...and you broke my heart!
You were having an affair with Nkechi! Still unbelievable.

wha....at !!!
Don't tell me you believed all the stuff you saw on my fone.
Person no fit just play with another lady again..

Gimme chance make i gum your broken heart together again na.

AfroKnight:
Me I have not done it before. I nor wan see wetin go pain me. My phone is accessible to my babe. But she too doesn't care about my messages and chats.

She be woman. I know there are guys who would be toasting her, sending love messages and all and me I don't want to see that nonsense make I no I vex curse somebody destiny. (just kidding).

nkemdi89:

I am not legally tied down, so it's legally and criminally for him to be going through my phone,is not every secret of your life you share with your friend, there are some family and official issues you may have converse on your phone, because of his prying attitude I don't feel comfortable keeping those things on my phone, he should know before he was there others have been trying to make move, I won't make them enemies because of him. He was only being insecure.

cheerycoco:
Well,i go through my boyfriend's phone like every second i have an opportunity,i read his messages,watsapp,facebook,vault messages,and the truth is that i do it mostly involuntarily,sometimes i try so hard not to touch his phone but i can't control it. I know he luvs me and i luv him but he cheats on me,he tries to hide it by using vault to hide all the calls and messages but i still unlock them,sometimes i stay awake all night when i visit him to browse the phone and i don't know how to stop,i get hurt everytime i go tru his phone. I called 2a of those girls and warn them to leave him alone and i know they report it to him but he will never ask me and he will still behave normal as if he didn't hear anything.I know u guys will advice me to leave him but i can't because i have a phobia of loneliness.and i am so used to him and i love him.

ikp4succes:


The fact that he marries you does not mean he can't divorce you. What am saying is, u being girlfriend sound unofficial to you, and u want that paper/document saying you are married. This is not like olden days, if you guys get married and he is tired of you, he can still divorce you/ or cheat on you. So you want to do it right the first time, no rushing. Keep your options opened, just shows that you would marry anybody that gives you a ring. You shouldn't dwell too deep in the fantasy of marriage.