Is it really wrong to be flirting on the internet? I met this guy online, never seen him before (and would probably never see him). We chat on messenger everyday. My colleagues said it is bad because I am married. I don't know if the guy is married or not but I don't really see anything bad in it. help me out, is it bad?

iyaegbe:

Is it really wrong to be flirting on the internet? I met this guy online, never seen him before (and would probably never see him). We chat on messenger everyday. My colleagues said it is bad because I am married. I don't know if the guy is married or not but I don't really see anything bad in it. help me out, is it bad?

U r married and u r flirtin wit a man online, r u dat bored wit ur marriage? U scare me o

i don't think it's proper since you are married 'cause from there now it will turn into something serious and possibly an emotional affair.

:p

if you're chatting on messenger everyday thats a red flag.

huh you are married and flirting online? and you are asking if it is wrong you amaze me

It is very bad o,cos if i were to be d guy,if i no sleep with u,i no go rest o. A stitch in time saves nine.

Poster, you're not serious with your question.

Plz, go and siddon.

"Is it bad?", see ya mouth.

Good thing I feel ashamed for both of us.

I think its interesting, but in your case, its wrong cos u r married.

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Are u into the guy(gritty,slizzy thing). . .or juz doing the usual chatty-chatty (hi-hello. . . hows ur day been?). . If the former, then PLEASE stop. . for the love of ur marriage. . If the latter, let it be a friendship stuff. . But NO xchangin of digitz. . or hookups. . .

The guy could be a serial for all i care

Speakin from xperience here dear

frm flirting, u get 2 see n one thing leads 2 another(since u r attracted 2 him) n d rest is stories, it's not wrong if u r tired of ur marriage,

YES, its bad. the earlier you stop that, the better for you.
chatting to another man, and flirting is like cheating on your husband. If you have any dignity left for yourself, or respect for your husband, you will stop, before it escalates into something bad

I dont see any wrong in cyber flirting

Any form of flirting when married is bad,

don't engage in someone else emotionally if you are alreayd spoken for - na so trbl dey start

soon you will start saying you are not happy with you hubby - or start thinking the grass in greener on the other side

u be proper iyaegbe. would u let your hubby do this? is it worth it?

There is nothing wrong with it. Keep on roking.

something is not right in your marriage. , Try and sort things out wit ur man.

iyaegbe:

Is it really wrong to be flirting on the internet? I met this guy online, never seen him before (and would probably never see him). We chat on messenger everyday. My colleagues said it is bad because I am married. I don't know if the guy is married or not but I don't really see anything bad in it. help me out, is it bad?

I throw the question back at you, 'Is it bad?' 

If you discover your husband is flirting with a lady on the net, will you mind?  Will you think it is good or bad?  What is good for the goose is good for the gander!  Or is it the other way round!  Leave the online flirting and flirt with your husband instead! You will find it stimulating.

your moral upbringing is questionable if you dont see anything wrong in that?

o ga ooooo

it is so wrong ure married even if ure so sure u'd never meet him.
d same man everyday
its just wrong

Iyaegbe:


Is it really wrong to be flirting on the internet?

I met this guy online, never seen him before (and would probably never see him).

We chat on messenger everyday. My colleagues said it is bad because I am married.

I don't know if the guy is married or not but I don't really see anything bad in it. help me out, is it bad?

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. . . Help you out? Is it bad?

Easy peasy, lemon squeezy . . .

Cyber flirting can be harmless fun

especially for singles and the likes . . .

But check this out . . . ^{This should settle down the dust}

With your husband watching over your shoulder . . .

Would you be that keen and/or comfortable chatting and/or flirting with the chap, eh?

Be true to yourself now  . . .

Would you be at ease, hmm? Typing away, with hubby in the same room, close by?

In light of the above, here's the make-up-mind time . . .

Think it through or fathom it out yourself whether it's OK or not

Thanks for all your contributions. I think I will have to stop it since the majority said it is bad. My husband is not seeing anything bad in though. He even calls on me when the guy comes online (when at home). We seat together to reply his chats atimes, its fun. Though he has forbidden me to let him see my picture of give him any number if he asks. After reading all your comments, I have decided to put a stop to it.

Once again, thanks to you all.

iyaegbe:

Thanks for all your contributions. I think I will have to stop it since the majority said it is bad. My husband is not seeing anything bad in though. He even calls on me when the guy comes online (when at home). We seat together to reply his chats atimes, its fun. Though he has forbidden me to let him see my picture of give him any number if he asks. After reading all your comments, I have decided to put a stop to it.
Once again, thanks to you all.

now u r making sense no matter how old u r , some1 can take advantage of u if care is not taken , it will just happen by magic , so be warned and stick to ur hubby, happy married life

iyaegbe:

Thanks for all your contributions. I think I will have to stop it since the majority said it is bad. My husband is not seeing anything bad in though. He even calls on me when the guy comes online (when at home). We seat together to reply his chats atimes, its fun. Though he has forbidden me to let him see my picture of give him any number if he asks. After reading all your comments, I have decided to put a stop to it.

Once again, thanks to you all.

good your husband needs some canning.

iyaegbe:

Thanks for all your contributions. I think I will have to stop it since the majority said it is bad. My husband is not seeing anything bad in though. He even calls on me when the guy comes online (when at home). We seat together to reply his chats atimes, its fun. Though he has forbidden me to let him see my picture of give him any number if he asks. After reading all your comments, I have decided to put a stop to it.

Once again, thanks to you all.

Ope o!  Happy married life and enjoy flirting with your husband; it is so much fun!