MRBrownJ:
@Samfigo1
there is nothing wrong with the question you asked and, unless she was a virgin when you met her, i dont see why she should make a big deal out of it.

here is the msg you should send her:" [b]i asked you a simple question that was bothering my mind, and you jumped on your high horses and left, while talking NONSENSE! i believe in HONESTY and therefore if i want to ask you a question then i dont see why i shouldnt. i am sorry if the question offended you but i want/hope i can express myself with you FULLY, without having to second guess myself. i dont know what type of r/ship you want us to build here but i do sincerely hope that the day you want to ask me ANY question, you do so regardless of how i may feel. i dont have a crystal ball to know if you have ever done such a thing, and since this is important (to me), i want to make sure about it, and get this out the way, from the get go.

btw: many good women have had abortions after being raped by evil men, while others did so because of the ill circumstances they found themselves into... who am i to judge them? i wont, but i certainly want to be aware, AND decide, if i want to be with such person or not, because having a family is important to me, and many women have damaged womb due to the quack/charlatans that perform these illegal abortions.[/b] "

Cutehector:
noo, very dificult... U dnt express lafta nofn....

You getting all wrong..

I'm that simple and humble friend of yours.

MzPecs:

You getting all wrong..

I'm that simple and humble friend of yours.

MRBrownJ:
@Samfigo1
there is nothing wrong with the question you asked and, unless she was a virgin when you met her, i dont see why she should make a big deal out of it.

here is the msg you should send her:" [b]i asked you a simple question that was bothering my mind, and you jumped on your high horses and left, while talking NONSENSE! i believe in HONESTY and therefore if i want to ask you a question then i dont see why i shouldnt. i am sorry if the question offended you but i want/hope i can express myself with you FULLY, without having to second guess myself. i dont know what type of r/ship you want us to build here but i do sincerely hope that the day you want to ask me ANY question, you do so regardless of how i may feel. i dont have a crystal ball to know if you have ever done such a thing, and since this is important (to me), i want to make sure about it, and get this out the way, from the get go.

btw: many good women have had abortions after being raped by evil men, while others did so because of the ill circumstances they found themselves into... who am i to judge them? i wont, but i certainly want to be aware, AND decide, if i want to be with such person or not, because having a family is important to me, and many women have damaged womb due to the quack/charlatans that perform these illegal abortions.[/b] "

SexyStrawberry:
Mehn Op! u were too direct! hehehehehehehe, but her actions to me shows that she's guilty of something, lemme not say guilty of abortion o! hehehehehehe if na me u ask that question, I will definitely be shocked at first coz for u to ask me that thing, hmmmm e be like say my body don show u signs and u just want to confirm, lolzzzzzz but I will still answer u nonetheless, but anyway just apologise and give her time, she will come back to her senses.
We ladies are complex beings u know

VampireeM:
For me I dont see anything wrong with the question you asked her. I feel guys should ask ladies they intend getting serious with that question. Am wondering why she is vexing that much if she doesnt ve a skeleton in her cupboard.. You did well samfigo1 and make sure she gives you an answer before you guys continue

SexyStrawberry:
Mehn Op! u were too direct! hehehehehehehe, but her actions to me shows that she's guilty of something, lemme not say guilty of abortion o! hehehehehehe if na me u ask that question, I will definitely be shocked at first coz for u to ask me that thing, hmmmm e be like say my body don show u signs and u just want to confirm, lolzzzzzz but I will still answer u nonetheless, but anyway just apologise and give her time, she will come back to her senses.
We ladies are complex beings u know

MzPecs:
Silly guys with silly questions!

Tallesty1:
Why not ask the op what he noticed that made him ask the question b4 concluding that he's silly.


The lady became overly defensive which points to only one thing.

misspicy:
some guys can ask destabilizing question ehn ...lol

Tallesty1:
I once asked a crazier one.


She came out from the bathroom that day and I looked at her n asked.

Have you had a child or done abortion before?

The question was so unexpected that she didn't know how to react to it

She told me everything and I told her to 4get 'em that shits happen.


I don't see anything wrong in that when you are comfortable with a person and where there's love but the op should have waited a little longer.

MzPecs:

The reason I called him is that, a silly guy once asked my friend this question and she didn't consider him again..

It is either she's the silly one or she never loved him

MzPecs:

[font=serif][size=10pt]Me thinks OP shouldn't have asked the question so soon.

Yea; that's true.

MzPecs:

[font=serif][size=10pt]You don't throw such direct question to someone.

We cannot date be that cos I am blunt

The question is harmless believe me.

MzPecs:

[font=serif][size=10pt]The girl might feel bad, she might have this feeling that, oh! Do I really look like someone who was pregnant before? Maybe my tummy is big or i'm not in shape for him to ask such question.

So because she "might" feel bad, the op should not her questions on what he noticed bout her?

MzPecs:

[font=serif][size=10pt]These thoughts will be going the girl's mind.

Cutehector:
lol all am sayn is dah u should try bein romantic

MzPecs:

Ok

Tallesty1:

We cannot date be that cos I am blunt

You think so?

The kinda answers i'll give you to any of your blunt questions will make stop being blunt!

misspicy:

lmao

and are you together till date?

Cutehector:
thank you

No church?

MzPecs:

No church?

Cutehector:
lol churches hav different times for services.. so i will be goin for the 9am one...

Tallesty1:
Nope.


There are relationships that are less likely to end in marriage, like when you're in ur mid 20s, still a huzzler and your bae is in her early 20s.


You get?

She told me many times that she regret not marrying me because nobody that knew half of what I know about her stayed.

forexbinary:
you have you given person belle before?

See the question wey you dey ask person?