Really, I need advice. I met this US guy 5months ago on one of d blogs. We started online friendship. He told me he would love to meet my parents whenever he comes to Nigeria. He was in Nigeria in October and spent 4weeks but didn't bother to check on me though we communicated all through his stay. He travelled back to US and promised to come in Dec. Now he has been in the country over 2weeks now, he didn't even talk about checking on me yet he talks about marriage. He has since sent over 100k to me since we met online. My sister called to ask if we had seen, I said no. I am troubled as I don't know what to do. I don't know why he doesn't want to see me as I have fought with him severally over it, but it's always one cause or d other. Pls advice..

Have you tried to see him and he declined? I mean by you visiting him. Perhaps he's married and in Nigeria with his wife, or fiancé? Could it be that he's insecure or something?

Na who wear shoe know where e dey pinch am

Lol..long distance relationship..why don't u call him and tell him you'd like to see him.Naija babes can form na,and he's based in US,so he will not be all over u like ur regular naija chykers. #so call him up now.

please use your head na......if the guy was to be living in nigeria would you have been this worried? when you girls hear of US or EUROPE all your femine tentacles will just stand........bluntly my friend you are just entering into once chance relationship or marriage proposal.......open your eye proper and wake up from this bad US guy dream......there is no man that really loves a woman and want to marry her that wouldn't jump at any opportunity to see her at least.......he is a scam.

Someone you met online and you already tasked him of over 100k

Well i feel the guy is afraid of his Pocket running Dry when he see you..marriage gini

there is something off about this story. a guy has sent you money but never came by to get some puss? well just let him be and move on because if he has come to naija twice and never came to see you, then he has other options

I don't think he is really interested, the fact that a man is discussing marriage with you doesn't mean he is really interested, or why would he come to Nigeria and leave without seeing you, there is no need quarrelling with him over it, calmly talk to him about it, if only he would succumb and be sincere with you

Nawa oh. Juju at work. 100k wonder. Person weh u never see b4. Come and see...america wonder..come and see..america wonder..

We all know that if not for d 100k and d fact dat he's connected to d highsea, u no go even para abt asking for advice. So to every nairalander that advice u, give us 1k airtime each first. At least 100 advicers would do

U go soon enter drugpusher hand..dats my advice.

25omega:
there is something off about this story. a guy has sent you money but never came by to get some puss? well just let him be and move on because if he has come to naija twice and never came to see you, then he has other options

Lol. Una no go kill person for here. So hin suppose come chop 'something' abi?

ronald4lif:


Lol. Una no go kill person for here. So hin suppose come chop 'something' abi?

come on men, you know how it is. most guys will come chop even if them spend 5 kobo

I dnt think he's intersted in marriage maybe he just enjoy ur company online

25omega:
come on men, you know how it is. most guys will come chop even if them spend 5 kobo

You're making sense. How can anyone travel a journey of thousand miles to Nigeria and on arriving declines to see a woman he's pledging love and marriage to, and with an obvious momentous shag to wrap up the excitement. Doesn't seem right.

The guy was prolly just bored and chatting her up, and with constant chatting emotions builds up which led to flirtatious messages. The OP then misconstrued the money he sent her as an evidence to his professed love.

All I can tell her is if the guy travels back to his base without seeing her this time, the second time, she should move on.

You just got a Fada Xmas girl. A fada Xmas! Yeah b Happy

Wow babe, give me your juju oo.
All I can say is that, he's not serious with you. C'mon! I don't even know why you're getting worked up. If he doesn't come see you, forget him. End of story.

As goat stand na so dem dey prize am for market

100k without seeing you? Really? When he‘s not father christmas. Hian idontbelieveit

mortez02:
Really, I need advice. I met this US guy 5months ago on one of d blogs. We started online friendship. He told me he would love to meet my parents whenever he comes to Nigeria. He was in Nigeria in October and spent 4weeks but didn't bother to check on me though we communicated all through his stay. He travelled back to US and promised to come in Dec. Now he has been in the country over 2weeks now, he didn't even talk about checking on me yet he talks about marriage. He has since sent over 100k to me since we met online. My sister called to ask if we had seen, I said no. I am troubled as I don't know what to do. I don't know why he doesn't want to see me as I have fought with him severally over it, but it's always one cause or d other. Pls advice..

He feels insecure about you and so, doesn't wanna meet you. I know your emotion is running high right now, just to meet him.

PinkBarbie:
Wow babe, give me your juju oo.
All I can say is that, he's not serious with you. C'mon! I don't even know why you're getting worked up. If he doesn't come see you, forget him. End of story.

...... I no get any juju o and I didn't scam him..it was just mutual agreement as I have my own job

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JudgementHammer:
Nawa oh. Juju at work. 100k wonder. Person weh u never see b4. Come and see...america wonder..come and see..america wonder..

We all know that if not for d 100k and d fact dat he's connected to d highsea, u no go even para abt asking for advice. So to every nairalander that advice u, give us 1k airtime each first. At least 100 advicers would do
Well, no juju at work. I have my own job. It's just about relationship and marriage.
U go soon enter drugpusher hand..dats my advice.

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obinnashady:
Lol..long distance relationship..why don't u call him and tell him you'd like to see him.Naija babes can form na,and he's based in US,so he will not be all over u like ur regular naija chykers. #so call him up now.

... done that

pinceprinz:
You just got a Fada Xmas girl. A fada Xmas! Yeah b Happy

....fada wetin? He is not one o. Hmm, very sensible and intelligent

mortez02:
I.

Mortez wetin u dey yan

25omega:
there is something off about this story. a guy has sent you money but never came by to get some puss? well just let him be and move on because if he has come to naija twice and never came to see you, then he has other options

...I bet u,there still exceptional cases.

mortez02:
....fada wetin? He is not one o. Hmm, very sensible and intelligent

Having an IQ well above 220 doesn't matter in matters like this lol

mortez02:
... done that

move on with ur life na,he's not worth the trouble then.

mortez02:
...... I no get any juju o and I didn't scam him..it was just mutual agreement as I have my own job

Hmmmm okay. Just relax. If he doesn't show up, move on with your life.

mortez02:
Really, I need advice. I met this US guy 5months ago on one of d blogs. We started online friendship. He told me he would love to meet my parents whenever he comes to Nigeria. He was in Nigeria in October and spent 4weeks but didn't bother to check on me though we communicated all through his stay. He travelled back to US and promised to come in Dec. Now he has been in the country over 2weeks now, he didn't even talk about checking on me yet he talks about marriage. He has since sent over 100k to me since we met online. My sister called to ask if we had seen, I said no. I am troubled as I don't know what to do. I don't know why he doesn't want to see me as I have fought with him severally over it, but it's always one cause or d other. Pls advice..

that's how they kidnap and kill you people..

collecting cash gifts from someone you've not seen before that could be a ritualist..

keep falling for U.S trick... who knows mayb it's I.P he's using to chat with you

I feel sorry for your parents & family... honestly

Heck
He has given you 100k already without meeting you...
Hope you wouldnt mind introducing him to be

Heck
He has given you 100k already without meeting you...
Hope you wouldnt mind introducing him to be

PinkBarbie:
Wow babe, give me your juju oo.
All I can say is that, he's not serious with you. C'mon! I don't even know why you're getting worked up. If he doesn't come see you, forget him. End of story.

The juju you need is right here, now tell me do you need the Santa for love or money ? Make a pick beautiful one.