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Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by 2odd(m): 6:45am On Dec 31, 2015 |
spent a lot of time discussing things that good men don’t do, as well as things that they need to do better. But we must not forget that there are two sides to relationships and that men need to know what to look out for in women, also. Men are used to pursuing women, so she shows interest back in our direction, it’s natural to overlook the red flags for the fact that she makes us feel wanted or perhaps how beautiful she is. But we need to discipline ourselves to slow down and be honest – does she display these warning signs? __________________________________ She doesn’t appreciate things. If you’re the type of man who consistently does little things to make her feel special , it’s equally as important that she is the type of woman who shows, in some way, shape or form, that she appreciates your efforts. There are a lot of men out there who are apathetic in their relationships. If you are not one of them, you deserve someone who is grateful for you. __________________________________ Nothing is ever her fault. A clear red flag is raised by a woman who doesn’t take responsibility for her actions or always tries to place the blame on someone else (especially you). To take responsibility is to be open to learning from less than perfect judgment and using your experiences to learn and grow. If someone in a relationship is unable to take that first step, the rest will never follow, and growing together will be an arduous and potentially impossible task. __________________________________ She keeps you on a tight leash. You’ve got your friends, interests, and hobbies. It’s natural that there are adjustments to the time spent with these people and things when you enter a relationship, but a relationship is part of life – not the entire thing. If a woman has a hard time letting you keep your individual life when you’re together, she may be too possessive for her own good (and yours). A woman who truly cares about you will want you to go out and do the things you enjoy, because she knows it makes you happy. This ultimately benefits the relationship. __________________________________ She’s inconsistent. As I said in the introduction here, it’s easy for men to overlook details when it comes to a woman we’re infatuated with. But we need to be honest with ourselves – if someone we’re courting always seems to be canceling or postponing plans, taking forever to answer texts (if at all), or just seems generally disinterested, do yourself a favor and cut the cord. __________________________________ You’re the only one she’s nice to. When you go out to a bar or to dinner, pay attention to how she treats people who work there. I’ve said the same before about men also – if a nice guy isn’t nice to the waiter, then he’s not really a nice guy. Same goes for women. __________________________________ She feels entitled, all the time. You may find yourself talking to a woman who has been drowned in gifts or attention by previous boyfriends, or even her family. Every woman and man should have steadfast standards for how they deserve to be treated in a relationship, and should never settle for less. But there is a difference between that and expecting a certain level of treatment from someone. Relationships are a two way street, and if she always expects to come first or to be the priority, it will only leave you exhausted and unappreciated. __________________________________ You argue way too much. Not much of an explanation needed here. It doesn’t matter how much you “love” someone, if they bring more negativity to your life than positivity, you need to let them go. __________________________________ Your visions for the future aren’t even close. Let’s be honest. If you’re entering into a long term relationship, there should be at least a general understanding of what each of you want for your life and your future. There is always room for compromise, but if one of you wants to live in Antarctica and the other wants to live in the African desert, you might be facing some future conflicts. In other words, if your core values and goals for your life can’t possibly fit together, it’s time to put the puzzle back in the box and move on. __________________________________ Cc: farano rocktation 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by RexKexMilann: 6:50am On Dec 31, 2015 |
I Only agree with The Last One. A Girl who is "Truly" In love May exhibit all Those Stuffs you Listed BUT does that mean that she is "Unworthy" To be A Girlfriend. Lots of Circumstances usually Lead a lot of Girls to act in ways they Originally Wouldn't have acted BUT that Doesn't define who They really are NOR does it Reveal their true "Intentions". Like I will always "say", There can NEVER be laid down Principles for Things like this. Nobody Is Fuccking Perfect, Bro! |
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by drestoneokuta(m): 6:52am On Dec 31, 2015 |
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by drestoneokuta(m): 6:55am On Dec 31, 2015 |
Which girl no go get at least one of does qualities.... He who finds a "WIFE".......... |
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by Nobody: 7:11am On Dec 31, 2015 |
RexKexMilann: The caption didnt say " signs that ur gf is not in love with you", it's 'signs that she's not a gf material' People with bad behaviours fall in love too. |
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by BossBae1(f): 7:13am On Dec 31, 2015 |
Hmm |
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by computerboy: 2:59pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
If not for sexual urge and kids.......... Nobody should complete this for me oh |
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by Nobody: 3:00pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
uncle Titus |
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