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Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by 2odd(m): 6:45am On Dec 31, 2015
spent a lot of time discussing things that good
men don’t do, as well as things that they need to do
better. But we must not forget that there are two
sides to relationships and that men need to know
what to look out for in women, also.
Men are used to pursuing women, so she shows
interest back in our direction, it’s natural to overlook
the red flags for the fact that she makes us feel
wanted or perhaps how beautiful she is. But we need
to discipline ourselves to slow down and be honest –
does she display these warning signs?

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She doesn’t appreciate things.

If you’re the type of man who consistently does little
things to make her feel special , it’s equally as
important that she is the type of woman who shows,
in some way, shape or form, that she appreciates
your efforts. There are a lot of men out there who
are apathetic in their relationships. If you are not
one of them, you deserve someone who is grateful for
you.

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Nothing is ever her fault.

A clear red flag is raised by a woman who doesn’t
take responsibility for her actions or always tries to
place the blame on someone else (especially you).
To take responsibility is to be open to learning from
less than perfect judgment and using your experiences
to learn and grow. If someone in a relationship is
unable to take that first step, the rest will never
follow, and growing together will be an arduous and
potentially impossible task.

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She keeps you on a tight leash.

You’ve got your friends, interests, and hobbies. It’s
natural that there are adjustments to the time spent
with these people and things when you enter a
relationship, but a relationship is part of life – not
the entire thing. If a woman has a hard time letting
you keep your individual life when you’re together,
she may be too possessive for her own good (and
yours).
A woman who truly cares about you will want you to
go out and do the things you enjoy, because she
knows it makes you happy. This ultimately benefits
the relationship.

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She’s inconsistent.

As I said in the introduction here, it’s easy for men
to overlook details when it comes to a woman we’re
infatuated with. But we need to be honest with
ourselves – if someone we’re courting always seems
to be canceling or postponing plans, taking forever to
answer texts (if at all), or just seems generally
disinterested, do yourself a favor and cut the cord.
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You’re the only one she’s nice to.

When you go out to a bar or to dinner, pay attention
to how she treats people who work there. I’ve said
the same before about men also – if a nice guy isn’t
nice to the waiter, then he’s not really a nice guy.
Same goes for women.

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She feels entitled, all the time.

You may find yourself talking to a woman who has
been drowned in gifts or attention by previous
boyfriends, or even her family. Every woman and man
should have steadfast standards for how they deserve
to be treated in a relationship, and should never
settle for less. But there is a difference between
that and expecting a certain level of treatment from
someone.
Relationships are a two way street, and if she
always expects to come first or to be the priority, it
will only leave you exhausted and unappreciated.

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You argue way too much.

Not much of an explanation needed here. It doesn’t
matter how much you “love” someone, if they bring
more negativity to your life than positivity, you need
to let them go.

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Your visions for the future aren’t even close.

Let’s be honest. If you’re entering into a long term
relationship, there should be at least a general
understanding of what each of you want for your life
and your future. There is always room for
compromise, but if one of you wants to live in
Antarctica and the other wants to live in the African
desert, you might be facing some future conflicts.
In other words, if your core values and goals for your
life can’t possibly fit together, it’s time to put the
puzzle back in the box and move on.

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Cc: farano
rocktation

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Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by RexKexMilann: 6:50am On Dec 31, 2015
I Only agree with The Last One.


A Girl who is "Truly" In love May exhibit all Those Stuffs you Listed BUT does that mean that she is "Unworthy" To be A Girlfriend.


Lots of Circumstances usually Lead a lot of Girls to act in ways they Originally Wouldn't have acted BUT that Doesn't define who They really are NOR does it Reveal their true "Intentions".


Like I will always "say", There can NEVER be laid down Principles for Things like this.

Nobody Is Fuccking Perfect, Bro!
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by drestoneokuta(m): 6:52am On Dec 31, 2015
cry cry cry cry cry
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by drestoneokuta(m): 6:55am On Dec 31, 2015
Which girl no go get at least one of does qualities.... He who finds a "WIFE".......... kiss kiss
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by Nobody: 7:11am On Dec 31, 2015
RexKexMilann:
I Only agree with The Last One.


A Girl who is "Truly" In love May exhibit all Those Stuffs you Listed BUT does that mean that she is "Unworthy" To be A Girlfriend.


Lots of Circumstances usually Lead a lot of Girls to act in ways they Originally Wouldn't have acted BUT that Doesn't define who They really are NOR does it Reveal their true "Intentions".


Like I will always "say", There can NEVER be laid down Principles for Things like this.

Nobody Is Fuccking Perfect, Bro!


The caption didnt say " signs that ur gf is not in love with you", it's 'signs that she's not a gf material' People with bad behaviours fall in love too.
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by BossBae1(f): 7:13am On Dec 31, 2015
Hmm
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by computerboy: 2:59pm On Dec 31, 2015
If not for sexual urge and kids..........

Nobody should complete this for me oh
Re: Signs She's Not A Girlfriend Material by Nobody: 3:00pm On Dec 31, 2015
grin uncle Titus

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