As seen on Jaron's blog:

I would really need some constructive advice on my relationship. I've been dating a very nice, homely girl for close to one year now, although most of our relationship has been long distance because she was schooling in another city, I am certain she is the woman I want to spend my life with.
However, this xmas she's been indicating interest in meeting my parents but I've been trying to evade such meeting because I feel I'm not ready for marriage yet. She sensed my restraint last night after I came up with yet another excuse why she can't come to my house for the new year's celebration and is not happy with me. She told me in the wee hours of the morning that we should forget about marriage talks and focus on developing ourselves but I sense a withdrawal in her. Pls what should I do?




Nb:
I've met her family members a couple of times already and they're beginning to see me as an in-law

Are you lez?

ronald4lif:
Are you lez?

“As seen on Jaron's blog"

dis wat you get wen confusion hammer u for d beginning of a new year

my sister please tell that brother to stop being foolish in 2016 for Christ sakes. it's obvious you ain't ready yet then let her move on cuz that's the next thing she wants for herself.

MissSlimbody:

“As seen on Jaron's blog"

I taya o

Cholls:
my sister please tell that brother to stop being foolish in 2016 for Christ sakes. it's obvious you ain't ready yet then let her move on cuz that's the next thing she wants for herself.

Okay

sheyoroniyen:
dis wat you get wen confusion hammer u for d beginning of a new year

Meaning?

Suigeneris93:



I taya o

I'm sure he didn't see that part

MissSlimbody:

“As seen on Jaron's blog"

Oh okay, I missed that, must have been an oversight.

But why do people lift stories from blog and sought for advice here. For what purpose and does the original writer have access to the advice given here

ronald4lif:


Oh okay, I missed that, must have been an oversight.

But why do people lift stories from blog and sought for advice here. For what purpose and does the original writer have access to the advice given here

One of the reasons why I don't bother to comment on such threads.

ronald4lif:


Oh okay, I missed that, must have been an oversight.

But why do people lift stories from blog and sought for advice here. For what purpose and does the original writer have access to the advice given here

It seemed like an interesting story and the advice rendered may help someone else here

MissSlimbody:


One of the reasons why I don't bother to comment on such threads.

You commented, you just didn't profer advice...bt u should, ur advice may help others. We all learn everyday

Suigeneris93:

Meaning?

u dey ask me

I know just what u need bruh..

...I know a certain specie of leaf that has all the answers

...you could try the ones grown in sapele, they are known for bringing out the constructive ideas in you

..however u might want to look out for the ones grown in ogbomosho! if u take this one u will come back here creating another thread and asking for assistance..

and to make things better since it's new year u can mix it with ur jollof or soup! :-D :-D thank me later

khristals:
I know just what u need bruh..

...I know a certain specie of leaf that has all the answers

...you could try the ones grown in sapele, they are known for bringing out the constructive ideas in you

..however u might want to look out for the ones grown in ogbomosho! if u take this one u will come back here creating another thread and asking for assistance..

and to make things better since it's new year u can mix it with ur jollof or soup! :-D :-D thank me later

Badt guy. Na ugwo leaf abii.

Ray360:
I was about commenting until I saw where the story was lifted from. I rest!

K

Won't spill much but got this to say..

If you're certain she is the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with.. then while not allow her meet ur people. That for sure will show a commitment from ur end to her.

The fact that u ain't ready for marriage is something you can still talk to her about. Outlined your reasons to her provided they genuine and then work with her on the suggestion she made.

Since u didn't mention both ur age.. it will be fine if u guys stick together and develop urselves more.. gudluck.

Jfyzee:
Won't spill much but got this to say..

If you're certain she is the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with.. then while not allow her meet ur people. That for sure will show a commitment from ur end to her.

The fact that u ain't ready for marriage is something you can still talk to her about. Outlined your reasons to her provided they genuine and then work with her on the suggestion she made.

Since u didn't mention both ur age.. it will be fine if u guys stick together and develop urselves more.. gudluck.

Well said..

Suigeneris93:



You commented, you just didn't profer advice...bt u should, ur advice may help others. We all learn everyday

Noted

Suigeneris93:
As seen on Jaron's blog:

I would really need some constructive advice on my relationship. I've been dating a very nice, homely girl for close to one year now, although most of our relationship has been long distance because she was schooling in another city, I am certain she is the woman I want to spend my life with.
However, this xmas she's been indicating interest in meeting my parents but I've been trying to evade such meeting because I feel I'm not ready for marriage yet. She sensed my restraint last night after I came up with yet another excuse why she can't come to my house for the new year's celebration and is not happy with me. She told me in the wee hours of the morning that we should forget about marriage talks and focus on developing ourselves but I sense a withdrawal in her. Pls what should I do?




Nb:
I've met her family members a couple of times already and they're beginning to see me as an in-law

if be isn't ready for marriage, why is he in a relationship in the first place.?
i think the young man is hiding something.
i would have gladly taken her to see my people.
maybe this guy is an abiku.

and the sad thing is that he has been eating the apple he's yet to pay for.

my advice? take her to see mama and Lagos.

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