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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by zanga420: 2:51pm On Jan 03, 2016

Oliviaarims:

Lol. That's crazy!

its those crazy n bold moves that attracts both d male n female. Its also those boldness that disgusts others. So always be yourself n free ur spirit.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by isblog(m): 2:58pm On Jan 03, 2016

wristbangle:
When a lady makes the first move, she suppose to be diplomatic in her approach and such move can be approved when she and the guy have known for long albeit him been a dude who is too shy to express his feeling.

Perhaps maybe the lady you are talking about oliviaarims was too forward in her approach and also dressed seductively. There are ways to make your move on a guy you have crush on come out of his shell of shyness and if despite your move he is still not proffering his love to you, just assume he is not into you and that doesn't make him less of a man.

Well said

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doskie(m): 4:04pm On Jan 03, 2016

Oliviaarims:

Gay Alert!!

whats gay? im male ure female. or atleast thats what your profile says.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by tony4u035(m): 6:39pm On Jan 03, 2016

Actually, thr's nothing wrong with a lady making 1st move to a guy. Afterall love shld be reciprocated... And it also depends on d kinda guy, because not all guys wld cherish n commen her courage!
A girl in my neighborhood, proudly told me dat she would like to Bleep me.. That am so coded in d area and I gladly killed her last week.. E bad?(quote author=Oliviaarims post=41582629] This notion seems to be trending these days. But pls, before anyone goes about saying it's okay for a woman to make the first move, then perhaps they should also elaborate on what circumstances and the manner in which it should be done. So many girls are being misled already.. And making complete fools of themselves. I witnessed one such event yesterday and I just couldn't help laughing. This girl must have been feeling like a real 21st century chic when she even contemplated making the move. But with the way things turned out, I can bet on my two Di'ja-like-boobs that she's so never going to try that again. Heck, that dude was mean!

Back to my topic. I really don't get why a girl should be encouraged to make the first move. Look at it this way. Wooing a woman is sth that comes very natural to men. It's what they do. It's what they've always done right from time, what reason then has a guy not to make a move on the girl he likes? So this boy and girl know themselves, perhaps not as friends or anything serious, but each knows about the existence of the other. They are perhaps in the same location.. Work in the same place, live in the same neighborhood, attend the same Uni;So, surely they get to see each other from time to time. Why then should it be the girl making a move since she's interested in him? Hasn't he seen her before? If actually he had any interest whatsoever, he'd make the first move. It shouldn't be an issue at all. Girls are used to being wooed.

But he doesn't and some girl would think it's okay for her to make the first move. Trust me, chances are high that he won't take u seriously if ever u should go into a relationship. He'd simply see the whole thing as him doing u a favour by dating u and perhaps getting an advantage for himself if he succeeds in sleeping with you sad

. I can't even imagine how u'd feel comfortable being in that relationship. He's most likely always going to be eager to show u the door, because after all, u made the first move on him, when he was just on his own doing his thing. It's just like reversing roles entirely. And IMO, it shows desperation.

And I also thought guys used to enjoy the chase. They want girls to be the ones chasing them now? Lol.

Pls, giving the green light and not playing too hard to get is enough. A man's supposed to know what to do when he sees the green light. If he doesn't, well, that's sad. It simply implies that there are so many things about women he isn't sensitive to.

Call me old-fashioned. I like being old-fashioned if this is what being old fashioned is all about.

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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jan 03, 2016

doskie:
whats gay? im male ure female. or atleast thats what your profile says.

Lol. I know. But u quoted BUTCHCASSIDY... U said u wanted to go on a date with him.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jan 03, 2016

Oliviaarims:

Lol. I know. But u quoted BUTCHCASSIDY... U said u wanted to go on a date with him.

U No see say I run keep quiet for 1 corner?

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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jan 03, 2016

BUTCHCASSIDY:

U No see say I run keep quiet for 1 corner?

Hehehehe. I laughed so hard when I saw it.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jan 03, 2016

Oliviaarims:

Hehehehe. I laughed so hard when I saw it.

True. Dat nigga done lost his mind

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Emodeee: 9:27pm On Jan 03, 2016

Missmossy:

ok, u know what? I'm sorry. I know i did you wrong, pardon me.

I need you badly, m missing you badly. I'm craving for your beautiful attention, kindly gv it to me.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jan 03, 2016

BUTCHCASSIDY:

True. Dat nigga done lost his mind

Hahaha.. I'm pretty sure it was a mistake. Doskie, is that right?

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jan 03, 2016

Emodeee:

ok, u know what? I'm sorry. I know i did you wrong, pardon me.

I need you badly, m missing you badly. I'm craving for your beautiful attention, kindly gv it to me.

.. Love! Lol.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by ellafuchsiaordi(f): 9:53pm On Jan 03, 2016

I agree with oliviaarims on this one..now that I giv it a thought I don't think I can ask a guy out..buh all humans are different,some girls can do it and b successful..so I guess everyone shud jst b true to themselves..

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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jan 03, 2016

ellafuchsiaordi:
I agree with oliviaarims on this one..now that I giv it a thought I don't think I can ask a guy out..buh all humans are different,some girls can do it and b successful..so I guess everyone shud jst b true to themselves..

My sweetheart.. cheesy

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doskie(m): 5:21am On Jan 04, 2016

Oliviaarims:

Lol. I know. But u quoted BUTCHCASSIDY... U said u wanted to go on a date with him.

I quoted you. if he attended primary school he would have easily known it was a mistake.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doskie(m): 5:23am On Jan 04, 2016

BUTCHCASSIDY:

True. Dat nigga done lost his mind

if you see me for real ground guy you go fear me. you dey keyboard dey form warrior abi?

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 7:16am On Jan 04, 2016

doskie:
I quoted you. if he attended primary school he would have easily known it was a mistake.

If you attended primary school (or any school) you would NOT commit such a mistake

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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 7:27am On Jan 04, 2016

doskie:
if you see me for real ground guy you go fear me. you dey keyboard dey form warrior abi?

Of course any right thinki g man would be scared of anyone who looked like this

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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Akious2k2(m): 7:35am On Jan 04, 2016

Estharfabian:
Truth be told...

I'd never ask A guy Out!! even if my life depended on it! how degrading!! My ego won't even let me...

I'd keep giving him signs(Green, blue and yellow lights), I'd talk sweet to him, Change my voice around him, be all touchy n mushy towards him, Act overly caring, maybe call him like TWICE A month?...if he still doesn't get those Obvious/vivid Romantic signs.

He should go hang himself for all I care!!! fûck him!

Dating isn't my priority...There are plenny "Sharks" in the sea...I only have to choose from so many.....!

Nah... I can't try that shít again..
Imagine being turned down when you've surmoned the courage to talk to him sad

I dont advice that...keep flashing that green light..if he's too dumb to see it...fùck him undecidedundecided.

@OP see the above commentss... I was referring 2 these comments... The second comment is from Laveda... My point

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 7:39am On Jan 04, 2016

Akious2k2:

Nah... I can't try that shít again..
Imagine being turned down when you've surmoned the courage to talk to him sad

I dont advice that...keep flashing that green light..if he's too dumb to see it...fùck him undecidedundecided.

@OP see the above commentss... I was referring 2 these comments... The second comment is from Laveda... My point

Well, thankyou! wink

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 7:52am On Jan 04, 2016

I wonder why women act so arrogant, and feel too important most times....

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Akious2k2(m): 7:52am On Jan 04, 2016

Estharfabian:
Well, thankyou!

That comment is from Laveda and not me... Only the last line is mine

My comment - y do u have to tag a guy "dumb" or should hang himself 'cos he didn't respond 2 d "Green Light"? It's uncalled for and his choice.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 8:10am On Jan 04, 2016

doskie:
I quoted you. if he attended primary school he would have easily known it was a mistake.

C'mon. That's unnecessary.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 8:16am On Jan 04, 2016

Akious2k2:

That comment is from Laveda and not me... Only the last line is mine

My comment - y do u have to tag a guy "dumb" or should hang himself 'cos he didn't respond 2 d "Green Light"? It's uncalled for and his choice.

Uh...Alright.

My Apologies then.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Emodeee: 8:59am On Jan 04, 2016

Oliviaarims:

.. Love! Lol.

Yeah. I know you are relationship expert, help me to tell to reply my pm. I wanna talk to her. missing her badly.

Missmossy, I love you. The love I have for you can be compared to mississippi.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doskie(m): 9:15am On Jan 04, 2016

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Of course any right thinki g man would be scared of anyone who looked like this

broda no let wise men table your matter oh. you go hail.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doskie(m): 9:17am On Jan 04, 2016

Oliviaarims:

C'mon. That's unnecessary.

nl is not as secure as he thinks. with the right grand in the right hood that basstad can be smoked out in a jivy.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 9:22am On Jan 04, 2016

doskie:

nl is not as secure as he thinks. with the right grand in the right hood that basstad can be smoked out in a jivy.

Jeez. It's okay. I'm certain he said that on a lighter note. U shouldn't have picked any offence.

Anyways, good morning. How was your night?

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 9:25am On Jan 04, 2016

Emodeee:

Yeah. I know you are relationship expert, help me to tell to reply my pm. I wanna talk to her. missing her badly.

Missmossy, I love you. The love I have for you can be compared to mississippi.

Lol. Tell her all these in a Pm.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 9:37am On Jan 04, 2016

doskie:

broda no let wise men table your matter oh. you go hail.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Emodeee: 9:52am On Jan 04, 2016

Oliviaarims:

Lol. Tell her all these in a Pm.

dats Dp, she is nt replying my pm. Persuade her to reply my pm.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doskie(m): 3:56pm On Jan 04, 2016

Oliviaarims:

Jeez. It's okay. I'm certain he said that on a lighter note. U shouldn't have picked any offence.

Anyways, good morning. How was your night?

was fine thanks. hope yours was.

Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doskie(m): 3:59pm On Jan 04, 2016

[quote author=BUTCHCASSIDY post=41635960][/quote] I greet you brother. you bam pass bambella. peace!

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