silent10:


No mind her, i don toast lik 4 grls nw no one don say yesyes

Estharfabian:
You're right!


That's why I said I'd give him signs...

Laveda:
Nah... I can't try that shít again..
Imagine being turned down when you've surmoned the courage to talk to him

I dont advice that...keep flashing that green light..if he's too dumb to see it...fùck him .

just one turn down you they complain like APC. This is what guys live with everyday of their lives, some have to multi task incase.

xp17:
just one turn down you they complain like APC. This is what guys live with everyday of their lives, some have to multi task incase.

Its not easy bro ya'll are trying

Laveda:
Nah... I can't try that shít again..
Imagine being turned down when you've surmoned the courage to talk to him

I dont advice that...keep flashing that green light..if he's too dumb to see it...fùck him .

DharmyYinks:

Okay. I agree with giving "greenlight" but wat if he doesn't get it simply because he may tink its a 'friendly' gesture? Wat will u do??

U knw u ladies re craving for gender equality. U can also be equal in making d move

Excuse me? talking Sweet to you, Acting all touchy towards you and Calling you TWICE a month is a friendly gesture LIKE TWICE?! huh??


nyhoo...bout the gender equality ish...I'd don't he same if I were A guy...I do not want any human feeling some type of way. like they're too special or sth? if i were a guy?

We'd woo ourselves, that's for sure!

kinglekan:
I CONCUR
You are PERMITTED.

As she say she go woo you, see as my guy happy

Baba, don't be a kitty-cat starved dudes

Laveda:
Its not easy bro ya'll are trying

on a serious note, if a guy turns you down like you aforementioned, shouldn't you show gratitude to him for being honest at least? Because, some guys are like a carpenter who sees every issue as a nail, hence STRIKES

Or

Would you rather he plays along just to eat the cookie and disappears ?

That guy deserves a headies rated

Estharfabian:
Excuse me? talking Sweet to you, Acting all touchy towards you and Calling you TWICE a month is a friendly gesture LIKE TWICE?! huh??


nyhoo...bout the gender equality ish...I'd don't he same if I were A guy...I do not want any human feeling some type of way. like they're too special or sth? if i were a guy?

We'd woo ourselves, that's for sure!

Estharfabian:
Truth be told...

I'd never ask A guy Out!! even if my life depended on it! how degrading!! My ego won't even let me...

I'd keep giving him signs(Green, blue and yellow lights), I'd talk sweet to him, Change my voice around him, be all touchy n mushy towards him, Act overly caring, maybe call him like TWICE A month?...if he still doesn't get those Obvious/vivid Romantic signs.

He should go hang himself for all I care!!! fûck him!

Dating isn't my priority...There are plenny "Sharks" in the sea...I only have to choose from so many.....!

elantraceey:
The reasons why I'll never ask a guy out with rejection totally out of it are

1) The guy might just accept out pity, just to respect my boldness and courage and I NEVER want to be dated out of pity.

2) He might just accept for the might be benefits which we all know.

3) I might end up becoming a second choice, don't get confused yet let me explain. For instance we were friends and there seem to be a connection but he has his eyes on whom he'll love to date then I pop the question and he says yes because he likes me a lot, I've deprived him of dating someone he really wants.


Its not a must he woos me when I give him green lights, I'll just assume he's not interested and move on, simple.

tosyne2much:
But remember I'm a fan of huge bosoms

DharmyYinks:

Lol.. U n dis 'calling TWICE a month' Recognizing d signs is easy, walking up to her n d perfect timing to do so get some guys perturbed.


U re spilling d bean already. D way some girls reject guys ehn u will pity dem. Maybe if dey faced one, they will learn to be subtle atimes

I'm spilling what?? ...Nah!


LoL...You guys wanna be domineering, superior, Masculine... deal with with!

malikjosiah:









.

you must be a very ugly girl... that's how your colleagues sound... lonely bitch.

LoL


Who knows? I might be uglee...

Buh I assure you... You'd practically drool when You get to meet me? I be looking like The girl of Your dreams!

Kachisbarbie:
Some ladies expect guys to know when they are in the mood to be wooed, if they are his level or not... like he is psychic _ yet they can't do same.
Guys get turned down everyday, and they are not dead.

You don't go about approaching every random guy, those signs you expect a young man to watch out for, you should be smart enough to watch out for same signs.

Observing a guy closely (especially when you guys have established a reasonable degree of familiarity), you would notice if he is into you but has issues expressing himself probably for fear of being turned down too. That's the time to strike...

Kachisbarbie:
Some ladies expect guys to know when they are in the mood to be wooed, if they are his level or not... like he is psychic _ yet they can't do same.
Guys get turned down everyday, and they are not dead.

You don't go about approaching every random guy, those signs you expect a young man to watch out for, you should be smart enough to watch out for same signs.

Observing a guy closely (especially when you guys have established a reasonable degree of familiarity), you would notice if he is into you but has issues expressing himself probably for fear of being turned down too. That's the time to strike...

Estharfabian:


I'm spilling what?? ...Nah!


LoL...You guys wanna be domineering, superior, Masculine... deal with with!

We'd woo ourselves, that's for sure!

Kachisbarbie:


Then it's safe to say the Nigerian factor is warped and medieval. Of course I know right, but I can only speak for myself and not the 90% of guys that abuse the love of such "bold ladies".
There is no standard on how a relationship should take off, if it works for you_ fine. If it doesn't _ life goes on... we win some, we lose some.

naijaboiy:

Of course you'll move on! That's the only reasonable thing you can do about it.

Guys get rejected everyday by girls and they move on. You don't hear them telling her to go and hang herself or become insultive towards her. The ones who have tried to do such things have always been derided and tongue lashed by their fellow guys Coz it's a childish thing to do.

Therefore,I don't seem to get why you all are sounding bitter,telling a guy to go hang himself simply because he didn't notice your green light. The same way you girls have the choice to turn a guy down is the same way a guy has the right not to make a move whether you show him your green light or not.

It doesn't make him any less of a man.

49cents:

It's wither she is quite young or a late bloomer

elantraceey:
The reasons why I'll never ask a guy out with rejection totally out of it are

1) The guy might just accept out pity, just to respect my boldness and courage and I NEVER want to be dated out of pity.

2) He might just accept for the might be benefits which we all know.

3) I might end up becoming a second choice, don't get confused yet let me explain. For instance we were friends and there seem to be a connection but he has his eyes on whom he'll love to date then I pop the question and he says yes because he likes me a lot, I've deprived him of dating someone he really wants.


Its not a must he woos me when I give him green lights, I'll just assume he's not interested and move on, simple.

TeOwl:
the issue is fear of rejection.

Oliviaarims:



Certainly no late bloomer..

49cents:


And when they wake up the first thing they do is to attend to their mentions..... >

Good morning!!!

Oliviaarims:



Gracias..

Diddyydiva:
Why should I approach a guy?

Am I mad?


ERM.......

lemme practice ............

Me: hi Ray
Ray: hi dear friend
Me: ( silence). Ray am I still a friend to u?
Ray: Yes you are hun . my very good friend.
Me: hmmmmmmmmm but I ...... I.........
Ray: what's it diddy ?
Me: I want more of you
Ray: ( speechless). Bae na sinach sing am
Me: ( force a hard laugh) You. caught me there



Mtcheeeeeewwww


I can't do it.

There are other ways to go after what you want without being direct.




it works for some people tho but the chances are slim .

Diddyydiva:
Why should I approach a guy?

Am I mad?


ERM.......

lemme practice ............

Me: hi Ray
Ray: hi dear friend
Me: ( silence). Ray am I still a friend to u?
Ray: Yes you are hun . my very good friend.
Me: hmmmmmmmmm but I ...... I.........
Ray: what's it diddy ?
Me: I want more of you
Ray: ( speechless). Bae na sinach sing am
Me: ( force a hard laugh) You. caught me there



Mtcheeeeeewwww


I can't do it.

There are other ways to go after what you want without being direct.




it works for some people tho but the chances are slim .

TrapKNNG:
OP you are Wrong! Very wrong! Lemmie tell you why..

The last serious relationship I was in was with a wonderful wonderful lady. She practically wooed me from top to bottom, left-right and center, and I respected her for that. I grew fond of her, I agreed and we started dating but never did I look down on her for one day!! At a point in the relationship, it didn't even matter who did the wooing cos I forgot about that and took charge of my relationship like the man that I am. we had fights like every normal couple nd did all the normal stuff regardless of who wooed who.

So quit deceiving ladies out there. A guy might be shy and thus a little bit apprehensive about approaching his crush, the crush on the other hand might pick up his signal and decide to throw him a bone! Its no biggie!!