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Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by HerexG(m): 1:15pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
The social life style of ladies in thier 20s should be quite different from ladies in thier 30s, when a lady in her 30s socialize like she is in her 20s, most people would likely perceive a negative perspective on such a lady and she will eventually attract the wrong people to herself. Ladies in her 20s are predominantly carefree, they are attracted and moved by materialism, love to explore excessively, the drive to catch fun is very high that's why you find them mostly in places like late night clubs, parties, being with numerous companies and associates. Now does it means that ladies in their 30s should be left out of socializing ? The answer is simple as "No", here are six ways a single lady in her 30s should socialize without attracting the wrong people and perception of her personality..... 1. Always conceal the search for your life partner: Ladies, don't make it resounding or too obvious that you are single and searching, this is the point where most matured ladies get it all wrong. When you make it too obvious that you are in search of a spouse or life partner, it sends immediately sends the wrong signal to that potential spouse, it will at the long run make him feel as though he is doing you a big favor by dating or marrying you. Reduce to the max every form of desperation and insecurity, instead employ tactically the good old prank ladies in their 20s uses to keep men abate "The hard to get game". 2. Embrace and Get devoted to a Belief: Africans most especially Nigerians are a sucker for religion and spiritualism, you can easily pierce through a harden criminals heart if you appeal to his own religion or belief. For the Christians become a devoted church worker with some swag and class, not the "Mgbeke or SU" ones looking so unkempt and without a drive and passion for life and the same goes to other religions and believes. 3. Attending Occasions and Events: Attend more of classy weddings and business meetings "Alone", majority of the potential spouse you get at 30s are mostly gentlemen and most times shy, so give them all the opportunity to come approach you. Reduce all that girls large round table sittings when you attend events and occasions, give a smooth avenue to reach you. Note not all men are that confident to fish you out of sitting of group of friends. 4. Reduce Luxuries : Avoid looking too expensive when going to work, event or occasions, just dress responsibly, cute and smart. Cut down all forms of flamboyance and looking too flashy, one of the ladies I respect most when it comes to this aspect is Nollywood Rita Dominic, though she might be rich but she doesn't look too expensive, she just look smart and beautiful all the time. Ladies make yourself approachable and not looking like a demigoddess. 5. Embrace the "one man MOPOL" Phrase : Reduce and avoid too much companies , most especially guys, avoid the "friend zoned guys" those guys that loves hanging around ladies that they are not dating or having a relationship with, don't allow them deny you of a potential suitor. These guys will clinch to you to the extent that people would start thinking if something is going on between you both, not knowing that he just using you as a showoff to his ladies. 6. Take a chill pill: And last be very humble, polite but not stupid, if you have to talk, talk in a polite manner, avoid loose and derogatory words in the public. Get a natural shock absorber, so example when someone accidentally steps on you, don't allow all hell loose, just accept the sorry or the least you could say is " please be more careful next time" and not "are you blind..... ? Do all this and you will get suitors all attracted to you, but the problem would be how to identify the right suitor, in my next post I will analyze and break down how to identify a potential marriage suitor. So watch out guys cc: lalasticlala ishilove Source: http://liteworld..com.ng/2016/01/how-best-does-single-lady-socialize-in.html 60 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Aminat508(f): 1:16pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Woah.. . Nice one @Op 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by octopusfreaky(f): 1:18pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
not for me ,,i must get married before i clock 30 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by bigiyaro(m): 1:21pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Nice one op bt girls dont listen |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by joseph1832(m): 2:28pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
octopusfreaky:In Jesus Name: Amen. Happy Birthday!!!. 5 Likes |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by octopusfreaky(f): 2:36pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
joseph1832:ohhhh thanks... |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by agarawu23(m): 4:04pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Single@30 Socializing should be the last thing. |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by abimbawealth(f): 4:54pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Oh...still ok |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Princeparix(m): 4:59pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Linda!!!!!!!!! Rita!!!!! Kate!!!!!!! Genny Nnaji!!!! Wey all those ladies wey make Beyonce sing #SingleLadies 7 Likes |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by flokii: 9:24pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
@OP do you sell d chill pills?... gurls haff suffer |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by timidapsin(m): 10:52pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
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Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Mopolchi: 10:52pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Hmmm! |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by lilmax(m): 10:53pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Take a chill pill |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Sijo01(f): 10:53pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Nairalist! |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Beware of men . Pray always Tank me later 1 Like |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
I'm just wondering wht this thread would contribute to my every day hustle. |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by refiner(f): 10:56pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
won't wait till den...will sure marry before 24 self.....buh nice one op... 1 Like |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Cutehector(m): 10:58pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Misspicy |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Pidggin(f): 10:59pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
This country is full of sexists 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Oh! 9ja mentality and marriage sha 3 Likes |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
refiner:Really? I guess u must be 19 now |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
What if she's 30 and still doesn't wanna get married?? And how about guys in their 40's that ain't married too? Why's the pressure always on LADIES?? Does that make her odd, Alien Or Just totally Repugnant? BTW-You should also advice guys too...Don't be A walking Cliché.... 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 11:04pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
HateU2:i guess you must be 33 now 1 Like |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:04pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
So she should pretend to be different. 1 Like |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by PainInTheAss(m): 11:07pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
octopusfreaky:that's on you actually, if you wish |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by PainInTheAss(m): 11:09pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
refiner:how about we go on a date? |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by refiner(f): 11:18pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
PainInTheAss:hnmm....cos of my comment...u gat no chill 2 Likes |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by refiner(f): 11:20pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
HateU2:hnmmm....not up to |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Nobody: 11:20pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Wow single ladies?!! |
Re: Tips On How Best A Single Lady Should Socialize In Her 30s by Smartguy001(m): 11:25pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Estharfabian: Mono P...men na carry go till old age 1 Like |
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