am scared to fall in love, am scared to but i dont no y, i have never fallen in love b4 because i dont beleive it, but still i see people saying they are in love and i and i think its cool during the time ,


y are my scared, or am i not scared?, may be because i dont believe it exist thats y am not getting close to it,

Yeap. . .Sometimes the thought of being in love. . .can be quite scary. . .especially the fear of  falling in love with the wrong person. and another problem is  we are all guilty of confusing love with lust/infatuation or attraction. . .


But the beautiful thing about it is when you finally fall and its with the right person. 

Trust me when the real thing comes along. . .you don't need anyone to tell you. . .that you've finally found it! so take your time and open your heart to the possibility. 

_{Just passing by and minding my biz!}

dear love is an adventure so try it out. it might out out fine for u but bcare with urself

@ OP
It has not happened to you yet, when it happens you'll be singing a different song

:p

OP we r quite similar except for one lil detail
im not scared

u need to find out if ur scared or not
if u are get help from those willing to help

if not,
suck it up n have fun
ur quite normal

diff srokes 4 diff folks, but no harm in trying!

why are few people scared of falling in love,in this present world most people dont believe in the aspect of love any look at any guy out there no one like to hand on to one person and say am ok.yo can find it all what you see is guys friending 1to 5 girlfriend and that is a little bit frieghting to girls that love

smegol:

why are few people scared of falling in love,in this present world most people dont believe in the aspect of love any look at any guy out there no one like to hand on to one person and say am ok.yo can find it all what you see is guys friending 1to 5 girlfriend and that is a little bit frieghting to girls that love

ur kind of heart is not the same wit hers ok.

this is a thing any body can say let me do for personel interest

i understand wht u think abt it, but its kinda cool. just like t-babe said, u'll know wen the rite 1 comes along.
as 4 me o! i dont think i have x 4 dat now or maybe i have not seen wht will tickle me abt a gurl yet.

hey man that not a big deal can you hold your self for a period,if so glory be to God to to me man body no be wood o

Love is good but i don't think it exist.I think it's a concept

why are the girls not contributing to this issue,or discussion cos men are not the only one involve in this issue i need reply from them too

pc guru,

u really understand what my concerns are.

am not scared abt it,but dont really think it exists.

and this is making me less concern about it

poster be careful, follow ur heart and know whn it beat and where its beating to

you r scared becos u have not found the right person,when u do u would know that perfect love cast out all fears

i think the ladies here are the ones that get farely face in their faces when it comes to love,cos they dont want to loose their guy or be snach from other ladies.if i really want to have a girl she must be perfect in every things in and out guys you know what i mean now?that thing wey de frick guys up, make man high

smegol:

i think the ladies here are the ones that get farely face in their faces when it comes to love,cos they dont want to loose their guy or be snach from other ladies.if i really want to have a girl she must be perfect in every things in and out guys you know what i mean now?that thing wey de frick guys up, make man high

U THINK U RE PERFECT RIGHT?
WAT MAKES U THINK SO?

what make me think so because am not new in this aspect of life,is a thing i know

Love is a wonderful filling, so beautiful,at same time it is risky, but it is a risk that is worth taking. my candid advice for you is that you should not mistake[b] infatuation[/b] for love, because infatuation fades with time, it is false love. True love always stand the test of time.

may my life breath find refuge in ur heart , destroyed in your love may my life depart

yes man you are absolutely correct i give you credit for that,i hard to find a true love.oh what a post

If you are scared to fall in love, please don't be scared to watch it happen to others. It's pretty interesting that after you've watched for a while you will upgrade from being scared to being adventurous in that you will give it a shot in the end. Stay tuned to other people's love life and it shall be well with you.

am absolutely concern why are the females never want to contribute,come out from your hiden and late make this forum more interesting lol

smegol u re not perfect to tell u the truth. u re saying it to make u feel ok.

u will still find who is better than u in tht aspect and still see his/her imperfection

am not saying am perfect,but i talk with experiance,please don't misjudge me on that,if you think i know too much just tell,guy what do think.

tanx anyway

Dear,

Do you know that you can fly and crash?
Do you know that you can board and okada and involve in an accident?
Do you know that you can sit for an exam and fail?
Do you know that you can go into biz and fail?
Do you know that living is risking dying?

But what do we do then? Stop doing those things?

THE QUESTIONS ARE YOURS TO ANSWERS

@Poster,love and life was never meant for the faint-hearted.
Love is as real as life,sweet but laced with challenges,u want to win. . .stay focused,true and DONT be afraid to fail/get hurt.when u fail/get hurt,learn something,dust ur ass and forge ahead.am sooo in love and life cant be any better.
OP,i wish u get to meet and feel love and be loved back someday.

@poster
the problem is not really to fall in love but to fall in love and not being able to handle it. to love someone that loves you back is beautiful and the greatest feeling BUT if you cant handle it then you might get burned and hurt.

rule number one: if you are madly in love with someone that doesnt love you back, then walk away.
rule number two: if that love makes you act/do something against your principle then walk away.
rule number three: if for any reason you are uncomfortable with what you are doing then walk away.
rule number four: its possible to fall in love with someone that is "out of your league", then walk away.
rule number five: walking away from love is not as easy as it seems but NO men should ever stick to any of the stuff i warned you about in rule ONE to FOUR