freshvine:


I do accept the fact that people change. But this is a calculated agenda designed to brittle my womanhood. As callous and unmitigated as it is, I'll never cow to any improper conduct of a draconian hubby.

I just need my hubby, home back.

freshvine:
We met precisely 2 years ago and he was perfectly an answered prayer for a prince charming I'd ever hoped and pray for. It seem God decided to compensate me for the numerous heartbreak I'd suffer prior to meeting him.

Here was a tall handsome rich guy and equally a ladies magnate. He have everything rolled into one I'd sometimes imagine if he was a divine prototype among humans because of his flawless personality. He was a near perfect being to wrap the description of his humble charisma and social demeanor.
If you are for real, let me give a bitches advise

What actually attracted me to him was his humility and romantic gestures. He was never tired of being a gentleman as our love story coaster rolled into romance and the knack to be with each other.

This man swept me off my feet with selfless gestures. He opens every door for me which includes house and cars, he cooks and feed me. The most amazing being breakfast on bed, such wonderful lovable man. He buckle my shoes, strapped my fitted jeans and gave up seats for me where there's one reserved. Some period he help Polish my nails, take out my braids and all sort of romantic adventures and truth is that he continued showing being a God sent even past our marriage until now.

For 2 weeks now, war war 3 has been raging in my home as My husband had stopped being romantic and insist on role reversal. He want me to serve his meals now on bended knees, put his bath water as at when due, wash his clothes and compliment every of his stance. In actual fact he want to replicate the marriage style of the oldies in this digital generation.

I'm getting fed up and my 2 years marriage is on the line. Please suggest ways I could tame him back to the status quo. I can't compromise my fantasy for want of archaic standard.

freshvine:


You mean I should held the washing water like a senior househelp waiting for him to finish gobbling his meals.

You don't get it. Serving me break fast on bed is quite romantic for a wife but dehumanizing me with archaic fantasy of his is another kettle of fish entirely.

waywardpikin:


Lol @ Charade of maladjusted caprice. Inasukwa! The igwe must hear this.....

misspicy:
Marriage a different ball game

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After reading this thread I just want to see it another way

your husband has been all romantic and loving,then he suddenly changes 2 years after and starts doing the opposite...
First question is why?

For every action there must be a reaction

and the truth is when a woman is over pampered it tends to go into her head. Most men don't show the level of care and love your husband has shown you as written by you

from your writeup you haven't mentioned anyway you reciprocated his romantic acts,so is it not possible that you are beginning to see his loving acts as your right? what if he feels dejected that you don't reciprocate and feels the only way to make you do it is commanding you?

maybe you have been so used to it that you demand for it?

I think you should search yourself and see where you have missed it,discuss with your husband respectfully and reciprocate his romantic ways...












Am just thinking outside the box

freshvine:
Please where are the Family Section veterans?

Please endeavor to suggest probably guide as to contain this impending conflagration that's about to consume my territorial edifice.