C2H5OH:

Of course you won't be "into" the other boys you've been with since you are still deeply "sprung" to the asshole that mistreated you. In short, they were probably rebounds and you hoped they would help you get over him, but they didn't.

I Lol @ you. LOL

sprung?? don't think so. And as for rebounds not really, just tried to get on with my life but I guess it didn't work out and there was a post I wrote before about letting go of a guy I had met, telling him I needed to heal properly so I don't hurt him, but some people criticised me on that and as for Laughing Out Loud, what for??

It is really refreshing to see someone who believes in trying to make up after a break-up, so it doesn't always have to be a scenario where your man misbehaves once and he's "dumped like he's hot!".

@Topic:

If he's still out there, pls go and find your peace with him. . . However, if he's moved on to another girl, it will be difficult to lure him back, except he truly loves u.

Monicaa:



Honestly, I haven't seen someone that can replace him yet, much better, as much as I loved him, I don't want to settle 4 less. I want something much better than him, that's the only way I feel I might get over him, but it just hasn't happened, making me think nd believe he might have been d best.
I know the relationship was not all that great nd I deserve better, like u said, I should not deceive myself, I love him but i know if I meet someone higher than him, it would fade away making me believe that's d only way I can let go of him.

upgrade yourself first so as to attract a "better" guy...no big boy will like to settle for a lesser babe either...so its a two way thing.

Monicaa:


This is some1 dat has humilated me with my love, how else can I show him, than wait in silence nd see d future.

then go back to ex ex,I mean an ex before your recent ex...or did he met you as a V?
Monicaa where is your pride?

I am speaking for someone in somewhat of the exact situation....me ex has been messaging me telling me we should talk about us and give this relationship another shot! I personally believe if you want to try again....it should be beyond what you say!! You have to prove that you are not just testing him out and that you will not just walk away again. It involves more work than starting all over with a new relationship because of the history that's there already. The question is! Do you have the patience to be patient with him to trust you again?? Do you feel he is worth it especially knowing you have to put in more work??