sir t:

If u are legally married, then u are free to do anything.

cool!!!

but the "anything" sounds overwhelming

can u expantiate further on that?

tosyne007:

cool!!!

but the "anything" sounds overwhelming

can u expantiate further on that?

In terms of sexual acts I am presuming

ibkaye:

In terms of sexual acts I am presuming

u r too presumptious my dear!!!!! dont 4get we are talking about moral and religious beliefs

sir t:

If u are legally married, then u are free to do anything.

awaiting ur response,

tosyne007:

u r too presumptious my dear!!!!! dont 4get we are talking about moral and religious beliefs

Yes, in terms of religion is bathing with someone you are not married to good?

ibkaye:

Yes, in terms of religion is bathing with someone you are not married to good?

i aint saying that sister.

sir t:

If u are legally married, then u are free to do anything.

i'm only sceptical about the "anything" mentioned above. For couples i mean.

Wat i'm saying in essence is this, "can u give "anything" or demand for "anything" from ur spouse on the basis of marriage"

tosyne007:

i aint saying that sister.

i'm only sceptical about the "anything" mentioned above. For couples i mean.

Wat i'm saying in essence is this, "can u give "anything" or demand for "anything" from ur spouse on the basis of marriage"

That is what she presumes. She's been trying to explain that she'd do anything as long as they are married.

ibkaye:

Yes, in terms of religion is bathing with someone you are not married to good?

No, it's not good and as far as I know, I don't see where it's supported for people who are married too -- neither in the Holy Bible nor in the Holy Q'uran

wa la wao

TheSeeker:

That is what she presumes. She's been trying to explain that she'd do anything as long as they are married.

No, it's not good and as far as I know, I don't see where it's supported for people who are married too -- neither in the Holy Bible nor in the Holy Q'uran

Huh? Doesn't say anything against it, besides, the only reason I am against bathing with my boyfriend is because such acts will most definitely lead to sexual acts which I am against if it is premarital if we're being realistic, regardless of religion.

My goodness, not every thing should be turned into a big deal. Over-zealousness should be a crime! Bath if you want, don't if you aren't comfortable, finish!

ibkaye:

Huh? Doesn't say anything against it, besides, the only reason I am against bathing with my boyfriend is because[b] such acts will most definitely lead to sexual acts[/b] which I am against if it is premarital if we're being realistic, regardless of religion.

I understand that line right there. To me you sound like a determined woman and one with huge policies, but don't you think you should have brought your obstinacy down to the bathroom if ever it wanted to amount to sexual acts? So tell me, you never kissed your boyfriend? You never touched? If you did, what were those? Religious acts?

My goodness your guys are still on this issue, what is the big deal about this?after many sex with the guy so what is there to cover again?or may be you guys close eyes when doing the thing, so may be you are still thinking he see nothing, Mio raye jaree, kilen ponle?

TheSeeker:

I understand that line right there. To me you sound like a determined woman and one with huge policies, but don't you think you should have brought your obstinacy down to the bathroom if ever it wanted to amount to sexual acts? So tell me, you never kissed your boyfriend? You never touched? If you did, what were those? Religious  acts?

Wait hold up.

There is kissing, and there is being totally naked in a shower with ur sig other.

Two wayyyy different levels of intimacy!

So every time u kiss someone u sleep with them?


Try doing that while trying to keeping ur virginity and ull be hanging on a cliffhanger.


Common sense

platinumnk:

Wait hold up.

There is kissing, and there is being totally naked in a shower with ur sig other.

Two wayyyy different levels of intimacy!

So every time u kiss someone u sleep with them?


Try doing that while trying to keeping ur virginity and ull be hanging on a cliffhanger.


Common sense

Imeela Dear

Besides TheSeeker, I never said my choice to not engage in certain acts was necessarily based on religion, it's just what I prefer to do and not to do, when I was talking about religion, I was only responding to 'tosyne007's' questions to 'sir t'

I can, and I have. Will I still do it again? OH YES! Possibly tonight sef.

platinumnk:

Wait hold up.

There is kissing, and there is being totally naked in a shower with ur sig other.

Two wayyyy different levels of intimacy!

So every time u kiss someone u sleep with them?


Try doing that while trying to keeping ur virginity and ull be hanging on a cliffhanger.


Common sense

You probably didn't understand what I meant. Given that she's abstaining from a bath with her boyfriend and settles comfortably more with her husband(if she's married) based on religious beliefs, what will kissing and touching be categorized as? They are just as good sexual acts as having a bath with a boyfriend. But in her response to your comment, I see it's a choice she's made --- not based on religious beliefs.

Yes oooo, I can do it, especially if I have slept with him already. Oh, the enjoyment of scrubbing his back and *cough cough* other parts of the body, woo hooo!

I'm sorry, but if you have slept with him/her, then what's the biggie? If not then fine!

Pataki:

I can, and I have. Will I still do it again? OH YES! Possibly tonight sef.

with who? ? ?

Secretz:

with who? ? ?

Yes o! With who?

Moonstone:

Yes o! With who?

lol. Heyyyyyyyyyy moonstone, wetin? how you dey?

Secretz:

lol. Heyyyyyyyyyy moonstone, wetin? how you dey?

Hi darling! I missed you o! We no even see your break light again. I dey o! How you dey?

Moonstone:

Hi darling! I missed you o! We no even see your break light again. I dey o! How you dey?

I missed you too ohhh, I fine sha.

No mind Pataki, he only going to bathe with his sponge tonight!

Secretz:

with who? ? ?  

Moonstone:

Yes o! With who?

Curiosity kills the cat!

If I have to tell you, then I have take bath with y'all! Hey, nice idea though!!

With the present heat wave around, a cold shower together surely ignites the passion the more.

Pataki:

If I have to tell you, then I have take bath with y'all! Hey, nice idea though!!

With the present heat wave around, a cold shower together surely ignites the passion the more.

See this Joseph. Keep wishing o!

Secretz:

I missed you too ohhh, I fine sha.

No mind Pataki, he only going to bathe with his sponge tonight!

That's good to hear.
Are you answering him? He can't even rent a girl to shower with him not to talk of having one.

Moonstone:

See this Joseph. Keep wishing o! That's good to hear.
Are you answering him? He can't even rent a girl to shower with him not to talk of having one.

roflmao!

Pataki:

Curiosity kills the cat!

If I have to tell you, then I have take bath with y'all! Hey, nice idea though!!

With the present heat wave around, a cold shower together surely ignites the passion the more.

Go and play with your 'teddy'!

For all u gurls dat claim u can't bath wit ur boyfriends,hope u're sayin' dis cos u've not had sex wit ur boyfriends cos if u have,den y'all r really tired!

Ibkaye dont mind those guys. They think every girl is like their gf's. . . Sleep on their first date or sleep with every bf they met. CHEI!

Guys, mind u, we are not that kinda person so have you ever thought of that? Its a shame when you think that every girl here have sex before marriage. Tufiakwa!

yes i can and would again uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh thinking of it sef shivers down my spine

Boyfriend: HELL NO

Husband: Like duh!

@190

Why do u think we would be interested

kunbee
i no understand
u wan join me
make we do a 3some!

These ladis hia are driving me nut. for Godsake why should sleep and make love with ur boyfriend and stil say that u cant bath with him?
Whats so special in this that u think u can only do it with ur husband?

ibkaya do u see why i think u are a hypocrite? u can sleep with ur boyfrend but cant bath with him,what rubbish is that? who are u deceiving?