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Lesbian Tricked Man Into Getting Her Pregnant So She Could Save On IVF by Talk2CB: 3:27pm On Feb 07, 2016
Kafayat Adegoke, 30, from Bradford, decided to find herself a 'sperm donor' by pretending she was straight and bedding potential 'dads' because it was cheaper than IVF or surrogacy.

The mature student, who is in a relationship with a woman, quizzed the men she dated about their family background, medical history and blood group before she picked her Mr Right. She then ditched him after two months when she fell pregnant.

Kafayat, originally from Nigeria, explained: "My baby’s dad has tried to contact me a few times but I want nothing to do with him. “I don’t regret tricking a man into getting me pregnant. All that matters is my baby.”

More Details: http://talk2cb..co.uk/2016/02/lesbian-tricked-man-into-getting-her.html
Re: Lesbian Tricked Man Into Getting Her Pregnant So She Could Save On IVF by Cutehector(m): 3:28pm On Feb 07, 2016
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Re: Lesbian Tricked Man Into Getting Her Pregnant So She Could Save On IVF by Nobody: 3:29pm On Feb 07, 2016
Seriously, the man should demand for his pay then
Re: Lesbian Tricked Man Into Getting Her Pregnant So She Could Save On IVF by martyns303(m): 3:34pm On Feb 07, 2016
When they want to do this their rubbish gay thing, they travel out, especially US or UK especially Brighton.
Re: Lesbian Tricked Man Into Getting Her Pregnant So She Could Save On IVF by kodded(m): 3:34pm On Feb 07, 2016
nigerians always looking for the shortest way to their problems undecided
Re: Lesbian Tricked Man Into Getting Her Pregnant So She Could Save On IVF by TruthHurts1(m): 4:23pm On Feb 07, 2016
More details plus pictures of Kafayat and her lesbian partner Aisha:

But Kafayat, whose baby is due in June,
is in a lesbian relationship, insists she is
not attracted to the opposite sex and
went hunting for partners because it was cheaper than IVF or surrogacy.

She said: “Ever since I was a little girl I
have yearned for a baby. I looked into
IVF and surrogacy but they both seemed
quite expensive. I also felt IVF was
unnatural.

“I thought logically and what I needed
was a sperm donor and there were
plenty of these walking the streets and I
could take my pick.

“I decided to pretend I was straight and
trick a man into getting me pregnant.”
With meticulous planning, she held off
sleeping with her new dates until she
had thoroughly quizzed them about their
family background, medical history and
even their blood group.

She dated three men – one she met in
Nando’s, a jogger she befriended in a
park and finally a work colleague.
Last autumn, after a year of hunting for
her version of Mr Right, her plan finally
paid off when she got pregnant by a man she had been seeing for two months.

Kafayat, from Bradford, West Yorks, then ended the relationship and barred the “sperm donor” from the child’s life.
Instead, the cash-strapped user of men is hopeful that, as a single mum, she will get a council house and benefits.
Kafayat, who is currently dating 26-year-old Aisha Atan, said: “I have always wanted to be a mum.

“As a gay woman, surrogacy or IVF were options but I couldn’t afford these and they seemed too way too much hassle.

“I decided I would have to sleep with a
man and started to look out for guys that were good looking and intelligent with a sense of humour. I’d like my child to have all these attributes.

“I couldn’t have one-night stands with
strangers – I needed to date them, find
out about their medical and family history to see if they were suitable sperm donors.”

She added: “I was with the last guy I
dated for two months but when I fell
pregnant I ended the relationship straight away.

“My baby doesn’t need a father, I don’t
want anything from him and I am so
excited about being a single mum. I am
going to speak to the local council about
getting a house and some benefits. I
deserve them like any other single mum.”

Kafayat realised she was attracted to
women at the age of 16 but
experimented with both sexes.

She says: “In Nigeria, where I grew up,
people were ignorant about gay people
and I had to date men to be accepted.
“I would date girls in secret but slept with two men – but I always knew I was a lesbian.

“When I moved to London five years ago I was able to date women more openly and I had quite a few girlfriends.”

But more than anything, she wanted to
be a mum and she started hunting down
unsuspecting men in 2014.

She recalled: “One night in Nando’s I
started chatting to a guy. He was a 40-
year-old property developer – very good looking with blue eyes.

“He spoke very well and seemed ­
intelligent. I straight away thought he
would make a beautiful baby.
“We chatted and then swapped numbers. We started to date but as I got to know him I realised his personality wasn’t right. He had no sense of humour.

“I didn’t want this passed down to my
child. I didn’t want him to be my sperm
donor and ended the relationship before
we slept together.”

Last June, Kafayat took a shine to a 35-
year-old guy jogging in the park. She
said: “I was on a health kick and had
started running. He was tall and very
good looking. I started to flirt and he
flirted back.

“We swapped numbers and started to
date. He was very intelligent and worked as a building contractor.

“After a few weeks of finding out about
his medical history and family
background we slept together.

“I was dreading this part. The thought of having sex with a man made me feel sick but I just kept thinking about the baby I could make.

“I bought a DIY ovulating testing kit and
checked I was fertile before sleeping
with him. We slept together a few times.”

The pair dated for two months but when
Kafayat didn’t get pregnant she ended
the relationship.

She said: “It wasn’t happening quick
enough for me so I decided I needed to
move on to someone more fertile.”

In September, Kafayat met her next
target through her job at the time, as a
TV producer.

She said: “He was a 34-year-old studio
engineer, good looking, witty and
intelligent.

“Again, I spent time sussing him out and asking him about his family history and even discovered what blood group he was.”

This time Kafayat went to the doctors for a fertility check-up and advice on how to get pregnant quickly.

She said: “I started researching the best
sexual positions to get pregnant in. It
was difficult because I was living a
double life. I was sleeping with women
all the time I was seeing these guys too.”

Kafayat slept with her new man twice
before she got pregnant.

She added: “I was so happy I was finally going to have a baby. I knew I had to end the relationship but I did start to feel guilty because I had grown close to him.

I didn’t fancy him at all but we had
become friends. I decided to tell him the truth, that I had used him to get pregnant.

He was understandably furious and was
shouting at me.

“I said I was sorry and made it clear I
wanted nothing from him and I didn’t
want him to have contact with me or the baby.”

A few months later Kafayat moved to
Leeds where she is now a student at
Leeds Trinity University studying film
and TV.

She has told girlfriend Aisha everything
and they hope to wed.

Aisha said: “I was shocked at first but
when she explained I started to
understand.

“She’s my girlfriend and I love her and I
hope to be part of the child’s life. I will
support her all the way.”
It begs the question what Kafayat will tell the child about the bizarre conception.

“I will say the father is a sperm donor and not go into detail,” Kafayat insisted.
“People have been shocked when I’ve
told them what I have done – but it
wasn’t easy for me. I will never sleep
with a man again to get pregnant. I am
happy with one child. My baby’s dad has
tried to contact me a few times but I want nothing to do with him.

“I don’t regret tricking a man into getting me pregnant. All that matters is my baby.”

Re: Lesbian Tricked Man Into Getting Her Pregnant So She Could Save On IVF by Nobody: 4:29pm On Feb 07, 2016
I won't lie to u, no matter how I play online or anywhere else, I fear women a lot apart from God Almighty..
Re: Lesbian Tricked Man Into Getting Her Pregnant So She Could Save On IVF by goldenone(f): 4:56pm On Feb 07, 2016
Chaiiii!!!
Re: Lesbian Tricked Man Into Getting Her Pregnant So She Could Save On IVF by Nobody: 5:02pm On Feb 07, 2016
Nawa oo... Fear woman..

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