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How Do I Learn To Forgive A Deceitful Lover by Eddygourdo(m): 8:28pm On Feb 10, 2016 |
I have always had the bad habit of lack of forgiveness, people complain I don't forgive nor forget. I have soon learned that bearing hurt is allowing the devil to live rent free in my system. Though I made a post new year resolution to try to be more forgiving. Because recently, a man bashed my car and in rage I grabbed him amidst his screams and threw him into my boot while I zoomed off amidst shouting by people and the police nearby, it was only as I approached my house did I realise the stupidity in myself and quietly brought the man out ". He could have thought I wanted to cook him for dinner. Anyway I hope to make progress and hopefully pray this change transcends to my love life. But I have a big problem. I can't stand to be decieved, to be decieved by a lover is the greatest pain I can bear or forgive. When a lover cheats, the sex never hurts me but the knowledge I was decieved and in the dark. I have had great satisfyingly long relationships with gfs who cheated and never hid it. Somehow it never bothers me cos I knew about it. Guess I am weird or a chronic amebo. I need to learn to deal with this hurt and learn to forgive it. It's the most common way people hurt others, thus very important I learn it to help my anger issues. How did you handle yours or are you currently handling yours. My temper is too great and even the bible says it's a fool who is quick to anger. Abeg am tired of living like one. Thanks for your help |
Re: How Do I Learn To Forgive A Deceitful Lover by Cutehector(m): 8:32pm On Feb 10, 2016 |
I think we humans ain't all that perfect. So let's not all see ourselves as Jesus Christ. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Learn To Forgive A Deceitful Lover by zyzxx(m): 8:35pm On Feb 10, 2016 |
Expect less so that u won't be hurt beyound recovery or forgiveness 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Learn To Forgive A Deceitful Lover by Loyalblak007(f): 8:41pm On Feb 10, 2016 |
You Only Live Once 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Learn To Forgive A Deceitful Lover by shulamitewoman(f): 9:23pm On Feb 10, 2016 |
Wen such happens,jux slow down and take a deep breath..trust me u wil be fine.. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Learn To Forgive A Deceitful Lover by Nobody: 9:32pm On Feb 10, 2016 |
zyzxx:This works. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Learn To Forgive A Deceitful Lover by Olasco93: 9:51pm On Feb 10, 2016 |
If you can tell yourself ''She/they really don't know what she/they are doing,'' it's a step ahead and a basic of learning that everyone has flaws. Forgiveness starts from your conscience, just like my signature below... 1 Like |
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