sheilak:


Nope

I was banned na

takuradua:

Oops... email?

sheilak:

Nope

Tallesty1:
It is not spiritual ma, washing of feet is a work of servants. But in this context(John 13 : 4-17 and the pix above) it is a sign of humility and servanthood which are exactly what we need in our marriages.

The man also washes the woman's feet, thereby making two of them humble and servants of one another.

Again there's nothing spiritual in what Jesus did. During their time, people wash their dusty feet before they dine, but because they had no servant and because the apostles had argued who was the greatest in God's kingdom while they were on the road, Jesus decided to wash their to teach to be humble and to be servants of one another.

takuradua:

Bad platform.

sheilak:


I know

takuradua:

Another?

sheilak:


I am sorry

Nope

sheilak:


My husband is not Jesus. He can never be Jesus.

I wish it were that easy

sinaj:
Derez no big deal there





Will keep doing it evn after d wedding each time he returns from work

YourMain:


Yes. It is an award. Submitting to someone means putting aside your own needs and wants and letting someone else come first.

Oh right. So because you've signed some papers, you stop being whom you are and start being an empty minded shell to follow your husband up and down.

It's very simple. If you want submission from your wife earn it. Prove to her you're a man she can blindly follow and trust without having to fear. Just because you've and x and Y chromosome doesn't make you special. Sorry.

amokeme:
who said your husband is?? Abi where did this come from? Did you read the conversation of what made me say what yiu just quoted

sheilak:
This is a fairy tale

takuradua:

Y?

sheilak:


Online is online

No spilling over

Tallesty1:
Hahahahahaha.

You marry a woman you love, someone you're willing to do anything for but instead of "subbing" to your "mission" she sits on the cushion like a mighty "cash madam" to wait for you to earn her respect/submission.

LWKMD.

And we still wonder why marriages crash?

Listen Nnem, you automatically become impossible to love when you wait for your man to earn your respect or submission.

I am done with this.

amokeme:
may God help your understanding

Seun:
I can't believe men managed to convince women that God wants them to "submit" to men. It's one of the greatest cons I've ever seen.

YourMain:
Lol so the opposite of submission is sitting on the cushion like a mighty cash madam lol okay

YourMain:

No worries. I can love myself.

YourMain:

Much better than having some incompetent guy "love" me

YourMain:

and expect me to do what he wants because he has a penis .

amokeme:
Jesus washed the feet of his disciples, does that male him a slave? ? it's simple.. love your wife and she will make you happy finish!

takuradua:
separate online platform then. No spills...

Tallesty1:
Stop taking things literally ma. What I meant is that you don't have to wait for him to prove anything when you get married before you start doing what you gotta do.

A man that asks for your hand in marriage already loves you, he didn't wait for you to submit before he loved you.

The fact that he has a home, job and can take care of your needs is prove that he isn't just dick and balls.

Submit to him and watch him to see the side of him that you don't know yet.
Better If the saying that birds of same feather flock together is true then the woman too is an ineffectual buffoon;DBut you want him to love you and still work to earn your respect because you have a vag!na?

Jesus wept

YourMain:
Yes that's what courtships are meant for. If he doesn't behave according to how a person deserving of submission should behave then no. Sorry.

YourMain:
Yeah because he's marrying me for no reason. I'm sure he has his reasons why he's chosen to marry me and not Mary down the street. He didn't marry me because I've a vejayjay. So I will not submit to him because he has a penis.

And a woman cannot get a home and a job ? Is that all it takes to make a man ? A home and a job ? Lol.

No. I want him to love and respect me because of the way I carry myself. and how I behave. And my personality.

sheilak:


Okay, send it through daretodiffer

sinaj:
Derez no big deal there





Will keep doing it evn after d wedding each time he returns from work

Lovelynature:
Would you mind being my mrs right?

Good heart and respect are the major qualities that attract me to women

sinaj:
lol at Mrs right

cruzita:
well to me I won't let any man wash my feet and I won't wash any mans feet

cruzita:
well to me I won't let any man wash my feet and I won't wash any mans feet

Tallesty1:
Trophy? So submitting to him is an award? You gotta be kidding.

Listen we ain't talking about just any man here, we are talking about husbands and wives.

A man that comes to your dad's house to ask for your hand in marriage loves you already and you ought to submit to him until he gives you reason to do otherwise.

He will love you the more if you submit to him and will eventually make you the head of the home.

tubouncen:
It's neither submission nor slavery... It's just a fotoshoot created by the cameraman or the event planner

sinaj:
Derez no big deal there





Will keep doing it evn after d wedding each time he returns from work