Quote from: 009kk on Yesterday at 03:16:06 PM
i believe both of you should know dat not less 75% of guys in a relationship do cheat on their gurl friends. the fact that they do this does not mean they dont love their gf. most guyz in a relationship give 80% to their gf and 20% to the gurls they cheat with. and i think that is fair enough. likewise girls, they also have guyz whom they love and give 80% and at they same time they give 20% to the one they cheat with. [b]i am in a serious relationship for 5yrs now and i do cheat on my gurl friend ones in a while [/b]but the truth is that i love her 99% and any other gurl is 1% to me at least until we get married. so let me tell you dat it will be diff to get a 100% man.
cheers

009kk:


@sexybabes
i really appreciate ur mature post. bt she is not refusing my goin with her. she even wants me to be in camp with her but i told her dat is not possible. all the same by next week we shal see what happens cos i am still xpecting my boss reply about my 3weeks off which will be deducted from my annual leave

009kk:

@ igwe
thanks for wishing us safe journey becos i am flying with her. i just applied for 3weeks off at my working place and i know by tomorrow it will be granted

009kk:

@ThoniaSlim @sistawoman @bluespice@ puskin
pls i only asked to know if it were possible of shagging gurls in camp[color=#990000][/color]. she has cheated on me b4 and i don't want that to happen again because i allowed it happen that was in 2005. a friend of her was her bday batch when we were stil in skol. my gurl asked me to come with her but i refused. reluntantly i told her to go and that i will meet her up.later that evening i picked a male friend of mine and we headed for the party. on our way, police stoped us and that was when i knew i forgot my drivers liscience. u knw the normal thing, i gave them money. on getting to the party i met my girl chattin g wit a guy and when she saw me , she came to us and we were together. because i was tired i decided to go back to skol cos i had no cash on me again to lodge after the party which was my earlier intention. 2 days later after lectures, she did not get back to the room on tym cos we live 2gether not knowing she slept with the guy i met her chatting with when i got tothe party that day. i did not knw she was the one that used her mouth to tell that she has not been hersef with the guilt in her conscience. i forgive her and after since then, i don't like letting her out of my sight.

009kk:

@topup
i think i am trying to protect my own and as such i am a protective guy type

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Nautillus:

Dude . . .Your fear is rather hilarious . . . . .but i'm afraid that i'd have to scare you more

. . .you see , there's is this air that ALWAYS hovers around the orientation camps . . .i remember mine with so much nostalgia. . .Three 3 weeks was magical . .i served in Ogun state many years ago. The thing is, i met the great chic and we fell for each other, Massive attraction Massive lust . .we just couldn't help it. . ._{we were both in different relationships at that time . . .}If my galfriend hadn't paid a chance visit to the camp on its second weekend . . .Things would have gotten out of hand . . _{we were on our way to Lagos for the weekend when we ran into her at the gate}

Buttom line is. . .bruv, pray hard oh . . camp is not a NICE place oh . . .anything can happen . . .never say never

Druss:

The sad thing is that women will read this and attack the guy not knowing it is their own behaviour that contributes to this. Guys tend to be naive until a woman deals with them and abuses the trust he had in her. In this case dude, I have read your story - Let her go. If she could do those things before NYSC forget her and move on. She will def do more.

I just had a real painful breakup with my ex - Discovered through another person that she was engaged - not even seeing - engaged to another guy. I also know at least three girls who are cheating on their current boyfriend. I know one who just did her traditional wedding and the day after is doing the dirty with one of my colleagues. Dont let me mention the so called female pillars in the churches that I know of. I have now joined the school of thought of guys who think women all have something wrong with them mentally. There was a dude on NL that I used to shake my heat at because of the way he cusses them out. I can understand him now.

They all have their prices - all of them. Women dont seem to understand the notion of loyalty. I have tried to persuade my female friends that cheat on their guys - that look you wanna taste - let your guy go and go adventure but this same notion of backup. It is even worse when one notes that this has been their behaviour since time. There are some good ones out there but they are increasingly rare.

Harsh but the sooner you realise this as a guy , the better. I knew it before but thot treating women like proper beings was good. Unfortunately it seems playing with their minds is the better option. My advice let her go and find another one.