Reggieluv, may be those guys are reading mixed signals to d way you relate with'em.

By the way, can I halve your numbers? I'm hansom kum beurriful u know

Girlfriend, wait tilll you make your own money before you start moaning about which riff-raff is after your sweet ass. Right now just enjoy your life regardless of who you might think daddy is.

It's one thing to be rich and pretty.
It's another thing to have style, class and grace.

Perhaps, you lack these and so attract ruffians.
BTW, let's see a pix to judge, we might see you from the 'ruffians' view.

BlueDiva:

It's one thing to be rich and pretty.
It's another thing to have style, class and grace.

Perhaps, you lack these and so attract ruffians.
BTW, let's see a pix to judge, we might see you from the 'ruffians' view.

i second that ma, and pls if you have any in a bikini,

that will do just fine, you know, help, guys, em, em, make a very unbiased opinion,

i second that ma, and pls if you have any in a bikini,

that will do just fine, you know, help, guys, em, em, make a very unbiased opinion,

Don't understand?

BlueDiva:



Don't understand?

you said a picture would help you judge, i just seconded that,

but i want a bikini pic, (am just a womanizer, )

@poster: there's nothing wrong with being free n fair but u also have 2 be firm!

Can i meet u Reggie girl.U sound like the type of girl i've been wanting to meet.Maybe we could work something out 4eachother.

@poster, theres nthn wron with been nice to people,bt its got to hv bounderies and limits, u'v got to draw a line when people meet wheather or not they are cashiers (even if its dangote) uve got ur pride and ego just as it is with every other human,so theres nthn wron in lettin people know that they shoudn't do mor than say hi to you especialy when they seeing you for the first time

Sorry, but I think you need "deliverance" because I find your narratives too fictitious to believe. You attend(ed) a school filled with guys from wealthy homes and you couldn't hook up with any of them? You go for outings where you meet other privileged guys but can't attract a "marriage material" among them? You walk along the streets with your friends and only YOU gets harassed by unworthy men? Haba! 

cmon mehnn ah ah cut the girl some slack this happens to a lot of people as a matter of fact it used to happen to me. especially in my teens. once youre a friendly humbele perswon with a nice attitude they feel they can just walk up to you. i might as well be in her shoes. i went to a god school too but only hooked up with one person and that waqs in my last term in my last year! she might be beautifull but u know how it is in school nowadays if you are not one of the popular people you kind of move with a diff clan the ones no one wants to toast or even more the ones toasting you are not the ones you like!

let me tell you advice my dear when youre young its ok. but you have to get to a point were you hold your head up high and dont be shining teeth with every tom and harry. all this is part of see finish. you dont have to behave like a queen but you have to set boundaries hello hi basis. if they start followwing you around trying to escort you here and there just be firm and say no thank you. the fact is to get rid of some you have to shine your eyes and shout on them after that day the next time they see you they wont approach you. then you can then start a hello, hi basis. a simple smile here and there. like that you put them in thier place and they will stay there.

only last summer i wnet to naija and bike man was trying to toast me IMAGINE! not discriminating here but common! nor be me carry my head anter bike in the first palce!

There is a principle that many people are aware of but ignore, you attract what you are or in your case,what you think, its like me, ive always felt young at heart and as a result most times,i find myself being toasted by boys my brother's age, young and bashful, there was a time i thought i didnt deserve anything good in my life menwise and i discovered i attracted the worse kind of me, its all about waht you think, its okay to be nice but its also okay to know exactly what you want, start thinking about the kind of guys you want to approach you and  turn urself into the kind of girl who will attract those kind kindda pple, its all about the mentality
,

waterworks:


cmon mehnn ah ah cut the girl some slack this happens to a lot of people as a matter of fact it used to happen to me. especially in my teens. once youre a friendly humbele perswon with a nice attitude they feel they can just walk up to you. i might as well be in her shoes. i went to a god school too but only hooked up with one person and that waqs in my last term in my last year! she might be beautifull but u know how it is in school nowadays if you are not one of the popular people you kind of move with a diff clan the ones no one wants to toast or even more the ones toasting you are not the ones you like!

let me tell you advice my dear when youre young its ok. but you have to get to a point were you hold your head up high and dont be shining teeth with every tom and harry. all this is part of see finish. you dont have to behave like a queen but you have to set boundaries hello hi basis. if they start followwing you around trying to escort you here and there just be firm and say no thank you. the fact is to get rid of some you have to shine your eyes and shout on them after that day the next time they see you they wont approach you. then you can then start a hello, hi basis. a simple smile here and there. like that you put them in thier place and they will stay there.

only last summer i wnet to naija and bike man was trying to toast me IMAGINE! not discriminating here but common! nor be me carry my head anter bike in the first palce!

lmao!

Reggieluv:

To davidylan- I did go to a private school has nothing do with gardeners or cooks

To deji2005- it's easier said than done, i'm not saying it's wrong anything can happen but b4 my parents how can i bring someone for example that does not know how to speak english well?

To beaf- i don't understand what u mean y supplying my number around, i neva mentioned such. i only said, they have guts to toast me and all, and knowing my kind of nature sometimes i could smile and say no, sometimes i just take it of course, i throw it away when no interested.

To mama gee- u don't know me so don't say what u don't know or r u poor?

To posakosa- I do go out to anywhere, everywhere, what i was really describing was like taking a walk for example with friends, strolling not necessarily social outing.

To Kingsleyinfo- i'm not judging anyone but i gave an example easier said than done, how does it feel especially me being the female/woman, different for a man, bring a guy to my parent that seems local or cannot speak english well or something like that?

To cold- don't make me laugh

To justkunmi- thanks, i know it's not pride but i also want to know my worth.

To bluespice- thanks for clarifying

I don't want to be mean but, you can't even use the forum. What you've written is difficult to read and was difficult to write.
Damn! Guy's notice these things and the high class ones might think you're bush.
You desperately need to repackage.

Beaf:

I don't want to be mean but, you can't even use the forum. What you've written is difficult to read and was difficult to write.
Damn! Guy's notice these things and the high class ones might think you're bush.
You desperately need to repackage.

Maybe u need a special type of glasses to read this. I'm new here and just learnt the easier way to reply.

estrella:

There is a principle that many people are aware of but ignore, you attract what you are or in your case,what you think, its like me, ive always felt young at heart and as a result most times,i find myself being toasted by boys my brother's age, young and bashful, there was a time i thought i didnt deserve anything good in my life menwise and i discovered i attracted the worse kind of me, its all about waht you think, its okay to be nice but its also okay to know exactly what you want, start thinking about the kind of guys you want to approach you and turn urself into the kind of girl who will attract those kind kindda pple, its all about the mentality
,

thanks, i think i will have to put limits and not just about being too nice not to offend or bring down any1.

I went to a good school, I hang out with popular rich people.I was only referring givning an instance where I might just be strolling to a store and this type of guys approach me and even have guts for more, that's what bothers me, like are they not sumwat scared not like a god but like even giving me their numbers.
I am a nice person but i also know myself and limits and what I want. I have style, class and grace, which i'm sure perhaps i'm too nice and friendly that they feel so free to approach me without fear.

@ Poster
U nor get level. Maybe you dress like a tramp. You're rich, you're hot, you're classy, blah blah blah.
Just prove it !!! Let's see ur picture.

Gaggi:

@ Poster
U nor get level. Maybe you dress like a tramp. You're rich, you're hot, you're classy, blah blah blah.
Just prove it !!! Let's see ur picture.

So my pic will tell you who i am? well i will post my pic so u can have idea what i look like if u r so eager.

My dear, why do you sound like ure all up for those rich guys instead?

I mean what do u see in the local boys which you think is a problem to you? Are they drug dealers? Murderers? Scammers? Gangstas? Mafias? Yaba Left Patients? Wetin?

I think u are being too choosy thats why u are no satisfied with whichever man that comes your way. U better learn to be contented or else u will regret it. 


Ok maybe Im missing the point but at leats tell me whats wrong with local boys.

Gabry:

My dear, why do you sound like ure all up for those rich guys instead?

I mean what do u see in the local boys which you think is a problem to you? Are they drug dealers? Murderers? Scammers? Gangstas? Mafias? Yaba Left Patients? Wetin?

I think u are being too choosy thats why u are no satisfied with whichever man that comes your way. U better learn to be contented or else u will regret it.

That was what i was trying to avoid, that i am not looking for rich guys or putting down people. From where i come from, i know they are human beings but are people that scarce that i should find myself someone of this type and bring home? i hope some of u will understand where i am coming from.

Gabry:

My dear, why do you sound like ure all up for those rich guys instead?

I mean what do u see in the local boys which you think is a problem to you? Are they drug dealers? Murderers? Scammers? Gangstas? Mafias? Yaba Left Patients? Wetin?

I think u are being too choosy thats why u are no satisfied with whichever man that comes your way. U better learn to be contented or else u will regret it. 


Ok maybe Im  missing the point but at leats tell me whats wrong with local boys.  

awww gabry. . .can i blow u a kiss for taking the words right outta my mouth & SIMPLIFYING them. . . .

@reggieluv

If this doesn't do u in. . .girlfriend. . .go change soap wey u dey take bathe abeg!!!

Reggieluv:

That was what i was trying to avoid, that i am not looking for rich guys or putting down people. From where i come from, i know they are human beings but are people "men" that scarce that i should find myself someone of this type and bring home? i hope some of u will understand where i am coming from.

Lastyme i chkd (census). . .the ratio of men to women in Nigeria was ummmm. . . 1 man to 4 women. . . I really do understand where you're coming from girlfriend. . . but it's been there from the on-set and ONLY u can undo it. . .as long as you're NOT be-devilled!

Reggieluv:

That was what i was trying to avoid, that i am not looking for rich guys or putting down people. From where i come from, i know they are human beings but are people that scarce that i should find myself someone of this type and bring home? i hope some of u will understand where i am coming from.

This type? Again my dear. U are not answering my question. What is wrong with bringing back a local boy? And must they all be something bad in your point of view or wetin? I dont clearly understand what is bad about a local boy and I would appreciate it if you could tell me what is it.

v3nom4eva:

awww gabry. . .can i blow u a kiss for taking the words right outta my mouth & SIMPLIFYING them. . . .

Im confuse naa on what does she mean by local boys and what bout them. . .  

@reggie

Please don't look @ it that. . Since you're from a classy family n all that, if you EVENTUALLY do fall for one of these guys, u could "toosh" him up to your standards, i mean. . .errmmmm. . .i seriously don't know what you're on about here??

You keep going on N on about "local boys" like they a virus or somethin u juz can't hang wit. . .if you're allergic to them, SIMPLY find yourself someone your on the SAME page wit. . .darn!

Lol

Singing [ feeling myself ]

v3nom4eva:

@reggie

Please don't look @ it that. . Since you're from a classy family n all that, if you EVENTUALLY do fall for one of these guys, u could "toosh" him up to your standards, i mean. . .errmmmm. . .i seriously don't know what you're on about here??

You keep going on N on about "local boys" like they a virus or somethin u juz can't hang wit. . .if you're allergic to them, SIMPLY find yourself someone your on the SAME page wit. . .darn!

that's y i wrote earlier it's possible with love but i'm not in love with any of them, not yet at least. they just happen to approach me too far. I have friends that none of these people can walk up to her not to talk of giving them numbers or such. i don't want to belittle anybody but some of u should understand me and my own point of view. i'm sure some of you too feel the same way but don't want to say.

Gabry:

This type? Again my dear. U are not answering my question. What is wrong with bringing back a local boy? And must they all be something bad in your point of view or wetin? I dont clearly understand what is bad about a local boy and I would appreciate it if you could tell me what is it.


Im confuse naa on what does she mean by local boys and what bout them. . .

local? honestly i'm even feeling odd explaining such because some people here are looking at it like i'm feeling too big, proud or belittling people which i am not.

Reggieluv:

that's y i wrote earlier it's possible with love but i'm not in love with any of them, not yet at least. they just happen to approach me too far. I have friends that none of these people can walk up to her not to talk of giving them numbers or such. i don't want to belittle anybody but some of u should understand me and my own point of view. i'm sure some of you too feel the same way but don't want to say.

Ok, in that case than just tell them that u are not into a relationship at the moment. If they carry on, u will just have to ignore them. At times, its btter to be a little bit strict so that people will not step on your head.

Reggieluv:

local? honestly i'm even feeling odd explaining such because some people here are looking at it like i'm feeling too big, proud or belittling people which i am not.

Ok, thats ok. I understand.

From your picture you don't look half bad. Maybe you think too highly of yourself?
These guys come after you, sure, but do you give them a chance? Have you dated them? Are they generally nice guys or the trifling kinds?
What kind of girl are you and what qualities do you seek in a man. Maybe if you have the answer to that question you can narrow it down.

C2H5OH:

From your picture you don't look half bad. Maybe you think too highly of yourself?
These guys come after you, sure, but do you give them a chance? Have you dated them? Are they generally nice guys or the trifling kinds?
What kind of girl are you and what qualities do you seek in a man. Maybe if you have the answer to that question you can narrow it down.

WORD!!

Gabry:

Ok, in that case than just tell them that u are not into a relationship at the moment. If they carry on, u will just have to ignore them. At times, its btter to be a little bit strict so that people will not step on your head.

I don talk d same tin b4!!

C2H5OH:

From your picture you don't look half bad. Maybe you think too highly of yourself?
These guys come after you, sure, but do you give them a chance? Have you dated them? Are they generally nice guys or the trifling kinds?
What kind of girl are you and what qualities do you seek in a man. Maybe if you have the answer to that question you can narrow it down.

WOW! U sound so mature!!!! Im impressssss!!!

v3nom4eva:

WORD!!
I don talk d same tin b4!!

U dey beef me abi? Based on what she said, she dont have feelings for the guys whom toasted her naaaa. . . That means she has no feelings for them Period! Why force love?


Poster, than u shouldnt say Local boys in general cause than you are referrin to all of them. You should say that you have no interest in those guys whom toasted you.

Am I right?

Lol hey now kokos and kokolets don't compliment me too much. Knowing me, I can switch it into overdrive like a renegade and start yarning dust.

Hi Reggie,

Dont you know that these men and women replying you are old, poor and ragged hence they are jealous of you? Who doesnt want to be young, rich, successful and hang out with creme de la creme in society, dont you know an average naija person has serious beef with anyone who appears to be above them socially? Thats why u get these outrageous replies with none of them giving you any answer or suggesting anything meaningful, some of them even question the fact that you are from a rich home, only poor people can ask such a question, trust me. Look at me, i am also in the opposite direction of what you are going thru ' . I am not rich or born with a diamond spoon hanging from my mouth or something, but look, if i list the names of celebs whose back has rubbed my bed, in fact, you will send me your number immediately, people like Serena Williams, Mariah Carey, Tonton Milan, Diana Ross, Jennifer Hudson oh, the list is so long, look, these ladies just cant stop getting accross to me, why, because they know what they get from me and they cant get elsewhere. I learnt from when i was young to just be myself, dont discriminate, talk to anyone and everyone, shape your di ck for the future and all that, and these women will keep coming, now, i have enough of these celebs as my ex.

Darling, i am hoping we can hook up, skiils are skills, gifts are gifts, ability is not the same as abinibi, it is in borne, so, for now, stick to what you can attract.

By the way, lets have a list of yuppie guys whose bed you have lain on. what do they roll in, who are their palls, do their cars turn heads or they ride one of those common rides everyone in naija wants to ride? You know, big boys get level, there are big boys, bigger boys, biggest boys - not just rich boys, but boys who makes women wet when they show up in style. I just described myself there, u know.