Often times,I've heard people talk about this type of relationship and I've always wondered what if feels like. When they say it's with benefits,does it mean the other party gets paid by the initiator of the relationship? If so,isn't that a posh way of prostitution? What's the difference between that and an open relationship where both parties are allowed to have sex with other people? I know it's a kind of relationship people who aren't ready for a serious commitment,get involved in. Do people involved in this type of relationship pay attention to the looks of their would-be partners? I'd personally love to be in such a relationship but would prefer my partner having sex just with me. A situation where your partner is having multiple sex partners isn't cool,and it's a risky venture. You stand the risk of being infected with HIV...

Before I join the train,I'd like to hear from those involved in it,or haVE been involved in it before,for what's it's like,and for what to Expec t in a friends with benefit relationship.

In the beginning, you feel on top of the world till she gets pregnant

#ExperienceIsTheBestTeacher

sundoj08:
In the beginning, you feel on top of the world till she gets pregnant

#ExperienceIsTheBestTeacher

lol

Just like the poster above me has rightly said, you can't have her tied to you when what you guys are having is a mere FWB.
And from my own view, the FWB I've experienced, there was no terms defined. Infact it all started with the lady. I never made any approach, she has her bf which I much know.
Now the pro is that, it makes you feel smart and lucky, infact in FWB no stress of spending or begging. You all what you'r into whenever you meet.
Now the con is that, wahala go dey if you're eventually discovered by the bf or pregnancy, or just like you said Hiv.

If u are a girl and u have cheated on your boyfriend, you are in a frndswithbenefits relationship.

In my case, she thought she was my girlfriend..Bt as far as I was concerned, she was just a friend. By the time she realized what was going on, I had already had my fill.
Pros: You can try anything sexual with her. She won't mind.
Cons: She may start "catching feelings"

Pros:its sweet, cheap and exciting
Cons: you liable to catch any kind of disease and when she falls in love with you, she will tie your destiny with juju
Above all don't do it

I love friends with benefits alot I can't imagine being just friend with a lady when she got what I'm looking for out there and most times they simply fall for me because I know how to play my game well when u are romantic as a guy and u always look Gud Ladies will fall for u I have almost all my female pals as FWB it's so Fun

I had one during my youth services days....we both knew we could neva be together because of so many obvious reasons I can't start mentioning....we really had fun, we both new what we wanted...I liked her because she wild and free spirited and she actually told me to my face that she has finally gotten her Abuja "northern" spoilt brat....lol. (as If I cared )
It was all guns and roses until towards our POP she gave me a pregnancy scare.....dude nobody tell me o....I fante like usain bolt....my old man would've literally skined me Alive.....
My advice don't do it...just don't!

FWB
Advantages
* No drama
* No emotional attachment
* She at you Berk and call( depending on the terms of agreement)


Disadvantages
* Pregnancy
* STI's because you not the only one fucking her
* Bankruptcy in your pocket and
account
* Jealousy

Panzerfaust:
In my case, she thought she was my girlfriend..Bt as far as I was concerned, she was just a friend. By the time she realized what was going on, I had already had my fill.
Pros: You can try anything sexual with her. She won't mind.
Cons: She may start "catching feelings"

That catching feelings has always been my fear, all the girls I have tried that ends up catching feelings and acting jealous whenever they caught me with another girl but the funny thing is that they all have boyfriends but cant stand seeing me with other girls. I still prefer it to serious relationship sha

@ all: thanks. I'd go for it cos I'm not sure I'm ready for a serious relationship yet and of course,I can't allow my gun develope frogs from its tadpoles...lol. So,do you guys consider looks when picking one? Personally,I can't sex someone who doesn't look attractive a bit. It's a huge turnoff. As regards STD/STI,I think we can minimize that with the use of condoms.