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Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 8:24am On Jul 21, 2014 |
A lot of Nigeria men are like that,they are hypocrites when it comes to women.I lived most of my life around boys and male friends,but any woman who knows that too well will definitely pin the stubborn ones down.My dad was like that,the man too dey form cold heart,not until i saw him break completely down in tears like a rejected woman one day.Momsi was just telling him sorry.I was less than 12.The objanje inside me was quick to take complete record of his weakness and i started using it against him and watch him cry again again and again.Find a mans weakness,use it well,break him every way u can,leave him in the mould.Chances are,he will still come back.He might still be stubborn,but the truth is,he will lower his matchet down a little.Be as humble and loving as you can when with a man BUT during qurells,be as cold as jezebel. 3 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by dickt(m): 8:32am On Jul 21, 2014 |
o.p. You r a female 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 8:37am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Men are very easy to understand,it just takes a lot of patience,understanding and humbleness at the initial stage.Be like a mumu,if u must so that they can get more closer to trust you.Be real with them as pretence will only give you more problems.If you get hold of his weakness,you have finished.The highest he can do if he cant take it anymore is to dump u,but in his quiet time e go dey reason ur matter. 3 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Oahray: 8:47am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Crap to the high heavens! A man cannot take care of himself and needs a woman? To bathe him or what? There are bachelors that aren't even in any serious relationship. Why haven't they dropped dead? A man doesn't need to get attached to any woman unless he's ready to start a family. If ladies throw themselves at a man they feel is ready for marriage, and he hasn't married any of them, how does that make him a hypocrite? Men do not show their emotions like women. It doesn't mean we don't have emotions, but if you aren't special we won't waste it on you. Does that make men hypocrites? The hypocrite is the woman who turns down every man who wants to marry her, only to start throwing herself at every man later when she starts aging. Who told her the world revolves around her? 4 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by repogirl(f): 9:11am On Jul 21, 2014 |
chinziaski: A woman who knows her onion and keeps to it will always find it difficult with men of this day. They find those women hard to crack therefore they chicken out. Many men want submissive women, a woman that will ignore their ills. A woman who will strictly adhere to his rules and face her job of cooking and giving birth. But, lucky is the man who marries these women because on the long run, they get the real fulfillment of marriage. I told a woman about her bill some days back, you know what her reply was "let me tell my husband". Chai! I said "which kind woman be dis?" A woman who knows her onion will sort the problem there without calling her husband but later tell her husband she had taken care of the problem. We find those women who know their onions bossy and very hard to manipulate. So we get scared of the future.I use that 'lemme tell my husband first' line also, not cause I don't know my 'onions' as you put it, but I want his take also on the issue...... I don't want to make a decision he'll not be comfortable with so I need to know if he agrees with it or not! No crime there! |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 9:16am On Jul 21, 2014 |
repogirl: I use that 'lemme tell my husband first' line also, not cause I don't know my 'onions' as you put it, but I want his take also on the issue...... I don't want to make a decision he'll not be comfortable with so I need to know if he agrees with it or not! No crime there!I know there are some circumstances where you have to tell your husband about something, but there are things you should just do based on the fact that its necessary to be done that time. What I found out about the woman is that she didn't want to pay the money. She just want her husband to do everything and that's bad. 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 9:30am On Jul 21, 2014 |
MrWaters: The other day, I was talking to a male acquaintance whose one-time girlfriend had been a friend of mine, which I had been aware of ended because he refused to get married after three years of being together. He was complaining to me of how his house had been turned into a “base” by his friends, and how he never had any moments of peace any longer, and how he was wondering what to do about the situation. I remarked that perhaps, he ought to get married. Mr Man. you don marry? I no fit read all this your long tory |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Jcurtis: 9:32am On Jul 21, 2014 |
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Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by 5minsmadness: 9:49am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Anacksunamun:You deserve recharge card for this post! Send me your number! |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Harmvirus(f): 10:02am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Nice write up op buh I believe there are still good guys out there 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by princessayesha(f): 10:02am On Jul 21, 2014 |
He wud become an object of pity in 20-30 years to come Cox such men only realise the right women when its too late 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by freecocoa(f): 10:05am On Jul 21, 2014 |
What a nice read and so true. I honestly wonder what most men of these days want from women. 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by repogirl(f): 10:16am On Jul 21, 2014 |
chinziaski: I know there are some circumstances where you have to tell your husband about something, but there are things you should just do based on the fact that its necessary to be done that time. What I found out about the woman is that she didn't want to pay the money. She just want her husband to do everything and that's bad.ow...Kay o but the man might not be complaining or the woman might not have the money to spare..... |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Oxone(m): 10:16am On Jul 21, 2014 |
lynpetra: Men are very easy to understand,it just takes a lot of patience,understanding and humbleness at the initial stage.Be like a mumu,if u must so that they can get more closer to trust you.Be real with them as pretence will only give you more problems.If you get hold of his weakness,you have finished.The highest he can do if he cant take it anymore is to dump u,but in his quiet time e go dey reason ur matter. This right here is what most ladies don't get. Force/tantrums wont get you anywhere with anyone talk more of a man who grows up with the mindset that he should be in charge. Wise women get all they want and more without raising their voices or resorting to force while leaving the man's ego fully massaged 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 10:19am On Jul 21, 2014 |
repogirl: ow...Kay o but the man might not be complaining or the woman might not have the money to spare.....let me say u don't know woman. I understand u |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by cococandy(f): 10:21am On Jul 21, 2014 |
njokusboy: Not all men are born alpha. Alpha males are the ones who stand out among their peers. Depending on the parameters and social requirement of the time. Natural flair for leadership AMONG THEIR FELLOW MEN Physical strength Financial standing Good looks Sex appeal Dominance etc etc. The best men among other men are the ones defined as alpha. Alpha males are the males other males wish to be like. There are only few of these around and they can have any woman they want because they more attractive than other men around. Alpha males don't need to sing the 'I'm a man' anthem. Deference and submission come naturally to anybody who encounters them because their leadership ability isn't in question. Being a man doesn't automatically make you alpha. Being able to lead your fellow men is what makes you alpha Enough of this misinformation. An alpha male can be totally soft with his woman and still be the alpha among his peers. It has nothing to do with the relationship between you and your woman but has everything to do with who you are compared to other males. Just like aphrodiate females are the sensation among other females.they have men at their beck and call willing to eat out of their palms. We are digressing sha. I just wanted to correct this impression making the rounds. Some guys may even start thinking that their 'alphaness' has to do with how able they are to subdue their women while in the real sense there's nothing alpha about them as they could be wimps compared to other men 6 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by remsonik(f): 10:43am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Men are hypocrites. Find his weakness and breaking point and use it to your advantage. 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by yungchop: 10:44am On Jul 21, 2014 |
princessayesha: He wud become an object of pity in 20-30 years to come Cox such men only realise the right women when its too latena to dey follow you up and down remain now o, you must answer me!! Kina jin ko? |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by coachwilcox(m): 10:47am On Jul 21, 2014 |
cococandy: Yeah. And after the few Alphas have had their way with 90% of the ladies and dumped you, y'all at older ages will start hustling the betas you rejected then and accusing them of being weak in an attempt to shame them into marriage. Its not working anymore and thats why more and more 30+ ladies are being single. 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by EternalBeing: 10:57am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Oahray: Real men wait, they search until they get that 1 girl they want to marry, they'll have sex with no other except their 2nd half. Why go into relationships at all when you don't want anything serious?! I think men that do such are not serious, they are simply weaklings that have been overpowered by weaknesses. This is really sad, guys are destroying the girls in our society. Why should you be destroying these innocent girls? I guess you'll say a girl once broke your heart, ah?! A guy like you once deceived that girl, dumped her like a bad habit and rendered her heartless. You Destiny can be destroyed by sleeping with just one wrong girl. "He that joins his body to an harlot is an harlot" Sex is a spiritual thing that involves your body/soul/spirit. Real men are spiritual, and they have control over their sex urge, they wait, they search until they get that 1 girl they want to marry, they'll have sex with no other except their 2nd half. You know you can't do without sex, you can't live without her, so why not wait, search and get the right one together with whom to enjoy sex for the rest of your life and fulfill your Glorious Destiny. They women are the reflection of the men in a society. 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by coachwilcox(m): 10:59am On Jul 21, 2014 |
what women want 1 Like
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Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by coachwilcox(m): 11:00am On Jul 21, 2014 |
lol
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Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by apolonius(m): 11:00am On Jul 21, 2014 |
cococandy: I have an issue with your defined features of the alpha male. It's mostly superficial,darling. "...looks,sex appeal,..."Are you kidding me?Yes,bodily beauty is great but reiterating it in various ways makes mockery of the concept of the man.A man is a man;'alpha male','real man' are such dubious concepts and adjectives that give false meanings and corruption to the man identity are postmodernism's cocktail of shit. Great to see leadership there,but I expected high features like intelligence,emotional maturity and a capacity for love and affection,visionary-professionally and in core indices of his life,and refined mannerisms. I can go on and on. What do you think darling,and how are you? 4 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Donvilo(m): 11:06am On Jul 21, 2014 |
I do not have problem with a woman correcting me when am wrong, especially in a respectful manner, in fact, I respect such ladies a lot (talkless of those who will nag & yell at the top of their voices, just to correct me, mbanu! abughi m ewu na ), what I have problem is it's a woman NOT allowing me to do the same for her (especially when I have taken my precious time to explain to her in a way she will fully understand what I mean ) Imagine if the woman in this scenario happens to be the one I intend to marry Now that is where am really pissed off |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Maybellyne(f): 11:06am On Jul 21, 2014 |
chinziaski: A woman who knows her onion and keeps to it will always find it difficult with men of this day. They find those women hard to crack therefore they chicken out. Many men want submissive women, a woman that will ignore their ills. A woman who will strictly adhere to his rules and face her job of cooking and giving birth. But, lucky is the man who marries these women because on the long run, they get the real fulfillment of marriage. I told a woman about her bill some days back, you know what her reply was "let me tell my husband". Chai! I said "which kind woman be dis?" A woman who knows her onion will sort the problem there without calling her husband but later tell her husband she had taken care of the problem. We find those women who know their onions bossy and very hard to manipulate. So we get scared of the future. Wow! I'm surprised a man actually said this. You are one of the few who really know what they want in women. Nice |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Oahray: 11:17am On Jul 21, 2014 |
EternalBeing:how does this relate to my post? My post wasn't about sex, you perv! What's with the "you, you..." stance in your out of point post? Feeling self-righteous are we? Let every man carry his own load as the Bible says. It's not like the ladies do not have a say in the matter. |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by EternalBeing: 11:28am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Oahray: how does this relate to my post? My post wasn't about sex, you perv!No, my brother. Far from feeling self righteous. "Iron sharpeneth Iron". Together we can get there if we face the reality of what need be done. Someone scolded me about how I was wasting away my Destiny and I thanked him because he opened my eyes to the fact that this Life is 90% Spiritual, 10% physical. Today, I'm better because I met him. If all men in our society condemn evil and encourage good, our next generation would be better. Peace. 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 11:54am On Jul 21, 2014 |
cococandy: EVERY MAN IS AN ALPHA AS FAR AS HIS HOME IS CONCERNED EXCEPT WHERE THE WOMAN LEADS THE HOME..... 1 Like |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by EternalBeing: 11:57am On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius: Thanks. I really hope to see more of your type around. Too much movies etc... has caused too much of misplaced priorities. Also, I expected qualities like financial power, spiritual maturity, ability to whether any storm etc. |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Boomark(m): 11:57am On Jul 21, 2014 |
SkinnyDude: 2009 thread made it to the front page. You have to wait till 3009, |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by cococandy(f): 11:59am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Attraction is a direct result of physical appeal. So it goes a long way even with fellow men. Smaller men are self conscious in the presence of larger men. And ladies looove big guys. First impressions can define how your fellow guys relate with you and your appearance can make you stand out among other men thereby creating the impression of 'bigger' man to female onlookers. Ever heard of the basic requirement you need to have to be a good mating partner? 'Tall,dark,handsome?' Go figure. What I think? Good leadership is a combination of all those other points you noted in your post because a leader would really have to be balanced in all of those to make his followers follow willingly so you're right too. Note that I also said depending on the social requirments of the time. There was a time when all a man needed to survive was brawn. Stronger men were the toast of the time and could have harems of women because they had what it took. Now physical strength may not even be on the list of what makes an alpha male since financial power is needed more in our own time. Hence my etc etc. I'm fine thank you. darling? an NL guy is being nice to me for a change when I'd already given up on yous. There must be fresh air blowing around here. apolonius: 2 Likes |
Re: Facing The Hypocrisy Of Men by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius: Don't mind loretta, she is very cunning... Tryna make it sound like alpha precludes dominating women.... 1 Like |
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