Oliviaarims:


Lol...don't wash me with hypo,biko.

ahann!!! and she fell for my trap..so you were washing me all along? gotcha

hope you good though??

Monalisa185:


ahann!!! and she fell for my trap..so you were washing me all along? gotcha

hope you good though??

Oliviaarims:

Lol... I don't wash ppl,joor. I'm good. How u?

hehehehe, linusella
I'm very well, thank you

ClassCaptain:
Bro::

have you at anytime commited the relationship to the hands of God

the pentecoastal church you attend, have you called on God through your pastors and spiritual fathers as to whether the lady is truely destined for you.

I mean you have been together for five years and as posted; you didnt state any other notable defect except this church issue:


seek God face first,it is the answer you get that decides your next step

Monalisa185:


hehehehe, linusella

I'm very well, thank you

MzOnajin1:
Hmmmmm, I c no reason y she can't change to your church. U re d boss now. But u should v taken it serious earlier dan dis

TK0907:


That's even what surprised me, she will be 28 next month and she gave me such a silly response, it seems she has already gotten another option

DBestDoc:

i laugh at you bro, so you were expecting her to gravel at your feet and plead with you not to call off the relationship because of her age?
what she did is what any right thinking person with a healthy self respect would do, regardless of gender or age.
Why must she be the one to change her church when two grown adults are obviously involved in the relationship?

she is a human being too remember, with a mind of her own and a purpose to accomplish on earth. her life doesn't have to revolve around you.
you got it wrong by giving her an ultimatum to either change her church or the relationship is over. That is not what a selfless adult that really wanted the relationship to workout would have done.

if the issue of religious affiliation(both christians) could end your relationship, it means you guys are way too immature to talk marriage at this time. You both need to grow up.
For relationships to succeed, sacrifices need to be made but it cannot be forced. you love being a Pentecostal, she loves her church. You could meet each other in the middle and love continues.
The way you handled it is poor, i wish you the best.

TK0907:


Thanks uwc. Feminism advocate

DBestDoc:


Exactly the response i expected from you. From your first post, i already deduced your kind.
It pays to be open minded my dear and logic should be applied when and where necessary.

Your main concern should be your lady's level of spirituality and moral uprightness which is not necessarily determined by doctrine.
We cannot keep being myopic and intolerant of others different than us and expect a good result, if the difference in doctrine (not religion) is the only reason you called off your 5yr relationship, then i don't know what to say. You both are christians, yet intolerant and unwelcoming of each other's faith

Shebi na religion ,as a matter of fact, na God know who know am...whether pentecostal, catholic, cherubim n saraphim or jehovah's witnesses. In the end of it all, Na God know who know am...

Education and exposure cannot give wisdom, the search continues for you.
All the best!