obiak4:
not mentally prepared to live in the same house with a wom an(my second mother, my princess, my bedmate,my soul mate)
don't want to end up being a divorce most ladies nowadays don't know what they want
my spec are as follows
100% FIDELITY
older than me plus 30-32

should not wear earnings or attachment whatsoever

UNTIL I MEET HER I WOULD ENJOY BEEN SINGLE
BLESSED BE

gentleheart1:
Sorry o @op i know your question is for Men only but i hope you dont mind my doing small amebo on your thread since i be woman.

I think most Men within that age bracket are unmarried because of fear and not having enough money to take care of responsibilities that comes with marriage.
Some ladies are also scared of marriage too e.g moi.

Dyt:


Marxxx
Come and answer ooo

It don't take time for men you know

herboshedhe:
www.nairaland.com/2901535/should-continue-relationship-25-only


this post suppose the best thread of the year

MRBrownJ:


it works for ME, now care to finally answer my question: why do YOU believe that this piece of paper would make any difference in anybody's life?

jashar:



Forgerrit mehn.... I don land. even caveat emptor can't move me . I'm as immovable as a steelpost.

Marxxx:
what question? Na you give me girlfriend? I was wooing you and you were doing shakara ...."GUYS ONLY"

Marxxx:
I hope you won't cause trouble. Pls no dating dating, make move make move....loool...I trust your day was good?

I went on official purposes.

Marxxx:
wow this is amazing. But don't you feel the need for a partner? I mean your kids are quite young what if something happens to you tomorrow, on whose shoulder would they lean on? Who do you choose as your next of kin in any contract stuff? I believe you are still interested in having a wife...I will appreciate your response

Marxxx:
You want a lady older than you? Are you for real? I hope it is not what am thinking...pls elaborate/elucidate on the older lady part.

obiak4:

nope it not sugar mummy or such stuff have always dated ladies that are older than me probably because am a lucky guy lolz
they are very understanding and wouldn't cheat easily unlike younger ladies (specially those from the South South lord forgive me)
you just have to respect them and treat them like Queen that they are,
bro when I mean older ladies I mean babes that are older than me but have the stature and brain of Leonard de Capiro



beauty is vain, but a woman that fears the lord is .................

jashar:

. 'I solemnly swear I'm up to no good'.

Kaiiii.... I suffered today oo. no be small.

Yours?
Btw, wetin you bring come from Sydney? Don't tell me I went on official purposes.

Dyt:



Goan siddon
Alakori

Marxxx:
, how is your prince? I trust he is kicking?

Dyt:


My champion is excellent

How's the holiday coming?
I love holidays

Marxxx:
Me too, I just hope I don't get bored

Dyt:


Go out
Have fun
New movies showing
Go AY live
Have fun and stop living like a man with no smile * don't wnna use that heavy word*

Jashar
Tell him how to have fun

Marxxx:
funny you...I want to get married soon. So I will be doing a lot of thinking and planning. perhaps I will start dishing out letters for recommendation. Don't say it's archaic/old fashion...

Marxxx:
what happened? Traffic? I had a great day. I brought books

ehen, what kind of books? Hope it's not the 'getting more out of the day' kind?

Sis Dyt say I should tell you how to have fun. I garner you're an intense person; a strong MelChlor.

Cheeeeiiiiii, where does one start with such a high handed personality. But despair not, there's hope.
Do you have sociable friends? That's the 1st step. Hang out with good friends. Not the kind that will take you to bar ooo and finish your destiny. But the kind that have good clean fun, like mine . (shout out to my friends).
Movies, beach, games, gists, travel and tours....

Marxxx:
wow, dude you need to think carefully about what you wish for. She takes care of you while dating doesn't mean it will be so while married. I won't approve of a man dating or getting married to an older lady. Unless she is the one marrying you. Well it's choice. But ensure you work well make a reasonable amount of money and then see if you still have the urge of an older lady. Most people (especially africans) marry older ladies because of financial benefits don't follow that path.

Marxxx:
I don't joke with opinions, I jot them down. This piece of paper will make a difference in my life. I can compare opinions and then try to see where I am missing it. Everyone those not have the luxury of thinking about some issues. Opinions from others can go a long way

gentleheart1:
Sorry o @op i know your question is for Men only but i hope you dont mind my doing small amebo on your thread since i be woman.

I think most Men within that age bracket are unmarried because of fear and not having enough money to take care of responsibilities that comes with marriage. Some ladies are also scared of marriage too e.g moi.

MRBrownJ:


what are the marriage responsibilities that you are talking about?
- if a single man lives in a 1 bedroom apt, cant he get married and STILL live there with his spouse, until their finances are better and they can get a bigger place and possibly have kids?
- if a man has just enough money for 3 square meals a day, and so does his future bride, cant they get married and continue living on 3 square meals, until their finances get better and they can start having kids that they can feed?

we can clearly see that the MEANING of marriage is different for some... as if anyone needs money to get married, lol! money is needed in order to have a LIFE (home/food/clothing etc), and if anyone, whether man or woman, cant take care of their basic LIFE's needs, then they have no business seeking to get married, as their PRIORITY would be to get a LIFE. sadly, lazy women of today believe that this is men's duty, while any man should know that anyone without their "life" in order, shouldnt be valued as a possible partner, as they will be a LIABILITY to any union. so women (and men), get your LIVES in order before seeking for a mate.

MRBrownJ:


what are the marriage responsibilities that you are talking about?
- if a single man lives in a 1 bedroom apt, cant he get married and STILL live there with his spouse, until their finances are better and they can get a bigger place and possibly have kids?
- if a man has just enough money for 3 square meals a day, and so does his future bride, cant they get married and continue living on 3 square meals, until their finances get better and they can start having kids that they can feed?

we can clearly see that the MEANING of marriage is different for some... as if anyone needs money to get married, lol! money is needed in order to have a LIFE (home/food/clothing etc), and if anyone, whether man or woman, cant take care of their basic LIFE's needs, then they have no business seeking to get married, as their PRIORITY would be to get a LIFE. sadly, lazy women of today believe that this is men's duty, while any man should know that anyone without their "life" in order, shouldnt be valued as a possible partner, as they will be a LIABILITY to any union. so women (and men), get your LIVES in order before seeking for a mate.

gentleheart1:

Dont get me wrong please, i am sorry i dont fall into the categories of ladies you are reffering. Aside my job i have a very little business which is not yielding money yet but i am very proud of it.

And again what do you mean by a man who lives in a room getting married? Dont get it twisted yes the woman has to contribute to running of the home but a huge percentage of it has to come from the man.

And yes a man living in a room shouldnt think of marriage until he is ready.

MRBrownJ:


so what you are saying is that, if a man lives in a 1 room apt, where there is a bedroom with king size bed, sitting room, kitchen and bathroom, this man CANNOT get married because this house isnt big enough for 2 people?!

gentleheart1:


Oh well the decison should be between the man and the wife,its ok if they dont want their relatives and friends visiting. What if their parents wants to come spend some days and there is no extra room for them to stay?

obikirinoni:
No steady job.
graduated from d faculty of Eng
Managed a second class upper.
Done with Nysc.
28 on d dot.
bae left and got married early this year.

Dats y.

d world is not friendly

Pele dear. The world may not be friendly, but in an unfriendly world, know that God's love is sure and constant.
True, you may not feel it or His presence, but His comfort is readily available to all who ask. Jesus never promised us a smooth ride on this side of life what He promised is the strength and grace to make it through the hurdles of life coming out strong.

Extra Mega Hug.