TheSeeker:

LMAO!!! Really? What about you? Oh I remember we made a choice sometime ago that you'd get to heaven and reserve a space for me, if women were going to send men to hell; given that you can do that before me, I'd like us to follow suit with this one. Be on the line first, I'll be at your back.

Kelvinj:

C'mon, watz ar u guyz beefing 4? Or haz d advice turn 2 quarrelz as usual?

TheSeeker:

Beef between you? I don't think na2day, if that's who you mean, meant what he said as an insult. I see it more as a joke. _{Never had a quarrel with him anyways}

TEXASGIRL:

Thank you! Who know's his motivation, he may not even know. I am beyond that. I am still a bit hurt because the love was there, but it was all an illusion. Picked myself up, dusted myself off, now on to the greener pastures. We reap what we so, and God will take care of it.

na2day?:

this is the problem with good memory, my friend join the line and stop waiting for me, must i always be the first?
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where in TX are u @ ?

You have to be the first at this. I want to see you take the shot, homie . I see your already taking the giant step. _{Soliloquizing *praying you're in that cowboy state*}

TEXASGIRL:

Houston

TEXASGIRL:

Houston

TheSeeker:

You have to be the first at this. I want to see you take the shot, homie . I see your already taking the giant step. _{Soliloquizing *praying you're in that cowboy state*}

OgidiBoy:


I'm not surprised, all the Nigerian men in Texas are . . . . . including that yeye boy na2day, he is the chief of woman wrapper

OgidiBoy:


I'm not surprised, all the Nigerian men in Texas are . . . . . including that yeye boy na2day, he is the chief of woman wrapper

TheSeeker:

Says who?

OgidiBoy:

@ na2day,

You and who be neighbors, I live in a gated community in Preston Hallow. Me and Mark Cuban share the same privacy fence. If you come near my neighborhood you will be arrested.



Says all the white girls Nigerian men like to use and abuse.

OgidiBoy:

@ na2day,

You and who be neighbors, I live in a gated community in Preston Hallow. Me and Mark Cuban share the same privacy fence. If you come near my neighborhood you will be arrested.

na2day?:

na only preston hallow, preston shallow ko? me self dey live on preston next to the Bushes, in fact, i still dey wait for olokpa to come arrest me for breaking into my own house   i hear say na a sure way to drink beer with Obama for WH  

lmao . Do you want Crowley or Crowney? Oh boy I dey look Obama yesterday as the man dey shack beer, I come dey imagine say if him dey bar how him go look like?

TheSeeker:

lmao . Do you want Crowley or Crowney? Oh boy I dey look Obama yesterday as the man dey shack beer, I come dey imagine say if him dey bar how him go look like?

na2day?:

no mind obama, if hin dey bar hin go still dey form cool guy, make dem give am kai-kai and ogogoro hin go talk true

Watch it boy! You're treading in the line of subversion but if dem come for you, my hand dey sha. As always, I go dey line after you

TEXASGIRL:
Yes I'm white. I am 33, and have been married most of my adult life (that ended about 8 months ago). Howerver, I am not dumb and can usually recognize game. Either I have lost it or he is a master playa, lol. I never thought he would cheat on me. I truly believed he loved me and wee will eventually get married.

TEXASGIRL:
Seeker; Yes the truth hurts and you are 90% right, lol. I am only human and my marriage ended due to cheating. I thought I was over that, but this has brought it up again. A stalker though? Ouch that hurts, but slightly true. Now about the cussing, that is not normally me. I was just soooo hurt. There is more to the story but did not want to take up too much time. I found that he had sex with another woman 2 days after we went on our first date. He says she does not matter because he did not make love to her, only had sex with her. He also thinks that I should except them still talking as long as he does not see her. We had not yet agreed to be exclusive, but it still hurt. The main reason I reacted like that was he would not talk things out with me. He was still angry and trying to calm down. We have never had an argument so I did not know that was how he worked.
I have one more question, why take our pictures off facebook? If she is no longer anything to him? Are the courts/ laws not the same in Nigeria? Surely she wouldn't be allowed to just take his money?
Even though it hurts to face the truth, I am glad I posted this here. It's good to get feedback from people other than my close friends, who will always take my side.
I will be leaving this in God's hands. I know he is the only one who can put forgiveness in both our hearts and bring us back together. I pray that is his will for us.

TEXASGIRL:
He is 40. I opened his phone beacuse it kept going off in the middle of the night. When i tried to shut it off, i accidentaly opened the message. It was from another woman. He is here legally. No we don't live together
She is not his business partner, she is his ex girlfriend (according to him), who still lives in his home and collects the money from his business. He goes home twice a year to collect the money from her. I was supposed to be going with him in September.

TEXASGIRL:
And a liar he is. Yesterday we meet and made up. He was coming to my house for the night (we live an hour apart). He stood me up! No show no call, Then I go on facebook this morning to find a message from a friend that he posted that some other girl is his "main boo". So yes I got played & hard. No more tears over this one. My heart is hurt but I have to remember it was all an illusion. People can be so heartless and mean, and it doesn't matter where you are from/ what color you are. He should realize that God will take his revenge for hurting women (surely I'm not the first)like that. You always reap what you sow.

TEXASGIRL:
Another thing I learned about this is to always trust my "women's intuition". I should have checked him out earlier.