Before our relationship got serious, we outlined the do's and dont's of our relationship and I told her unequivocally that I really abhor with the utmost dislike females that drink alcohol BECAUSE I DONT DRINK ALCOHOL NEITHER DO I SMOKE.
fast forward to this evening, on my way escorting her home. she told me she didn't want to go home at the usual time because she drank alcohol which was offered to her by her boss to celebrate his safe return from his Easter trip and it made her misbehaved when she got home yesterday so she is shamed to go home early today.
She started begging me not to get angry at her but I told her am not angry am just disappointed. Though I love her but I have already started seeing her as an irresponsible person. anyone ever been in this situation?

Thank ur God say she show you her color b4 u enter marriage. If to say she don get belle 4 u nko?

Do you drink alcohol? If no, I'm sorry about this man. Talk to her and let her know your disappointment seriously.

But if you drink alcohol, then you are a joke. You are now the responsible one ?

Brb

I don't take alcohol but I don't criticise people that do. I only raise eyebrows when it is taken excessively, DUI (driving under the influence), tipsy and misbehaving.

Op do you know that most of the things we consumed contain some element of alcohol.

She is being truthful here...pls forgive her.

Strahovski1:
Do you drink alcohol? If no, I'm sorry about this man. Talk to her and let her know your disappointment seriously.

But if you drink alcohol, then you are a joke. You are now the responsible one ?

go back and read again. I don't drink alcohol

1. She could have rejected the drink if she wanted.
2. She should have controlled the intake. Why take it till she got intoxicated?
3. Who takes alcohol during office hours? Abi where did they take it?
I equally feel ladies that drink are very irresponsible (my opinion before una chop me) .
I advice you forgive her but keep your eyes opened from now.

obiorathesubtle:
1.. Work on your vocab.. Esp your tenses Nigga!!..


2. Take a chill pill.. So what?? She _fucked up once.. You don't have to over react like a lil kid who has his ice cream taken from him by a bully.. Relax man!!


3... No really, work on your vocab.. ..

thanks. it was caused by autocorrect. have edited what I think was wrong with the writeup
can u please go over it again and point out wherever u think needs finetuning. am always open to learning

How wee this stop wolfsburg from whipping real madrid's butt now

Bleep it!!!! Am already high as Bleep while I advice u now.....

Its not so bad dat ur woman took just a very little dose of alcohol offered to her by her boss, do u want her to refuse it and get bangered oh sorry fired?

Abeg stop being a sissy about it and forgive her for respecting the wishes of her boss jare

Bar man........ How much is my money

Brother, I feel your pain.
The thing is, take it easy for her. Its already who she is.
Trying to stop her from taking alcohol may not be possible.
Moreover, if you keep putting pressure on her about it she'd simply start keeping it from you when she does it.
My recommendation: Understand your differences and try to find similarities in them.
If you can't stand drinking, maybe you should date a girl that doesn't drink:: other than try to condition one who does not to.

What is wrong with an adult lady drinking alcohol?


Listen, bcuz she's ur gf doesn't mean she shouldn't live her life. Disappointed or not, its her LIFE!!

layla129:
1. She could have rejected the drink if she wanted.
2. She should have controlled the intake. Why take it till she got intoxicated?
3. Who takes alcohol during office hours? Abi where did they take it?
I equally feel ladies that drink are very irresponsible (my opinion before una chop me) .
I advice you forgive her but keep your eyes opened from now.

knowing myself, I will start treating her like an irresponsible girl cos I told her b4 hand that is what will happen if she ever drink alcohol while dating me. respect already outta d window

alexistaiwo:

go back and read again. I don't drink alcohol

Read again, I asked you a question and provided 2 options. And you picked the former.

Besides there is nothing wrong in a female taking alcohol. She is your gf but she has right to her life like any other person.

Talk to her so she puts a limit to it but you can't stop her from taking alcohol because obviously you met her that way. Threaten her that if she gets drunk again you'll leave her but don't force her to stop it. # you don't own her life.

alexistaiwo:

knowing myself, I will start treating her like an irresponsible girl cos I told her b4 hand that is what will happen if she ever drink alcohol while dating me. respect already outta d window

She has apologized na. Don't take it to the extreme...let this slide. If it repeats itself, u can then react

Marlvin:
Such rules n regulations, what do you call that legislative system of relationship ? get a grip , dude ! she took liquor so what ? is she married to you huh ? just a girlfy

In every committed relationship, there must be some lines that must be drawn never to be crossed. like you would know

durentdbiitch:
What is wrong with an adult lady drinking alcohol?



Listen, bcuz she's ur gf doesn't mean she shouldn't live her life.
Disappointed or not, its her LIFE!!

Bros. get lost this thread is about straight relationship not some gay shit so gerrahhhmennn

alexistaiwo:

Bros. get lost this thread is about straight relationship not some gay shit so gerrahhhmennn

I don't blame u, its me dat commented on d thread of an unstable lunatic.
You had better go get a life; people are disappointed in their partner for reasonable offences, you Are disappointed in ur own partner bcuz she drank Alcohol. Shameless man, she shud just dump ur lame ass. Idiot.

durentdbiitch:
I don't blame u, its me dat commented on d thread of an unstable lunatic.
You had better go get a life; people are disappointed in their partner for reasonable offences, you Are disappointed in ur own partner bcuz she drank Alcohol. Shameless man, she shud just dump ur lame ass. Idiot.

I think I touched a nerve

alexistaiwo:

knowing myself, I will start treating her like an irresponsible girl cos I told her b4 hand that is what will happen if she ever drink alcohol while dating me. respect already outta d window

This is my by force comment.



Now op I don't know what ever happened to you that clouded your mindset that every lady that indulges in alcohol is irresponsible, common that's bogus, but oh well whatever rocks your boat.

My suggestion is you should leave your girlfriend and look for the girl that shares exactly your ad version towards alcohol, because if you continue with this your current babe , she may never be happy and you just might regret it.

Love is about compromise, if you can't tolerate or fancy his/her shortcomings then you aren't worth his/her time.


Now ponder this , this girl might just be the right one for you but imagine you leave her for the lady that shares your idea but you find out later you should have stayed with the previous girl.

Oga o!

durentdbiitch:
What is wrong with an adult lady drinking alcohol?



Listen, bcuz she's ur gf doesn't mean she shouldn't live her life.
Disappointed or not, its her LIFE!!

thank you my brother! The op is simply a local champion (at least he reasons like one). Let the girl be jhoor. Shiit happens once in a while.

layla129:
1. She could have rejected the drink if she wanted.
2. She should have controlled the intake. Why take it till she got intoxicated?
3. Who takes alcohol during office hours? Abi where did they take it?
I equally feel ladies that drink are very irresponsible (my opinion before una chop me) .
I advice you forgive her but keep your eyes opened from now.

1. Its just courtesy
2.do you know there are people who that just a sip or even cake that gets tipsy?
3.there are a lot of people that do,especially for celebrations like the op said
So its ok for a guy to drink and not ok for a lady?,last time I check drinking doesn't show the irresponsibility of anyone EXCEPT its in excess

oga if breakup dey hungry you talk am once and for all... after all you don chop banku

SC31:
1. Its just courtesy
2.do you know there are people who that just a sip or even cake that gets tipsy?
3.there are a lot of people that do,especially for celebrations like the op said
So its ok for a guy to drink and not ok for a lady?,last time I check drinking doesn't show the irresponsibility of anyone EXCEPT its in excess

do you know I love your replies to those silly questions

you're lovely

K9blunt:



This is my by force comment.



Now op I don't know what ever happened to you that clouded your mindset that every lady that indulges in alcohol is irresponsible, common that's bogus, but oh well whatever rocks your boat.

My suggestion is you should leave your girlfriend and look for the girl that shares exactly your ad version towards alcohol, because if you continue with this your current babe , she may never be happy and you just might regret it.

Love is about compromise, if you can't tolerate or fancy his/her shortcomings then you aren't worth his/her time.


Now ponder this , this girl might just be the right one for you but imagine you leave her for the lady that shares your idea but you find out later you should have stayed with the previous girl.

Oga o!

that guy nah Ogbologba, just let him be......eh carry the standard of Nigeria wear for head