Dear Bunmi,

My boyfriend weeps after sex. He is the same age as me 26 and I’m worried about him. Our sex life is great, but once its over, he suddenly changes and becomes depressed. He even cried a couple of times and then left a sad man. Im used to men turning over and going to sleep after sex, but his behaviour is weird, to say the least. Do you think he has hormone problems?

Linda,

by e-mail.

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Dear Linda,

Orgasms often produce immediate after-effects in men and women. Hormones are partly to blame, although emotions including love, as well as fears about sex are important too. Most people feel relaxed, and youre not alone in finding men rolling over and dozing off after sex. But your boyfriends reaction is extreme, and it sounds as if sex makes him feel guilty and anxious. The problem might improve as he becomes more confident with you, if not, then, encourage him to have a word with his doctor unfailingly.

Bunmi


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He always remembers this Bible verse after sexual intercourse, ''flee from all forms of sexual immorality to avoid ending up in hell ''.

Its enough to make me weep and wail.

I think this very common for men...they can't control their hormones fluctuations




And its really sucks!

divinehand2003:
He always remembers this Bible verse after sexual intercourse, ''flee from all forms of sexual immorality to avoid ending up in hell ''.

Its enough to make me weep and wail.

sure

The guy know the Act is sinful but he cannot control himself he only fell remorse after the act
solution
he is 26 if he is ready he should get married better still he should seek spiritual counselling
pre-marital sex is deadly avoid it
Jesus loves you

Na the power of weed

Maybe it is because he has not married you . Maybe he always remember the saysing that sex before marriage is a sin.

y s he engaging n sex wen he knws he will feel guilty afta d act..... water plenty fr him eye( crying boo)

Na conscience. The Bible says if anything will lead u to sin, cut it off.

Anyway, my sincere advise is; put Roche in his drink. If he sheds any single tear, make I fall. ..

He is either a sissy or p*ssy nigga

Haha! This is hilarious!

NA GODWIN

Kai. This is strong. Not just cries, weeps?


Let me leave this for the more experienced among us.

KashyBaby:
I think this very common for men...they can't control their hormones fluctuations




And its really sucks!

really common for men ?
are u speaking general here or u r saying most of the men you have had sex with usually end up crying ? abi needles dey there ?

halfricanadian:
He is either a sissy or p*ssy nigga

the babe said THEIR SEX LIFE IS GREAT but she did not tell us what type of sex they are having.

1. is she using Love Machine on the guy ?
2. BDSM ?
3. or she gave him some really painful STD

Its the guilt of sexual sin.

Maybe she slice onions put for her pvssy

D tin Kon pepper the guy for eye

#OnionPvssy #EndTimePvssy #CryCryPvssy

what a life, lol while I start giggling after busting my nuts, this guy is here crying. issorai

Dump his ass and find a real man.

Solution


Get married to him and he will stop crying after sex


Don't b surprised if after getting married to him, he may start laughing after sex


Orisirisi Nonetousical verbalonge

Well...

Honestly..
Maybe he is not ur BF..
U ar jst his side-kick.





I remembered when my GF traveled,for some weeks,& conji hook me.
I called dis bae (what's her name..?,oh yes Alice)..
Immediately I released in her(before I pulled out)

I said "I TRULY MISS MY GIRL FRIEND",I was filled with regrets and almost @ point of tears& d bae give me CONFIRM SLAP that brought me back to reality..

I hope dis principle work out..
Make sure

Your guy is a born again Christian that fell into sin of fornication through lust of d flesh and lust of d eyes.


The only way u can help his quilty conscience is for you to get marry as soon as possible this will erase guilt from his heart

Your man just realised that he ate the apple..... and his eyes got OPENED... He now realised between good and evil

KashyBaby:
I think this very common for men...they can't control their hormones fluctuations




And its really sucks!

[email] Really??

Common you say??
How many dudes have you had sexx with that wept after cumming_??


Shitt aint common. He either aint happy about having it with the girl, or he a stupid_ arse nigger! [/email]

Take it as a compliment and move on. Stranger things has happened

He is a potential F_A_G_G_O_T...he feels bad cos he knows he should be the one enjoying the D_I_C_K....crazy mofos everywhere

KashyBaby:
I think this very common for men...they can't control their hormones fluctuations




And its really sucks!

Don't lie o!

You are cute

JoeCutie:
Orgasm!

When you cum, you feel both good and bad, sometimes. You feel good because there's nothing that compares to the pleasure you get the moment you're releasing. On the other hand, you could feel bad because it leaves you feeling somewhat empty. You must be a kinda veteran to not feel 'guilty' after you've released. It leaves you feeling nostalgic, that you could even vow that very moment to never have sex again, but later? If I hear!

But just as Aunty Bunmi rightfully pointed out, the guy's own is extreme. He should better stop having sex oh. He should confess his sins and become a priest asap. A monk, perhaps. Or even a Hermit.

Why person go cry after sex? Nonshense!

cry bii ti bawo, no be ordinary hand abeg... He needs to go grab a more demanding life/job too. Person like me wey go knack finish hear gran gran for phone instanta no even get chance rest small less feel any guilt except its on a free week wey person fit stretch body small. Orisirisi!