emusmith:
Not all: Which ones does she do in particular?

emusmith:
Haha, small small chicks wey never reach sef wan to form wife material

falconey:



No kidding man i perused your write-up i always do. People do think we are dating because of her overt gestures toward me. Most times i avoid her cooking up excuses especially the visiting part.

tintedniggz:

Lol dey want to belong

emusmith:
Thanks bro for the bolded. Wow, that's confusing o. The visiting part: just decent? Nothing goes wrong? Trial and error? Are you guys sexually connected?

falconey:


There was a connection when i wanted her but since we became friends and she had open up telling me about her relationships bla bla bla


I'd kill the connection because i don't want it to be like i'm taking advantage ,you should see[b] how she roam with undies in my room [/b] .

emusmith:


at the bolded.

I fear God o but if there's a girl whose body moves me crazily do all these; TWO things are involved;

- I'ld either avoid her completely.
- Or, I get stuck in it.

Does she move you is a vital quest

falconey:



Hmmmmm not quite , i would die to see her on undies then when i approached her but now i'd just subdue the whole thing.

emusmith:
Bro, it's really good you're now avoiding her. Some of these ladies are plain "innocent". They were raised that way. However, there are many oloshos just there to thwart a guy's destiny. I think this lady is a nice friend. BFF. You sound like you love her?

Don't mind me, her personality is loveable

vizkiz:
another female bashing thread. Mehn, this trend don dey tire me oh... If we bash all the women for nairaland finish, how many wan remain

DharmyYinks:


A guy will always know wen a boobs touch him even if he is sleeping not to talk of resting it on him.
.

• • • • • Obviously true

falconey:



lol


No comment#

Adaure4ever:
If the guy finds out by body language that the girl is not interested in him, He should move on.
"There is Someone For Everyone"

tommychow:


"Modern" nigerian females are majorly flawed and they need to be fixed. No Mr Nice Guy cause our future happiness is on the line.

And the best way to correct this flawed "modern" Nigerian females is by insulting and bashing them right?

I hope you learn not to correct your kids in that manner,just so you know,it doesn't bring any needed change, it only hardens their heart.





PS: am not implying about the topic at hand,I see no bashing in it

misspicy:

And the best way to correct this flawed "modern" Nigerian females is by insulting and bashing them right?

I hope you learn not to correct your kids in that manner,just so you know,it doesn't bring any needed change, it only hardens their heart.





PS: am not implying about the topic at hand,I see no bashing in it

tintedniggz:
Lol type 1 diabetes

misspicy:

And the best way to correct this flawed "modern" Nigerian females is by insulting and bashing them right?

I hope you learn not to correct your kids in that manner,just so you know,it doesn't bring any needed change, it only hardens their heart.






PS: am not implying about the topic at hand,I see no bashing in it

dcncorneils:
true talk my guy, but guys shuld always read d hadwritting on d wall

emusmith:
The truth is painful but must be spoken nonetheless. I've heard some complaints from some friends plus some of my past experiences. Ladies, if you don't have plans for a guy stop the following:

1. Stop calling him "sweet names" like dearie, sweetheart, honey, love etc.

We know you're a "lovie duvie" but biko, control it enh...don't give him false hope. Let friends be friends NOT lovers. Unless you want to switch over, then you open up.


2. Stop visiting him on skimpy clothes and buttoned shirts, especially when you're 'courageous'.

You visit a guy whose ear NL has filled with topics like 'How ladies behave when they want to get laid". If you don't have plans for him, quit sending those signals. Remember: To every sequence, there is a consequence.


3. Stop getting jealous when you see him with other girls

You don't want to marry him, yet you get jealous when he's making headway, relationship-wise. You're not his mother, biko. Friends sef have limits.

4. Stop discussing your past relationships with him- it's not his business.

This thing you are saying is communicating something different to his mind. You want to talk with someone, you have besties right? False hope everywhere! Now, what do you want him to do? Leave his girl and come solve your relationship problems?


5. Stop visiting him at odd or questionable hours

This is one major way smart and decent girls nicely wipe the thought away from the mind of numerous suitors. If you don't want intimacy, don't visit him at all sef. Not like all guys are like that, but MOST girls are like that. A girl visits you and choose to be a good boy, then she hates you. The next point expatiate more...


6. Don't suggest sleeping in his house or vice versa because something might happen.

This offers a protective measure. Don't get me wrong: if there's an understanding, it's okay. More often than not, in a corrupt world of ours, no one can be trusted in a cold bed. You can trust him but can you trust his "down there". If you don't want "harassment", avoid stuff like this.

7. Don't "miss" him.

Ever woke up in the morning and you see a text message in your phone by "just a friend' saying 'I miss you'. That stirs up questions as much as it does hormones. It's risky.

JUST ADDED:

8. Stop 'breasting' him

You don't have plans for him and you'll be staining his white clean shirt with your b**bs. C'mon! That's unfair! Some will just come with their coconut and rest on your body as if your skin cells are dead and gone. Let's change in 2016.

Abeg enh, let's know the ladies that are still single and available. Don't colour-blind us. If you are in love, show it and don't act funny when we reciprocate. Relationship leads to marriage when both parties are honest to themselves. Its childish and evil to start acting innocent after you have caused him to sin at heart. I honestly believe, a few guys won't easily swallow this bitter pill as they'll seek ways to avenge.

You can share your experiences too.

Goodnight.

Omobola121:
Noted.

Leriebloom:

True talk