Dear Bunmi,

I am in my late twenties, a decent looking man with a decent job. Unfortunately, my experience with women wants to put me off the dating scene. They all seem like scheming gold diggers to me. I get a first date with them, but as soon as they learn of what I do and how much I earn, they dont want to know and look bored with the whole thing. Surely, not all women want multi-millionaires?

Joel, by e-mail.

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Dear Joel,

Its true there are more than a few gold-diggers out there, but most men Ive heard complain of this are using it as an excuse to hide a few obvious mistakes. First, if youre hunting at venues that are crawling with really sophisticated women, then chatting up some girls at a friendlier surrounding will solve your problem instantly. Second, what type of girls do you fancy? If youre attracted to a bimbo rather than going for intelligence and personality, I can see why youre having problems. Finally, think about what you do on the first date. If youre funny, kind attentive and affectionate, I cant see a girl ditching you just because you dont earn enough. Are you sure the problem is money-grabbling women and not that the women you meet always look bored because youre a bit boring yourself?!

Bunmi

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Bunmi

Why tell her what you earn ?

Is she ur wife ?

device anoda means!!! turn gold digger yourself.