I met him at a seminar, we exchanged contacts and we started talking, we had our 1st date after the seminar ...afterwards we had another one, then the 3rd one at his place where he officially asked me out for a relationship and i agreed. The problem is that he's not the type that calls often,because I like communicating often to my partner.
Another thing that trips me about him is how he tends to keep our relationship and dates information seriously. he writes them down and remembers them,the day we met,the day he asked me out and our dates.
I promised never to complain or nag about anything to him. But now i'm sad because he doesn't really keep in touch.I'm the type that likes to talk to her man 10 times a day if possible, lol(I work but I still won't mind such).
What should I do? I really like him cost he sounds serious, etc..our relationship is about 3 weeks and some days old.
I call him too sometimes but I don't want to be the one that calls more. For instance, I called him this morning 11am and up till now he hasn't called me, it's 6:57pm now
Advice me please... WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Talk to him about it,Simple!

U are too needy! Ur relationship will crumble with high speed if he notices u to be the clingy type...


Gosh.. I detest clingy ladies

why not talk to him

Like you sad 3weeks and some days
Its so early to be in a rush
You are a lady
He is the one that sopouse to be calling you and not you calling often
Hope sex is not involved everyday because that's doom for you
Just take things easy and when you push herder on any man they are bound to retreat as if you are bugging them
Try and be atractiva always

Tell him the best way you talk to him on other issues..albieit jokingly!

Calm down you're at the early stage ...


With time you wont pick up..

akudinaobi:
Like you sad 3weeks and some days
Its so early to be in a rush
You are a lady
He is the one that sopouse to be calling you and not you calling often
Hope sex is not involved everyday because that's doom for you
Just take things easy and when you push herder on any man they are bound to retreat as if you are bugging them
Try and be atractiva always

i'll just stop calling for now..sex is not involved everyday because we don't see everyday.. Thanks

iceberylin:
Calm down you're at the early stage ...


With time you wont pick up..

Pls can u explain your statement cos i don't understand.. Thanks

donbenedict:
U are too needy! Ur relationship will crumble with high speed if he notices u to be the clingy type...


Gosh.. I detest clingy ladies

Sir,in what way(s)is she clingy?

akudinaobi:
Like you sad 3weeks and some days
Its so early to be in a rush
You are a lady
He is the one that sopouse to be calling you and not you calling often
Hope sex is not involved everyday because that's doom for you
Just take things easy and when you push herder on any man they are bound to retreat as if you are bugging them
Try and be atractiva always

Sire,communication is key in any relationship,remember

donbenedict:
U are too needy! Ur relationship will crumble with high speed if he notices u to be the clingy type...


Gosh.. I detest clingy ladies

Hmmm,why do u detest clingy ladies? Is it all guys that detest clingy ladies? Don't u like communicating with ur partner and also know how the person is faring and how her day is going

Oyin93:

Sir,in what way(s)is she clingy?

pls read what she wrote in between lines. She says she is the type dat likes to talk to her man ten times a day if possible.. dat to me is serious clinginess

moonsunset:
Hmmm,why do u detest clingy ladies? Is it all guys that detest clingy ladies? Don't u like communicating with ur partner and also know how the person is faring and how her day is going

how many times will I want to knw how ur day is faring? Do u think it makes a lot of sense I call u ten times or more in a day to ask u d same boring questions?


If u like use ur hand to spoil ur relationship. O gbasara m..

moonsunset:
Pls can u explain your statement cos i don't understand.. Thanks

You both are 3weeks old..
With time there will be other Flaws that'll make you detest talking to him.

donbenedict:
pls read what she wrote in between lines. She says she is the type dat likes to talk to her man ten times a day if possible.. dat to me is serious clinginess

I just exaggerated with the 10 times..i was just trying to portray often.10 times is obviously too much...u want me to be specific? I'll say minimum of 3 times.

donbenedict:
pls read what she wrote in between lines. She says she is the type dat likes to talk to her man ten times a day if possible.. dat to me is serious clinginess

That doesn't make her clingy

iceberylin:


You both are 3weeks old..
With time there will be other Flaws that'll make you detest talking to him.

Meaning? I'm i really supposed to be looking out for flaws in my relationship or praying for flaws? This isn't the advice i asked for here.

[quote author=moonsunset post=45314724] I just exaggerated with the 10 times..i was just trying to portray often.10 times is obviously too much...u want me to be specific? I'll say minimum of 3 times.[/quote3 times is even just too much for me unless I hav smth important to discuss with you. Period..

Oyin93:

That doesn't make her clingy

it does to me.

donbenedict:
how many times will I want to knw how ur day is faring? Do u think it makes a lot of sense I call u ten times or more in a day to ask u d same boring questions?


If u like use ur hand to spoil ur relationship. O gbasara m..

Hmmm...ok ooo

Some guys are not just used to calls,do u guys chat on any social media often?That may be his reason for not calling often,he might feel it's of no use calling since u guys chat.In all,talk to him about it

moonsunset:
Meaning? I'm i really supposed to be looking out for flaws in my relationship or praying for flaws? This isn't the advice i asked for here.

I'm not wishing you flaws, love

Oyin93:
Some guys are not just used to calls,do u guys chat on any social media often?That may be his reason for not calling often,he might feel it's of no use calling since u guys chat.In all,talk to him about it

just whatsapp and we don't really chat there, just sometimes.

donbenedict:
it does to me.

Ok,but dats you Sir.

Speak with him and find out why its so, the relationship is too early for him not to want to be calling all the time. If you don't talk now, it would be so.
Although I know some men that would rather not call because "they don't want to so they won't get bored fast.

moonsunset:
i'll just stop calling for now..sex is not involved everyday because we don't see everyday.. Thanks

Op,don't stop calling him entirely just reduce d number of time u do call him.In d morning to inquire about his night n at night to inquire about his day n tell him good night.

moonsunset:
just whatsapp and we don't really chat there, just sometimes.

Just talk to him about it

Justeenaleo:
Speak with him and find out why its so, the relationship is too early for him not to want to be calling all the time. If you don't talk now, it would be so.
Although I know some men that would rather not call because "they don't want to so they won't get bored fast.

ok, thanks

For the fact that he doesn't call as often as you want, really shouldn't be an issue. you're getting yourself worked up over nothing. and if you go on like this ,you will melt your icing. spice up your r/ship the best way you can. quit grumbling !

Yes I believe but it should be handle maturedly
Too many calls might upset the opposite when he or she is in a middle opf important discusion

Oyin93:

Sire,communication is key in any relationship,remember