iAmCharis:
Exactly! That's what killed her. She nurtured the fear for so long till it took over her and led her by hand to the great beyond. You don't want to have such experience, right?

donbenedict:
e get some kyn flying of mind wey go just happen eh, Chei.. well, I dnt want to hav such experience

layla129:


No toasting in the thread please! Goan eat your food

iAmCharis:
Hahaha egbon, you want to eat your cake and have it.

Ever thought of never getting married since you're not comfortable with some things that come with marriage?

ronald4ever:
Not sure if I've got any but if there's then it's the thought of ever getting married someday. Just don't want anything that will infringe on my freedom and independence.

layla129:


Huh Are you kidding? What freedom are you talking about here? clubbing?

Kolade354:
Ashewo man

ronald4ever:


Haha this blues man. See as una club Bleep up? Abeg swerve.

ronald4ever:


Sure have thought about not getting married but the thought of bearing progeny from a divided home scares me a lot too. Like most men, I want to have kids but looking at the pros and cons of kids from separated/divided home no one wants that kind of outcome.

Then returning home everyday with a welcome kiss and dinner served with mandatory 'bedmatics' exercise are also one of the things every man like myself can't do without. Though a girlfriend can still help in this regard but for how long na.

Marriage is just a 50/50 thing to me which has many advantage just like disadvantages but whichever way freedom is vital and respected. Not freedom to cheat or play games but just some space and maintain some individualism in the union.

iAmCharis:
Freedom for some individualism in a marriage? Lol

While there might be some lady out there looking for a guy with your point of view but don't you think that's somewhat insensitive considering your woman's feelings? She sure won't be happy to have a husband who wants to live a private life. Maybe you should adjust this some individualism the union thingy.

Well, maybe you haven't met that lady you'll want to share your whole life with.

Kolade354:
We're coming back next season to win the league

Lsofdk:
what scares me most ain't death itself.
not knowing how and when i would die scares the hell outta me, imagine someday one would cease to exist *just like that*

layla129:

Cool, i want to be like you when i grow up

tensazangetsu:
Poverty
Marriage
Having kids
I don't want any responsibility of any kind men. God forbid.

ronald4ever:


No, not clubbing but even if I feel like clubbing I don't want my phone to be ringing at intervals to come home or some nagging at me.

Here are a snippet of what scares me in marriage. I'm one person who doesn't really like to be accountable for my movement, I can close from work and hang out in a pub or a karaoke live band show and just want to relax without anyone asking where are you or start asking questions. I don't want to come home and then start accounting for where I've been all day and all that sh1t.

If I want to watch a particular tv channel all day I also don't want to be told to change it, let me be free in my home and do whatever I want. I may also just wake up today and pack my bags and off to Amsterdam or Frankfurt as a single individual but when married I can't just do that, I have to account and inform my wife before doing so and I hate accounting to anyone about my life. There are many many things but these are just a fraction of it.

Not also tooting my own trumpet but I believe I've worked hard and secured some reasonable stuff for myself and still striving hard to secure more better things of life and I don't want to get married today then divorce tomorrow and someone just initiate for alimony and I'm left near empty handed over all what I laboured to secure.

KingRex1:
Getting married to the wrong one.

Poverty.

Death of loved ones.. Fortunately the first two wont happen bt the third is inevitable.

layla129:


Funny, you don't want responsibilities Weird its coming from a man

Stanleywaxy:
Two things : Where will I be after I must've given up , and what will life be like afterwards ?



2) Falling in Love ... scares me like a vampire movie

tensazangetsu:

I know right. I don't see why someone who's earning less than 500k a month should even have a family or get married in this hard economic times.

tensazangetsu:

I know right. I don't see why someone who's earning less than 500k a month should even have a family or get married in this hard economic times.

layla129:


Why are you scared of falling in love? It's a beautiful thing

Salex007:
Staying 6 fits under the ground for years all alone

Stanleywaxy:

Yes it is , but I'm just afraid of it .
Taking the risks , the breakups , the emotions .
I don't think I can handle it but what can I say , I just have to try it and see how it goes .

missyQween:
Premature death
Marrying the wrong man and a violent Man
Failure and Not accomplishing My dreams
Not making paradise or dying as a sinner
Not raising my children properly.... This really scared me alot

Akkord4gov:

U reason well

missyQween:



Thanks....What are ya own fears?

layla129:
What frightens you most in life? Those things that the thought of them happening to you scares the hell of you.

Well, i have mine too...which are;

1. Getting married to the wrong man.

2. Poverty

3. Going to hell

Pardon me, i'm not really sure of the section where this should be

TGIF! Whoop whoop