Must I have a girl lover to prove that am not gay,I told u guys have not had any attraction to male sex neither to female sex.I just love the way I am,and she is the only person that says am a gay.plzzz,those that are already passin judgement on me,I only ask a question that the fact that i dont have feelins 4 girls makes me gay.I never said am a gay oooo,plzzzzz ooo.am a poet,is that a certificate that I must have a girl. gays in the thread plzzz easy on me ooo,Have never said am a gay oo.

Saintsam

when I was growing up, due to strong (almost fanatical) christian values coupled with extreme shyness, I found it difficult to have relationships with girls. I was over 20 before I ven had 'that' experience.

Are u gay?
Lets see

have you ever fantasised about having sex with a man, can you pin point exactly what you dont like about women.

See, don't further complicate issues, if you continually dwell on that thought, you'll just find yourselve tilting towards the gay angle! Reread desiree's post, it makes a lotta sense.

IBEXY:

Saintsam

when I was growing up, due to strong (almost fanatical) christian values coupled with extreme shyness, I found it difficult to have relationships with girls. I was over 20 before I ven had 'that' experience.

Are u gay?
Lets see

have you ever fantasised about having sex with a man, can you pin point exactly what you don't like about women.






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N0 1 I have not ever fantasies havin sex with a guy b/4.God 4bid.

N0 2 I don't hate women, i like them, i have lots of them as friends,but i have never,felt like havin a love relationship. I don't know if u get me.

dominobaby:

See, don't further complicate issues, if you continually dwell on that thought, you'll just find yourselve tilting towards the gay angle! Reread desiree's post, it makes a lotta sense.

Am not dwellin on the thought,i just wanted if am a gay without knowin it as she said,or should i forced my self to date a girl just to prove to her that am not gay.I dont love her,i only like her,but she want a date and i dont feel that way.

if u are gay, u are gay.
its not something u solve by positive thinking
it is more of your biological makeup
here in the uk, they know that fact so gay people are protected from homophobes by the law.
Gay people cant help it. They were created that way. That is why we need to understand them.
Forget some preachers here who want you to "repent" (that is if u are really gay) and live the rest of your life in denial and perpetual suppression.
Any way, I sympathise with you (if u are really gay) because u live in a place where such things are seen as evil and can only exist in the pits of hell.

If u never fantasised about men, then why do u think u are gay

Gay men fantasise about thier fellow men.

I dont think u have any problems at all.

You are just a young lad getting the 'feelings' for the first time.

Dont rush. Things will take its normal course.

Ibexy,plzzz,am not gay,am not considering to be one.I only ask a question,if not havin love feelin for a girl makes me a gay.I have not behave like a gay since i was born,wen she asked me out,i told her that I have not felt love or had a love relationship with a girl.and that we should contn been friends,and she accused me of being a gay without knowin it.

ok

dont get frightened

i was trying to answer your question.

u are not gay. u dont just like this babe.

have fun

@rb. R u alwaz naked? Y r u jus puttin on ur jean. Y do u wnt 2 hook him up wit a fictitious Ben? Do u blong 2 dt club, n do u alwaz bled frm ur IDI wen u r bein done. @bamidele, y do u wnt 2 meet saintsam n rb's Ben? Evidently u r gay. 21 BULLET 4 ur grey ass. Un4tunatly, saintsam aint gay.

I'm not sure u are -@ lst not yet. Don't let em mislead u.

angelz:

@rb. R u alwaz naked? Y r u jus puttin on your jean. Y do u wnt 2 hook him up wit a fictitious Ben? Do u blong 2 dt club, n do u alwaz bled frm your IDI when you're bein done. @bamidele, y do u wnt 2 meet saintsam n rb's Ben? Evidently you're gay. 21 BULLET 4 your grey ass. Un4tunatly, saintsam aint gay.

Am too glad to know that am not gay. But is it normal not to have any girl friend at my age?

saintsam,u are young just 20.but at that age u should try to have a feeling.are u not attaracted by those ass,boobs?wat attracts u to a lady?am telling u bro something has to attract u if not u have to chect ya self.and be careful of this bamidele guy he sounds like a gay.dont let him lure u into being gay.dont try to contact that guy.all i will say to u man is try to see what attarcts u to a lady and if nothing,make something attarct u.or u may end up not knowing ur sex status.alles klar.

harvey:

saintsam,u are young just 20.but at that age u should try to have a feeling.are u not attaracted by those ass,boobs?what attracts u to a lady?am telling u bro something has to attract u if not u have to chect ya self.and be careful of this bamidele guy he sounds like a gay.don't let him lure u into being gay.don't try to contact that guy.all i will say to u man is try to see what attarcts u to a lady and if nothing,make something attarct u.or u may end up not knowing your sex status.alles klar.

Harvey,u mean those asses and boobs is wat makes a guy fall in love with a woman? I dont think so.

o boy! u're not gay
when the right chick comes along,
i bet u gonna feel something

Trendy,hmmmmm.May God bring the rite chick ooooooo.

saintsam u have to know one thing.to be inlove u have to be attracted and its either.cos u cant find love without first attraction,cos attraction stimulates love.

Harvey,i see ur point.

Okay i got just one question for you, SaintSam, ARE YOU A VIRGIN?

@ saintsam be sure he will bring the right girl along
but shine ur eyes very well
so u dont miss her when she come along

mystique,honestly speakin am a virgin.

trendy,i will keep my eyes wide open

saintsam

you certainly not gay, so what you dont have a girlfriend at 20? you are a late bloomer. My friend's husband didnt have a girlfriend till he was 24, he was good looking, quite shy but he is married and not gay at all. Don't force the issue and dont worrry yourself about it, it will happen when you least expect it to. You seem to have your own mind, dont follow the crowd of sexual beasts have lots of fun if you can, and please please please stay away from Bamidele bad influence(j/k)

saintsam u behaving like you smarter than everybody else. i see u on another thread toasting a girl hard hard. then u come over her talking bout u have no feelings for girls.

people, lie him telling. he is using this thread to make the young ladies see him. _{his style kinda lame, but if it work----- it work.}

Do you feel something for "same sex"? As in sexual connection or some sort of tingling when you see a guy and all you can think of is how Cute or whatever the guy is?

You might want to test your sexuality. The earlier the better. Watch romantic hetrosexual scenes, and watch romantic homosexual scenes. You'll find out what you are considering your re-action to both scenes you've watched.

If you think you are a gay because you haven't had a girlfriend at 20, or because you havent fallen in love at 20, i think you are thinking wrong. Those aren't a way to know if you are gay. COnsidering those facts, i would say, you are just a picky person and you would find what you are looking for soon.

my brother am not a bad influence ooooooooooooooooooooo see dis phopto below my brother dont you like it why would anyone want to be gay i cant imagine oooooooooooooo be strong u wil be fine redirect ur hormones to eurphria , you hear.
ciao

bamidele:

my brother am not a bad influence ooooooooooooooooooooo see this phopto below my brother don't you like it why would anyone want to be gay i can't imagine oooooooooooooo be strong u wil be fine redirect your hormones to eurphria , you hear.
ciao

Bami uhu!

that photo? that photo is faceless mister Bams and i have always wondered who is really inside that big dress, how do we know its not a man . See Saints's hormones are not yet developed for me, i dont want to spoil somebody's child. Let him remain a good boy for now

its a womans buttocks please

Jammin,can u please tell this thread where am toastin a chick,is it that 'A WISH'.mind u am not toastin her.I told u am a poet.and those are just poems.

Hot angel,am not thinkin if am a gay,plzzz read the thread from the beginnin u would understand.a girl accused me of being gay,and i threw the question to nairalanders that if not havin a girlfriend at my age makes me feel gay.i have watch heterosexual films and i felt emotions,i havnt watch an homosexual film b/4.

Euphoria,I think u are rite.I suspect Bamidele to be gay.

She calls you gay because you did not do what she expected from you as a guy. She wants you to take her to bed , period.
You don't have to fall in love with her to lay her. Collect your share and move on, after you finish write her a poem or something.

this is saint watever sounds like a deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeede a woman wants u and u have the nerve to braodcast on nairaland what she said to you ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh why have u not taken the opportunity what planet are u fromman deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

to be honest why do u think u are a gay, beacuse u didnt do what she expect u to do, nooooo , why dont u run for such lady, to be frank have u falling in love before, i think ur answer will be no and if no pls dont rush into it because u think every one is calling u a gay, Guy follow ur heart pls, and always have that feeling that u are a man not a gay.

u r okay!Goodluck!
Is ur name really Saint?