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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by chigoizie7(m): 9:13pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Twaci: I am gonna answer all these the way I understand them, my opinion might differ from others. 1. The way to a man's heart is good character, good rapport with people. Sex is good, food is good,neatness is good,being independent is good, good understanding with people around. U must not be beautiful. Just have a good heart. All these are good, but the one that supercedes all is good character. For example, I am not the food type, but I know I need it to survive,not that I so much love it, @times, I would prefer u open my stomach and dump the food in there without going tru my mouth(my friends can attest to this). I like sex, everyone does, but I can still stay for weeks without it. What I can't deal with is staying with someone whose character is equal to -1. 2. Men are not scared of commitment. , ok let me just say naija men, I will join the bubu government to blame it on the state of our economy. Let's look @ it this way, there is time for everything. That Mr A is committed to the GF @ a particular age or time does not mean that MR B will do so too. Let's take marriage as an example, and den, I will use myself here too, @ some point in my life, chai, I no de use eye see breasts. But @ time went by I got tired. Now, I started being committed to any lady I date, this mind set is what leads men into sttling down with one person and just forget others. Make I stop here, I don de lament too much already 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by kinglekan: 9:13pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
skarlett: Now I know ... Although sadly most ladies say the same and when the guy finally activates discovery mode, he would be wishing he had an oxygen mask. But I believe you sha! Lol 1 Like |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Nobody: 9:18pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
kinglekan: Werey! Nah by force to dip your thing inside punna ni? Besides, Dr Kingtom don find solution to it, ask him, he will teach you 2 Likes |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by naijaboiy: 9:18pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
kinglekan: You nor just get sense at all sha! Skarlett don't mind him. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by humilitypays(m): 9:20pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
ogorwyne:I don't think I can answer your No. 1 and 2 questions. But for No. 3, the only topic all matured guys or men always discuss when they gather is MONEY not girls! It's teenage boys and school boys that girls form the heart of their discussion whenever they gather. How to make money or more money; business ideas and opportunities are one inevitable topic all matured guys discuss whenever they gather 1 Like |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
kinglekan: You don't have to dear |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Cutehector(m): 9:25pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Twaci:out of all the questions asked in here, this caught my attention. 1. Every feelings for her after learning abt the situation will evaporate like smoke from my heart.. 2. I won't remain friends with her... if I wanted to be friends with her only, I wouldn't hav asked her out In the first place. Dats why I"d appreciate if she tells me befor hand dat she doesn't hav any feelings for me whatsoever. When I see smth I like, I go for it. If what I like doesn't like me bak, I like someoda. Simple 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
possibilita: What do you mean by used? |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by chigoizie7(m): 9:25pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Laveda: 1. Yes, but every guy will always say yes, weda they like u or not, as long as u will open legs for them, they will accept it, but will not have any feelings for u. 2. From my no1. U will attest to the fact that men love sex so much, they can work so hard to make money, and spend such money on a lady just to have sex with her, @least this has shown u how much they value sex(its natural). Now, to answer ur question. Would u have allowed me to have sex with u if I just walked up to u and say, " hey, laveda, I like ur sexy and beautiful skin, please can I have sex with u?" I know u will call me all sorts of name. Now, men knew that he will get the sex from u, but, he has to go the polite way, but in that polite way, ladies still do their initial gra gra thing, it's more like a game, u keep playing, keep mumuing until u get that thing u want. When a guy loves u, he can be in the same room with u for 1month without having sex with u, but will always be fulfilled and happy for just being around u. 3. Yes, the same way, some girls don't even believe in love. For every guy who doesn't believe in true love, he has been broken b4, same as girls, so it is not a gender based stuff. 1 Like |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Smellymouth: 9:26pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Twaci: 1. I've never believed that my friends( I don't have a brother, fortunately ) gets to dictate my interest in someone. If we click, we click. 2.(a) There is this awkward feeling that runs through your mind. (b)If i have a female friend and i casually pursue sex for only that reason and she declines ,our friendship goes on as normal. But if it were the girl i fell in love with and could spend everyday for hours with no care for sex? Yea she had to be cut off. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by kinglekan: 9:26pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
ogorwyne: 1. Why on God's green earth should a guy get angry if his babe doesn't call him in a day. Did his hand get chopped off? He should pick the gaddam phone and call her if he truly misses her and wants to hear from her rather than look for an opportunity to engage in petty jibby jabber. 2. It could be ooo.. . On a more serious note if it happens once in a while there should be a reason why. A guy whose head isnt missing a bolt would chill till he hears from her rather than getting unnecessarily insecure. It only becomes an issue if she has an attitude of not picking calls or she has been acting different for no reason. 3. Ah ah see question ooo.. how many human species do we have? If one of the several topics guys talk about happens to be about babes I don't see how it changes anything o. Ladies talk about guys too so why? 1 Like |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by kinglekan: 9:29pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
skarlett: I do ooo |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by dannyben5: 9:29pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Cutehector:nice one bro |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Laveda(f): 9:30pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
chigoizie7: Thank you. |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by possibilita(m): 9:32pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
adeh39:been a mugu. |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by possibilita(m): 9:33pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
adeh39:been a mugu. |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Izyyblaze(f): 9:35pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
KingTom:I would like to point out something sir. The instance you gave up there is not just a girl/lady/woman thing. Guys tend to do that as well. #truestory# |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by KingTom(m): 9:37pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Izyyblaze:I agree with you 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by chigoizie7(m): 9:38pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
safarigirl: Let me answer just number 2. And I will start answering by asking question. We all know a girls dream man,(popular) tall, rich, handsome,god fearing, intelligent, smart, etc. But majority of them just settle with anyone because they couldn't see the type they want. It applies to men too, we want, intelligent, sexy etc, but we end up settling for any girl available. In naija, what is killing our independent women is ego and thirst for power( control freaks, u can order me around). African tradition has imbibed that belief that a man is the head of the family, so, normally, a man would want an independent woman, but independent women doesn't want to be bossed around. So, men just settle for dependent women as a leverage to control them. The bone of contention here is CoNTROL( being the boss.) we both know that u can't control an intelligent lady/man, neither can u control an independent lady/man. To answer ur question, that is just a leverage to control the lady in question. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by KingTom(m): 9:38pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
adeh39:a hint If I don't take care of it who will? 1 Like |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by KingTom(m): 9:40pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
prettythicksme:lying down for me but some prefer standing up. Lying down you get the liberty to play with everything 1 Like |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by KingTom(m): 9:40pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
skarlett:I never said you did 1 Like |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by KingTom(m): 9:41pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
juhan:Azzin Ehn 1 Like |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by kinglekan: 9:41pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
adeh39: Is by force ooo! Where else I go dip am? No wonder that agbo Jedi seller for IG sey "oko ni car wash obo". We Don suffer for this life, Na we dey wash am, Na we go still pay and struggle to wash am. God why u create too many washer men sef! Abeg call your sons stfuareyouGod, naijaboiy, iamkingzlee, kingdom etc..make we know how many of us remain. You can leave Jeffreyjemez that wan nor get washing instrument. Ijn I pray.... Ameeeennnnnnnn!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by refiner(f): 9:42pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
naijaboiy: ...hnmmm...low self exteem?... someone rich,cute,smart and been flocked around by ladies of different categories....should that guy be suffering from a low self exteem?....well u gat a point there tho... lol...so without sex you can't be in a relationship?... is that it? |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by KingTom(m): 9:42pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by peeparty(m): 9:42pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
KingTom: lol my chest.. dokeh dokeh.. |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by kinglekan: 9:44pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Nobody: 9:44pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
1. Being Loyal and honest. Good food 2. Its better I don't start anything that won't lead me anywhere. Some guys are very emotional but prepare to hide it Twaci: 1 Like |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by chigoizie7(m): 9:44pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Twaci: Intimidation. We all knew how Africa has wired their culture. A successful woman is both independent and intelligent, and an independent woman wouldn't want to be bossed around. But men being who they are, they love controling(boss), and since u can't control an independent/successful woman, u just give way(uncomfortable). That's it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
kinglekan: 1 Like |
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