Why do average nigerian guys or should i say men have this mentality of ''cheating is for men not women''? It's really annoying to hear some guys say this. The other day i overheard one of my neighbours gisting with his fellow guys, he was like ''This God dey wonderful o, the kind fine fine girls wew im dey create nawaah o. Even wen i marry i go still dey chop this small small girls dem. You know say man gats hold body nah... but if i catch my wife eh, nah dat day she go go her papa house.'' Imagine! I'm not saying it's good for women to cheat but, honestly it's not good for guys to think cheating is for them alone. Afterall, what a man can do, a woman can do even better!

U want d cheating? Oya coman colet it

What the fuc.k is the Op saying

Cheating abi? Who e help ?

Women want to compete with men in everything. #feminism. #genderEquality

Op, I hope it is not what I am thinking oh?

Because they are average Naija guys, look for above average guys and you won't need to borther your head.

What's good's good, what's bad's bad. Cheating ain't no good and shouldn't be a base for comparison between the genders. Fukc this! Look for beta tin yarn

All dis generalisation ish is becoming boring abeg

histemple:
Women want to compete with men in everything. #feminism. #genderEquality

I'm Not Competing. It's Just Not Fair To Say That Cheating Is For Guys Alone.

EOOJ:
All dis generalisation ish is becoming boring abeg

Generalisation?

Op, King Solomon had 700 wives and cheated on them with 300 concubines, because your boyfriend cheated on you with just a lady, you don't want us to have peace again abi My sister go and read the bible..

If you want to cheat, go ahead. As long as you're not legally married, your bf joystick is another lady's drilling machine- shikena.

EOOJ:
All dis generalisation ish is becoming boring abeg

Asin ehn. But cheating on your spouse is so wrong.
I have seen first-hand the destruction of cheating. It devastates relationships and shatters dreams.

Gliterrati:
Why do average nigerian guys or should i say men have this mentality of ''cheating is for men not women''? It's really annoying to hear some guys say this. The other day i overheard one of my neighbours gisting with his fellow guys, he was like ''This God dey wonderful o, the kind fine fine girls wew im dey create nawaah o. Even wen i marry i go still dey chop this small small girls dem. You know say man gats hold body nah... but if i catch my wife eh, nah dat day she go go her papa house.'' Imagine! I'm not saying it's good for women to cheat but, honestly it's not good for guys to think cheating is for them alone. Afterall, what a man can do, a woman can do even better!

So in a moral asumption women should be free to cheat too?

Who introduced you to nairaland?tell the person to tell you how things are been done here!Then come back to ask your question!

skywalker240:

So in a moral asumption women should be free to cheat too?

Morally, It's Not Right For Anyone To Cheat. But If Guys Think They Can Cheat Then The Ladies Can't Be An Exception.

tosyne2much:
If I may get you right, you mean you want to rub shoulders with men?


OP, if you want joystick come and collect it from me

You Think Cheating Is All About Giving Joystick And Collecting Kittycat?

Charles4075:
Op, King Solomon had 700 wives and cheated on them with 300 concubines, because your boyfriend cheated on you with just a lady, you don't want us to have peace again abi My sister go and read the bible..

If you want to cheat, go ahead. As long as you're not legally married, your bf joystick is another lady's drilling machine- shikena.

You Go Sabi Quote Bible Nah, When e Reach Crk Exams Or Bible Quiz You Go Dey Chop Biro Or Look Ceiling

If I catch my gf cheating - am done with her' if she catches me cheating - she can choose to stay with me or quit..... 50/50....

Gliterrati:

Morally, It's Not Right For Anyone To Cheat. But If Guys Think They Can Cheat Then The Ladies Can't Be An Exception.

Ur first statement is what u should hav posted earlier...its not right for anybody, and not expecting ladies to do same just because or if we men do it. The society has made it a norm so if a lady cheat's in this region, she is only losing her value nobody wants a cheating woman 4 a wife men will always love to get under the sheets with such ladies but will never dream of wifing her rather he boast of her as an acheivment with his freinds and when d@t freind see her making new commitment with any of their close relative or freinds, they will always spoil her 4 the present guy....presently in nigeria women cheat more than men,...many young girls dont keep one boyfreind u should knw d@t,,.

i hope u not that type of an eye for an eye kinda girl like cheating on ur spouse just cos he did same?

skywalker240:

Ur first statement is what u should hav posted earlier...its not right for anybody, and not expecting ladies to do same just because or if we men do it. The society has made it a norm so if a lady cheat's in this region, she is only losing her value nobody wants a cheating woman 4 a wife men will always love to get under the sheets with such ladies but will never dream of wifing her rather he boast of her as an acheivment with his freinds and when d@t freind see her making new commitment with any of their close relative or freinds, they will always spoil her 4 the present guy....presently in nigeria women cheat more than men,...many young girls dont keep one boyfreind u should knw d@t,,.

i hope u not that type of an eye for an eye kinda girl like cheating on ur spouse just cos he did same?

Well... If I Catch My Guy Cheating I'll Just Break Up With Him.

Gliterrati:
Well... If I Catch My Guy Cheating I'll Just Break Up With Him.

A wise choice..8.....